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D/s couple looking for another slave/submissive to join our Poly household for a long term relationship. We're not really interested in temporary play pets or short term flings so you fakes and gamers can keep right on clicking onto the next ad. I/we are looking for life mates. If that type of situation interests you then feel free to contact Me/us. An intelligent, mature, or at least a mature "acting" woman who has some experience would be preferable but we are not close minded and will consider all who are serious. We will even consider submissive and/or slave oriented TV's but in this case would have to be more specific in terms of physical appearance. It would need to be someone that is petite, legitimately feminine and somewhat passable, lets say 165lbs or less. The Male is simply not attracted sexually to man sized women. LOL
Dragon & flutter
UPDATE- 4/22/10
We're a male Dom couple in search of another sub female. A domestic/sexual slave would most accurately define the woman we seek. Not just looking for a sex toy but a true life partner that will become a permanent life mate and share our goals, dreams, perversions, and all of lifes everyday up's and down's. We're in our 50's and your age is not a huge issue but I'm not interested in anyone so young they can't figure out how to balance a checkbook. Anyone that is younger or older would be considered. Our kids are grown and living elsewhere so we're not really looking to have more kids in the house but we're FLEXIBLE depending on the person involved and the specifics of their life and parenting situation. If you have a teen that has their life on track and a head on their shoulders then it may not be deal breaker.
Our interest in the BD/SM lifestyle is just that... an interest. It is not our "entire" life. We enjoy what I would say is a somewhat "normal"...God I hate to use that word... balanced life in many ways. We work to make a living, play when we can, love to travel whenever possible, love antiques and old houses. We love to ride the Harley and go to bike events when possible. We love to camp and get away to the mountains whenever possible. We love to dig in the dirt and watch our gardens thrive. He loves to cook and does most of the cooking. We love to catch a good movie. Normal stuff. Our list of interests in life is almost endless. Lets just say I/we do enjoy life every chance we get even though we are somewhat homebodies and laid back kind of people. I/we believe in appreciating the finer things as equally as the simpler things in life. Taking time to smell the roses along the way and enjoying the adventure of the journey is at least as important as the destination itself.
The male has been a swinger on and off most of his adult life. She has also had some swinging experiences along the way. He has no issues of typical male jealousy. His ego is in check and he has no issues with insecurity or being in touch with his emotions. He is able to communicate them when he desires or feels the need. We HATE drama and anyone that seems to drag it around with them like it's some sorta fucking trophy. If that's you... then we will definately NOT be a match. We enjoy a peaceful life and enjoy some of the simplest things in life to the utmost so we have no desire to be involved with any drama queens. We try to eat healthy and are both absolutely drug and disease free and expect the same from you. That means ZERO tollerence for ANY kind of smoking or drug use.
We're looking for a woman that shares a desire to have a Dominant man and another sub female in her life, her house, her bed, and can establish a sisterly bond with His other sub. Someone that is peaceful, level headed, intelligent, loyal and devoted to serving her Master. You don't necessarily have to be bi-sexual but it certainly wouldn't hurt either. It's just that it's not a requirement. Understand that your primary devotion is to Him being your Dominant life mate but His collared sub is also important to Him and so will you be and that will mean a devotion to "our" collective well being.
The first thing women seem to always ask is "So if You have 2 women, does that mean I can have more than one man?". The answer is... if you are wanting more than one man, that's fine and dandy, but you're not looking for the same kind of relationship that WE are looking for. We are looking for a woman that is looking for a Man/woman couple. If you are not actually seeking to join a Man and woman couple then you are not looking for the same thing we're looking for. Get it? And this does not rule out having other men as occasional lovers... did you read the part about the swinging? If we were to decide to go out to a swing club or whatever... you could certainly have your other man for a while. LOL I'll try to add more to the profile again soon. That's all for now.
6/1/2009 - Still seeking a sub/slave slut to join my poly household. Age not important but 30-40 is preferable. Must be in decent shape and D&D free. Prefer No kids, no pets, no truckload of stuff. Masochists get first consideration. I'll write more later. Feel free to inquire with any questions or interest.
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June 2011... Just wanted to post a thought here. It's been 5 years now since I collared my current sub. We actually met as a result of this site. She contacted me way back then and here we are still! Just wanted the few real people out there to know that it can and does happen...even though ya gotta sift through the many piles of bullshit and posers around here. I'm thankful for my "Flutter" and hope we can find another to join us. |
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It's been a long time since I've put energy into my ad here or updated any info. There are certain things that need to be altered and adjusted but I can't justify investing the time right now so this will have to do. I basically don't find it to be worth the effort given the lack of interest from prospective mates. But I have collared one sub quite a while ago and find her to be a keeper. So my search now is for that second woman that will complete our household. This has been a pursuit of mine for years and someday it may come to be but I'm not gonna be holding my breath around here. So many of the ads I see claim to want what I offer but I find they are typically nothing more than illusions and noone has the drive or determination to make those dreams a reality. I have to wonder... why so many of you fail to take even the first few steps in realizing your dreams, only to remain in the dark and let life pass you by. In the meantime it's spring and time to ride so I'm off to do some living. Dragon |
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Wow, I can't even believe it's been a YEAR since I bothered to add anything here. Guess it defines how much time I think is worth spending on this site anymore. Theres just no end to the fake ads and the pretenders here and only a tiny handful of legitimate women that are interested in a real live mate. It's a good way to entertain myself for a while if nothing else just reading the colorful ads that surely must be written by other men that have nothing better to do than pretend to be a woman. For all of YOU, how pathetic! I only keep this ad here on the remote chance that a stray or lost woman might stumble across my profile and find her way to a better life. For that woman... what are you waiting for! |
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Feeling a need to vent a bit. Like every other "site" there seems to be no shortage of gamesters, fakes, cons, and BS artists here. I do realize that there are a few and I mean few REAL people. It seems to me that 4 out of 5 so called subs and/or slaves would be far better suited as Doms. I say that because they have a list either on thier ads or in the back of thier heads of required traights that exceeds my own list and from what I've been told by some that's a very long and probably unrealistic list. I would think that there be no more than 3 main requirements of a Dom or Master. 1. That he be physically attractive in your eyes. 2. That your interest in lifestyle activities be similar. Notice I said similar not a perfect match. 3. The most important... That He/She be equipped and prepared to enter into a life offering you the emotional safety, support, encouragement and "love" that one needs to be content and still flourish within the parameters that you would be living within should you decide to become a "unit". Beyond that.... isn't it up to that Master to decide what your life will entail? Maybe I should be looking for a Dom instead? Hahahaha LMFAO |
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Well another year has begun and I'm still searching. I seem to be unable to attract the kind of woman that attracts me for some unknown reason. Maybe I'm too much of a romantic for this site. Perhaps men like me that insist on having an emotional bond as well as a physical attraction are simply a dying breed? I dunno... feel free to tell me. I know what I want and I guess I'll go to my grave trying to find it... HER. But for me... life without love and passion is nothing but an existence and barely worth living. |
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Well I've yet to find a woman that fits into the "box" and there don't seem to be any legitimate candidates here either. How disappointing...... |
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Well I've spent a lot of time on here lately...viewing ads and sending emails to what I felt were interesting potential mates. But I have to wonder how many if any are legit since I've gotten only a couple replies. It only takes a moment to reply with a "no thanks" if theres no mutual interest.
Will I ever find that rare woman that meets my needs, desires, and makes my life full again?
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Still searching for my unicorn. |
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