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| Hi - I am loving man who is also a strong submissive. This is my vanilla dating profile and I would love to meet someone for a healthy, loving bdsm relationship - hopefully Female Led :)
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As I just sat down to write, this, it occurred to me that these profiles are like a little prayer being sent out in to the universe. I have been single now for five years and over time, my prayers have changed significantly. I think that is because I have grown quite a bit as a single male and in my confidence of who I am as a man, friend and partner.
I am on a search for connection - the easy connection that just occurs when there is chemistry, curiosity and communication that two people seem to effortlessly share.
I also know how hard that is to find. Love and attraction is a feeling, and not necessarily just a rational choice - like picking fruit at the grocery store.
Hopefully you are secure in the choices that you are making for yourself in life – grounded and brave – to be you. Based on my history of attraction, you are probably wise and unafraid to use your wisdom and leadership with others. I am the same and I would like that with another.
I do have some peculiarities. They are part of me and I would like to be valued for them, as opposed to them being an impediment for how someone else wishes to live her life.
I am not so materialistic, I have money – but my dreams are retiring before I am 50 and a lot of my financial decisions have been aligned with that for a long time. I know that is different then how most people live. I don’t feel cheap, and I am generous, but in some ways, I guess I am.
I also have a huge analytical brain. I have come by it honestly and I definitely have my pluses and minuses using it. Here too, I have noticed that a lot of people aren’t like me. I am not completely ‘easy going’. I am a communication guy who talks out conflicts and feelings and hurts and fears. If you don’t want that – I am a bad choice :)
I also have a kinky brain, partly as a result of above. You should know that I am naturally monogamous and celibate, but with the right partner – there is really no sexual thought that hasn’t been in my brain. Being with a partner who accepts her attraction to sex and sexuality – and who is communicative too about sex – would be nice.
I am romantic, dependable, quiet, a little bit introverted, grounded and assertive in my life. I love dancing and reading. I see a lot of movies. I listen to a lot of music and I dance and sing in my apartment. I love getting out in to nature and escaping to a beach a few times a year – especially in the winter. I also love shopping and cooking- it helps me feel grounded in my life.
If this speaks to what you want from a man, I would love to know who you are.
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