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I am a warm, passionate, sensual, sadistic bitch, who enjoys protocols and rituals. I am pansexual, I love the person and not the gender, My mind set is Old Guard/Old World ways. (I share my birthday with the Marquis de Sade)
I am on the 2nd half of My life's journey, I have done the self journey and find I like who I am. I am into wanting instead of needing things and people in my life. Big difference in my books. I am also always learning and improving myself to be better in all areas of my life.
If you take time to get to know me you will find that, as kind as I can be, I also can be an in your face bitch, I do not back down from confrontation and can be confrontational. I own my mistakes and can pat myself on the back in praise and hold a very high standard for myself in how I treat others. I have been in the lifestyle for close to 20 years now. I remember when I was first introduced to BDSM, I thought, of course life should be this way. What drew me in was the foundation I saw. Respect, Communication, Honor, Hierarchy and S.S.C. It had nothing to do with the kinky sex, that was an afterthought for me (an enjoyable one).
I started in Old Guard ways of learning, as a submissive and over the next 4 to 5 years earned respect and a place as a Domina. Never looking back I am always evolving and learning.
Since then, I have owned 2 submissives, and 1 slave. I don't believe in Velcro collars. I have also accumulated many friends. Some who I get to play with and some I get to play on and you all know who you are . I am very loyal to my friends and am a fighter of injustice.
I did a talk show for about 5 years on the internet called
Ask Lady Joan. I miss doing that, I so enjoyed sharing my wealth of knowledge to those who called in asking important questions.
I believe in the Sister/Brother hood for both sides of the coin and think it is important to get back to the old ways so they are not forgotten.
I am very much part of the S. W. Ontario BDSM community and not a just behind closed door kind of person.
I also am the founder of a group for Femdoms call Rsenic-n-Ol-Lace. If you want to know about it ask me. Or come join my Fetlife Group
Respectfully
Lady Joan
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