I'm beyond the vanilla stages in life and activity and want and need the power and stimulation only a master can effect and reward himself with. I need beautiful, voluptuous slave(s) and submissives to do my bidding and satisfy my every whim. She will be flexible and limber as she will be in physical and emotional positions she may not be used to but will have to learn to navigate. The need to restrain her will only occur when warranted for discipline and training and as I am more tolerable than most my discipline comes with less capital inflictions. I want to play as she will desire the infliction as play and pleasure and cause these actions to occur to her satisfaction as well as mine. I will have my way with her and she will welcome my tutor as she opens to a growing relationship if she so desires the growth. Our mission will be on strong foundation and not teter on nonsense. Games are for children and the games we play are for life, our lives. So games will be kept to the seriousness of maturity and will lead to togetherness not apartness. any game playing will be for mutual pleasure and not be one sided as any pain inflicted will be to tolerable levels and utilized as enhancement to pleasures.
My journey will be to search her darkest desires, joys, and pleasures and the pursuit of fulfilling these desires, joys, and pleasures as she too shall pursue what pleases me most. The journey shall be together and open, questioning and answering that which muddles and puzzles, an dovercoming the trivial as togetherness is the goal and objective not indecision. On return I shall reward her with security, contentment, and satisfaction beyond her wildest and deepest thoughts. No doubts in her mind her worth and value to a man. In our mutual agreement my primary will serve us and bring others to the light, will protect us, and be confident in the knowledge that she is primary and not to be frightened of the freedom she provides us both.
The journey is hard and arduous to locate and secure a relationship that is meaningful and without exception. The woman has yet to arrive that is awake and seeing who she is and what she shall be. The confusion still persists that she has some control, that she dictates her destiny. Alas, she does in some miniscule way as she accepts one that she shall compliment, She does have power as only she can offer herself for what she wants, but what she offers is for him, she must relinquish what she considers to be hers and make it all his, her being, her mind, her body, her spirit, her essence must be relinquished to him for the purpose of them. Her mission must be poetic and visible, unselfish and selfish at once. There shall be nothing of her he shall not want and have and she must see this, she must live this
Walk softly thou maiden as your presence is heavenly and graces your lords domicile as a flower in a garden welcomes a butterfly allow him to alit upon your petals and the dew will quench your thirst, forever.
Bring to the table a bounty worthy of a king. Do not let your worth be diminished by actions you shall not take. What you put in minus what you take out, plus what you generate, will be what you accumulate. If there is to be a cornucopia, let you bear the fruit also.
Never hesitate to please, and please even when you are hesitant. Go where you think you are being led. Show your worth and cleanse your mind of decension. Be vain in your beauty and be beautiful in your vanity...a flower is only at its most beautiful when its fragrance wafts in the air and makes me drunk, the attention you receive from me will make you drunk. ....Sleep with a smile on your face and joy of me beside you in your heart. Even when I am not there, keep the joy of me in your heart for it is your heart that is most valuable to me.....make me drunk with your joy.
8/29/2015 10:29:00 AM
I guess it is about time I update my profile ...I've been on this site for over ten years, met quite a few interesting people here and communicated with many more. My journey in this lifestyle has been enlightening to say the least, there are some wonderful people in the lifestyle and surely a majority of creeps, wanna be's and fakers....the lifestyle is a reality for us that do take our sexuality and fetishes seriously. And we all hope to find that reality we seek, that one that we seek that we will walk the path together, enrich each other and satisfy those human traits that drive us.
Over the years I think I have intimidated many on this site who really are here playing games or who really don't know or take this lifestyle seriously. And there are the others who I have made that primal connection with, shared intimate times with or have carved out friendship with although we may have never shared a room together, you know who you are. To those who I have affected negatively, I apologize, if you read something into our relationship that did not come to fruition again I apologize...sometimes perception and communications can be distorted and blurred...I feel I communicate well and never have been deceptive in my actions and as the adage goes " actions speak louder than words" we all know that a relationship is a two way street and it takes two to tango and play. Again I apologize if what you thought 'was' never came to 'be'
For those who know me well, know that I am a fun loving man but at the same time I am a very serious man...I deal in reality only and have little time for the mundane and fantasy. Time is the most precious thing we have and never do I want to waste time. Yes we all have our dreams and yes we fantasize, I to at times as we pursue that elusive desire of perfection in our relationships...we must continue pursuing no matter how time let's our time be wasted and our hopes are dashed....
I maintain hope and I still seek that special one....she is here, somewhere and at sometime she will show herself. I am a patient man and willing to spend my time giving opportunity to those who think that I am their special one, or those that need to spend time with me to learn....i still learn and I still teach ..it is what life is all about, learning and teaching.
