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Before I go into who I seek, I believe it is vitally important to let you know who I am so that your decision to contact me or not is an informed one rather than the proverbial "shot in the dark." With the number of abusive personalities online, this verifiable synopsis of who I am and what I have experienced is very important.
In the profiles and journal entries here how many times have you been subjected to or read accounts of a self-proclaimed "master" who, when first contacting a potential sub, use vile, vulgar and crude language toward a person they do not know at all? What about the absurd commands or characterizations they utter - these are not "masters" in any respect. How can you find search a true master or dom without first being presented with varifiable credentials: how can you ever feel safe to wholly submit yourself and be vulnerable to a mere title? If you are submitting yourself to a true master, shouldn't that potential master submit some evidence that he is transparent and real?
I like to think that my pedigree is one that offers itself to a submissive female who understands that I am serious in my commitment to the lifestyle; and that I am not someone who merely views the D/s dynamic as a short term pleasure playground.
My affiliations are or have included MAsT Baltimore, MAsT DC, ClubFem VA, Black Rose and the Crucible. I was a graduate of the internationally recognized Master Taino's MTTA Academy, and after graduating, served as a staff member on two separate occasions. I co-presented a course at the Charm City Fetish Fair in Baltimore, and am serving as a member of the planning group for this year's event. I was also twice a staff member at MsC (Silver Spring, MD). I am committed to continued growth as an individual, a dominant and as a lifestyle community member - these are facts, not empty boasting.
I have been transparent and placed my cards upon the table - it is now time to openly and truthfully let you know who it is that I seek. (1) Though not most important on my list, this is pretty straight foward: as you can see, most of my affiliations and relationships are centered in MD; and I am interested in developing a D/s relationship with a sub female in or near the Northern Virginia area. (2) I enjoy many forms of physical and mental play; however, no matter what we do, your safety is primary - if I take your gift of yourself to me, you are my property and protecting the property is the first order of business. (3) I value submission rather than submissiveness - if you are a type A personality so much the better. Your strength, intelligence and other abilities add value to this dynamic and will not be tempered, ignored or taken for granted. You will not "top from the bottom"; but, that does not mean opinions or suggestions regarding various aspects of the dynamic (including the vanilla part when relating to the day-to-day encounters with the outside world) will not be put into action or practice. (4) I have no desire to tamper with current friendships or professional responsibilities: I will be shown all proper respect, etc., but, I have no need to publically demonstrate my mastery "out there" (unless that is something you require, and we first discuss). (5) If you are bi-sexual or have an interest in exploring that side of yourself, I have no objection so long as you are transparent with me - I will help you to grow in all ways possible. Remember, the more valuable you become, the more value is added to this dynamic.
If you are without a dom/domme/owner at this point in life, or are just curious about exploring the submissive within, this is a wonderful and safe opportunity for us both. I am not seeking a slave or someone incapable of standing on their own two feet; instead I require the whole package: a sub female who thinks both within and outside of the box.
Please be serious - I am not seeking "one night stand" engagements or play partners. I take care of myself in all aspects: physically (I work out regularly and am in good shape; intellectually (reading, drawing, writing, etc.); and spiritually (this does not mean I am religious). I would expect that you try to better yourself each day as well. I am real and so to should you be. Transparency is paramount, there is nothing to hide and there are not, or will ever be, secret agendas. If you have baggage (good or bad), let me know - it is part of who you are; and if you willingly submit to me, that baggage becomes a part of us.
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