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It seems to me that there are three types of male 'sadists': 1) crazy 2) caring and 3) fake. I think you'd want to steer clear of the crazy kind - these are guys who literally derive pleasure from watching suffering. Caring might not be the best term for the second type - I mean that this type of 'dominant' wants to help you to reach your submissive g spot. :P This type enjoys the ritual and intensity of the companionship involved in delving into alternative sexual practices. The fake kind is, basically, a guy who likes looking at naked women and who claims to be dominant. :P I think I fall into the second category. I once had a girlfriend who harbored submissive fantasies and so I began engaging in activities to help her go deeper and deeper into her desires/needs for temporary submission. I really enjoyed doing this. I enjoyed the aspect of controlling the situation and guiding her into various activities in which she would receive pain/humiliation and submit to the desire to do what she was told to do. So this would be my ideal situation - I'd like to find someone very open-minded who likes the idea of experimenting every once in a while with bondage or 'pain' or 'power exchange.' I am a real art lover - I go to the galleries religiously - and I am a voracious reader. I like literature, philosophy, mythology, religion, sociology...anything thought-provoking. So I'm looking to make a dual connection - I'd like to connect on the level of intellectual and cultural friends, but I'd also like to meet someone into bdsm - who keeps the bdsm stuff within moderation as a temporary release.
6/5/2014 7:24:43 AM

You told me about your rape fantasy and I found it interesting.

 

So I told you to leave your front apartment door open during certain days and times.

 

One night I came by and walked into your place.  

 

You did not want to be hurt, so you did what I told you to do.

 

You removed your clothing, as I watched, and then stood with your hands behind your back facing a wall.  When I put the rope around your wrists and quickly tied them, you began having second thoughts.  You tried to speak but I grabbed you by your hair and whispered into your ear that you will remain quiet.  It is too late.  I am going to take you and use you.

 

I grabbed you by your arm and lead you to the bed.  I pushed you down onto it and removed my own clothing as you watched the man who was going to force his cock into you get hard.

 

Before fucking you, however, I enjoyed your body.  I caressed your skin and kissed your breasts.  I fondled and squeezed your breasts and pinched your nipples slightly.  I waited for you to get wet so I could take you.

LolaDaze
 
 Age: 34
 Kansas City, Kansas