3/2/2015 7:48:43 PM
It's been such a long time...my search continues...of course there have been occasions, meetings and misfires but no one has filled the bill ....Halfheartedly or weakly they have made their approach not having a real morsel to devour and I am so hungry. The starvation continues as it is so difficult to meet the one and I care not to settle
5/23/2010 8:40:50 AM
I have to interject here again what I already stated ..........Can one be Dominant and alone at the same time...can one have his own realm and not participate in the mileiu of the scene around him the 'norm' that defines this culture....of course one can....One can define the limits of their being, the defining aspects that shape their dominance and make them a master in this world....I pose this query because, I am different, I want to be part of something but the somethings I see, the invitations that have been extended to me are not inviting, the parts not what I wish to be part of. We all are freaks and some choose to live openly as a freak....to show there honesty, their boldness, their preponderance to being....? Yes, I question the preponderance...who are they and have they questioned deep enough to know who they are...have they defind the real from the false and are able to maintain the separation???? Can they be who they say they are and still partricipate with others who have recognized their superiority and others inferiority. Do I need props to be a master, to be dominant...I think not...either the props are part of you or they are not...if you need for props to make you dominant than you are a fake, a faker....the tats, the piercings, the dress, the motif all make you fake....I abhor, your commercialism, I abhor what you do to my culture, you can not compete because you are not real, you are still seeking and that makes me your master, makes me the real dominant. Also, do not apprpoach me unless you have somethings to offer, something of worth and value to bring to the table. Do not wallow in your weakness and think that is what I may need, that automatically there should be some fantasy of a cavelier to rescue you. Come out of that bubble as it only feeds your neurosis and wastes our time. Strength begets strength so your weakness would only dilute my strength. Why would I want that? Even the weakest slave physically may have greatness to offer a master and honor him with what may not be evident. Provide to me what may not be evident as you may not know what you can offer of value. There is no reason for me to need weakness and even in your pain you must overcome and show strength, realize strength, display strength to be wanted, desired and above all needed. I want not for what may not nourish me. So feed me with all that will lift me and you if you are there with me....do not waste our time with your pittance of self, I need not for time to be wasted with nonsense
Can one be Dominant and alone at the same time...can one have his own realm and not participate in the mileiu of the scene around him the 'norm' that defines this culture....of course one can....One can define the limits of their being, the defining aspects that shape their dominance and make them a master in this world....I pose this query because, I am different, I want to be part of something but the somethings I see, the invitations that have been extended to me are not inviting, the parts not what I wish to be part of. We all are freaks and some choose to live openly as a freak....to show there honesty, their boldness, their preponderance to being....? Yes, I question the preponderance...who are they and have they questioned deep enough to know who they are...have they defind the real from the false and are able to maintain the separation???? Can they be who they say they are and still partricipate with others who have recognized their superiority and others inferiority. Do I need props to be a master, to be dominant...I think not...either the props are part of you or they are not...if you need for props to make you dominant than you are a fake, a faker....the tats, the piercings, the dress, the motif all make you fake....I abhor, your commercialism, I abhor what you do to my culture, you can not compete because you are not real, you are still seeking and that makes me your master, makes me the real dominant.
9/13/2009 12:18:03 PM
Where does it all begin, who are you? How is it determined that you are dominant, submissive, switch or slave. Or how you are male or female in instinct and nature. Naturally you are born in a body that physically has male or female features. You are born, normally, to parents a male and a female, father and mother whose responsibility is to nurture you, guide you, and educate you to become, someday a productive and flourishing adult, and here, the shaping of who you are begins. A child is born and nature is its initial teacher while the parent's function is to protect that infant from harm. As the infant grows it becomes mobile and develops the unquenchable thirst for knowledge and the freedom of new experiences. However, as all children reach out for new and different things, to explore, even the best parents have a tendency to be cross with their offspring as the infant continually explores, and gets into things. At first the child's antics are cute and adorable, but, the parents soon weary of the continuous picking up behind the child and interceding in the childs curiosities and behaviors that are less than desireable to the parent. Soon the parent is saying 'NO' in no uncertain terms to the child and will lightly, at first, punish the child for repeated behaviors and curiosities the parent dislikes. By about age two, as the child develops its individuality, the "NO's" become more frequent and the punishments more severe for even the smallest of indifferent deeds the child explores. By age three the child starts showing a tendency to do one of two things, or sometimes a synthesis of both, the child will subdue its curiosity and desires, and or sneak and do them when able. In either case or its synthesis, the child has begun to exhibit a false face to mask its true nature and provide the parent with what the child percieves the parent wants to see. The child becomes the dominant, the submissive, the switch, or the slave it will remain for the rest of its life and this face will lend itself to all the social ills and mental illnessses we experience in all men's societies. The problem began when the parents of a child overstep their roles as primarily guardians and patient teachers of essentials and substitute and replaces natures teaching with preconceived notions, fixed ideas, and hit or miss tactics, learned and instituted over generations of parenting. Every time a child does right, nature correctly rewards with pleasure, as simple as an example is a child putting food in its mouth instead of throwing it down ....the child learns the reward of food and the pleasure it brings in taste and supplement. Every time a child does wrong, nature punishes with pain and as example a child learns the hot stove principle without much repetition to repeating a painful mistake. Parents on the other hand sometimes punish and sometimes don't, sometimes reward and sometimes don't dependent on how weary or pre occupied they are which sends mixed signals to the child making for uncertainty and anxiety, and another cause for a false face in the child. Nature has equipped us all with a very strong survival drive. In order for a child to survive its parenst wrath, and to receive acceptance, and feel security, the child will hold back its true thoughts, desires, wants, and impulses to display the face which is most successful with the parents, since this face is the one that the parents want and not the childs true identity. The false face garners more reward from the parent. The true face is displayed less frequently and only usually when the child is alone and or away from the parents. This is why people desire to be alone to do their best thinking. The child that is conditioned to subdue his desires, over a period of time loses the desires and the imagination, originality, and reasoning ability they were naturally born with. These individuals are the worlds submissives, confused switches, and willing slaves...they make great military men and civil servants because they take orders well, they don't have to think much or make decisions on their own they are willing to accept what is directed at them. The child that sneaks and acts out his desires, even plotting to do so has little respect for authority, has great creativitity, powerful reasoning abilities of the "if, then, type" and will be a dominant person and will be the businessman, the macho leader, politician, or the elite of con artist. An example this group will be the Bill Gates, the Hugo Chavez, the barak Obama and a Bernie Madoff. Most children will learn how to vacillate between sneaking and subduing which causes the conflict of choosing and in later years, the adult years, leads to the neurosis and psychosis most of us share and we witness in societies and that lends itself to the direction the world and its cultures pursue in their quest to master the world.... How can they master the world when they can't make up their minds on whether they are masters or submissives themselves. Quite a quandry all by itself. Are we to be a subdued world or completely emancipated world in mind and law. Is it possible that we will recognize the false face we wear. All of us can not be dominant, so some are relegated to submission and slavery and all in between, naturally. This goes against the original premise that nature would teach us all we need to know to survive. So it must stand true that we develop our chharacters from the successes we experienced as a child, how susccessful were we as sneaks, and how successful were we as subduers to the wrath we experienced. A question each of us can only answer through deep thought and introspection. As your adult life has progressed your character will be evident....you are who you were when...you will know whether you are dominant, submissive, or a slave, or some configuration and synthesis of these traits. You above all will know
8/1/2009 10:52:40 AM
Someone recently asked me what I would like to get out of the lifestyle...a very poignant question to say the least and for a second I had to stop and think about what I want to get out of the lifestyle. First I identify that I am a naturally dominant man, that I want control, that I want pleasure and security above all and for those that are closest to me. Second I want that person who is closest to me and shares the lifestyle with me to gain all those things from the lifestyle and her` relationship with me participating in the lifestyle that she needs and wants. Thirdly, I want the lifestyle to be a pleasant and fulfilling experience that it will allow me and mine to grow and prosper, psychologically, socially, and spiritually, and that physically I / we will experience the nirvana that we pursue in all our endeavors. Fourth, I want the lifestyle to be natural, that its place in my life comes without effort and is part of my persona invisibly so not to be intimidating or harmful to me, or those I interact with in my earthly life. That those closest to me recognize the invisible persona and accept that trait without prejudice. Fifth, that all priorities are in order, that life and the pursuit of happiness is for everyone and that I support that and remove any selfishness I may be tempted to exhibit to allow all others to gain and relish their hapiness in addition to mine. Sixth, I want my woman to be respectful of her man without question, to be queenly with me and subservient willingly and provide the contact to me that will satisfy and make me the most whole and regal of men. To maintain herself as feminine, tame her `tongue and do what is comrehensive and compatible for our well being at all times.
7/6/2009 7:27:39 PM
You are who you were when, it doesnt make any difference what you attempt to do you will be shaped by the environment and the parents or those who raised you and how they raised you. Most of you got what can be considered a half way decent upbringing that allows you to function what you perceive as normal amongst all the others who think they are acting normal ....but stop and think half of the time there is a little anger in you, something you can sense but just can't put your finger on ...a neurosis of sorts that keeps you angry and at the same time trying to release from that anger. You learned how to love when you were when, love was defined for you when you were when and that is probably at the root of most of your problems. You have defined love by what you experienced by the very ones who should have been unflinchingly, unconditionally, unrepentently loving you...but they too as you have found are posers, because they too are who they were when. I reach out to submissives and slaves here innocently, meaning only the best for them, trusting always initiallyto initially befriend them, not collar them. I too am hungry for education, I am who I was when is my love any different. I have to claim yes...I have opened my heart, my home, my arms and unflinchingly, unconditionally extended myself to so many, making that great attempt to renew them, educate them, rehabilitate them, remodel them all the time witnessing their reluctance, their naivete, their sometimes stupidity, their shortcomings. And I know it is a matter of time before they must leave me because they can not overpower me, overcome me, defeat me. There is only one right way, there is no synthesis, no maybe this time....You are who you were when, and unless you can remove those clothes you have been burdened with and walk like the emperor, unless you realize their has to be a rebirth, a revision, an education, your neurose will remain. You've heard the term 'free your ass and your mind will follow', it works in reverse "free your mind and your ass will follow", actually it will lead you to the peace and position you have been searching for. The awakening will occur, the truth will prevail because finally who you are is now....yes the trapping of who you were when will remain lurking and waiting to rear its ugly head again at your weakest moments. You will see it there constantly an laugh at its absurdity....it does value as this torment, but never to be picked up again. So all of you posers, pretenders, wanna bes, your tattoos and peircing do not make you, the dyed hair and heavy make up, the bodices and corssets and leather leggings and fishnets, and crops, flogs, canes and clips do not make you ...you were who you are when...you always have been a sub , a slave, a dom/domme, a zoospore, a mole, never to open your eyes. Who are you? Do you know? is your definition of love the same as your mates? Will that trust see you through, will the love sustain you? A real master needs no props, no hype, no false hoods, no deceit, no disguises. There is no fear, no neurosis, no doubt. He / she ( and yes I put her after me ) knows before his/ her sub what will be, and knows right for each. There is no doubt. A sub shall not and can not challenge a true master, it is not a contest, you cannot revert to who you were when, it just will not work. Take my advice, realize who you are, and how you got to who you are. The wall paper may have changed, you may not have on shackles, but you are still entrapped. " free your mind and.......
5/18/2009 6:33:14 PM
Libidinous urges dictate that we all be egoistic and that we go after ferociously and cunningly, as subtle as it may seem to us, those things that will please us the most. In our primitive state, like animals, we will prey upon the weak, the unsuspecting, the careless, just to satisfy those desires to conquer. We test our abilities perpetually, honing tese abilities to be more effective. Over time, and as we mature, the conquest seems less important than the outcome of a conquest. For it stands to reason that as a predator sooner or later you will vanquish. What is more important is the trophy gained than the battle. Without a doubt if you pursue your prey long enough, victory is always inevitable. It's the taste of your victory that is more important. No two of us will have the same desires or ultimately and identically want the same things which always leaves a dilemma, especially between the sexes. And, if either or both can not have that satisfying taste of victory in the relationship than the bad taste experienced by the vanquished will undo that which has come together. The taste has to be satisfying to both. Myself, I am very selfish to own my woman and as circumstances allow to keep her. My most primitive instincts indicate and direct that this is the way it should be, not that there is no reward for women, because she and only she or it may be, they, as circumstances allow will know the reward found in their man. This may sound surfically callous, but, the security there is permanent. It was proven by the caveman and tribal cultures through time, and, can stand up to the test of time, even today. A man can serve many women, but in essence, a woman can only serve one man. To put two men between one woman brings a blood battle, of which women know so well they avoid.
There is no substitution for manhood in a woman's life. There is sacrifice as some females will find accepting a synthesis in what ever form they can reason, and it is not the same and never will be. The depth of their frustration only grows in the synthesis. Alas, females have such insecurities, doubting their own presence, appearances, abilities, and confidences, looking at their disabilities, or having lack of motivation, they drive away what they want and need most, the man they need most. Their egos get in the way of what may be good or best for them. They are not predatory, there hunt is haphazard at best as has been proven that they best serve as gatherers and domestics. This realism led to the discipline between man and woman, with woman accepting their roles as the support for man. The formula works well in all cultures and to the benefit of womankind. They propagate the races and shall inherit the earth.
This man wants more from woman, and tries to embrace her to cultivate that which is possible in them. In his quest he tries methods to make her see that there is only man for her, that bidding on his needs is what is most important, and can and will only advance what is most important for that woman. In him she will gain that temple, that peace, that security that she so dutifully desires, needs, pursues, and deserves. A woman needs a master. One who finds those answers to the quest for pleasure and fulfills those pleasures that elusively appear and can be sensed by her and him. Without a master a woman is totally lost, she is wandering in the desert, parched and dying, humbling herself to whoever approaches, fearful, and unknowing what lies beyond the next dune. Where is the oasis, she seeks? If only that man had taken her and not been so gentle manly, where would she be now.
