Zynysfan

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I have resisted doing this, but I feel it is a necessary evil. I am going to make this very simple. I said simple, not short. But if you cannot be bothered to read my entire profile, you would not interest me anyway. In any case, for those with reading comprehension issues, perhaps this will help: 1. I am NOT a Pro-Domme. You cannot pay me to do things to you. Along those lines, I do not want your tribute. I am not a Barbie doll you can dress up and parade about. I shall not be, "kept" and so I will not relocate for you and I certainly will not move into some apartment you obtained. I am a Domme in the truest sense of the word and I am my own woman. I do not need your money. 2. If you are just going to send me messages once a week saying something like, "How are you?" do not bother. I am on this site for a singular purpose - to find a suitable slave/sub. Nothing else. If I am here, I have not found him. I have no interest in a pen-pal. 3. If you have no real intention of meeting or are incapable of holding a conversation (this is a requirement to meet), do not bother messaging me. Likewise if you cannot realistically meet me in a timely manner (you reside overseas), I have no interest. IF I CANNOT TOUCH YOU AND BE TOUCHED BY YOU, I have no interest. It really is that simple. I am a very physical person and I have very physical needs. Enough said. 4. If you are a Domme/Dom and want help training your sub/slave, please find someone else. Really, isn't that your job? While I understand that some like to...join forces, as it were, I am not one of those. 5. If you are married or otherwise in a relationship, do not bother messaging me. I require TPE, which is impossible in such a situation. You cannot serve two Mistresses - you will fail both. Also, I will not train your significant other for you. You should be able to do it yourself and I have no motivation to do it for you. Frankly, if I did, they would bond with me and not you (rather like a dog). I cannot see why any would want such a thing. 6. If you are a "Dom" who seeks to submit (and there are so many of you), approach me with respect or do not bother. You cannot challenge me into taking you. I have nothing to prove to any, least of all, you. 7. I DO NOT WANT A LIVE-IN. No one seems to grasp that. I am also not going to put you up for the night in my house. No amount of chains would make a difference. 8. If you just want to be pegged, find another. If and when I engage in pegging, it is an occasional thing. Understand that as I do not have an actual penis, the pleasure I derive from such activity is somewhat limited. It is not my focus. 9. I am not going to castrate you. Just stop asking. 10. I do NOT switch. Ever. 11. I do not use yahoo, aim, Skype, snapchat, etc., and if I want you to have my phone number, I will give it to you. But first, you have to interest me. Just because you are submissive does not mean you interest me (and just because I am a Domme, does not mean I will interest you). I know this. You should as well. The best way to speak to me on the phone is to interest me and show me that you can hold a conversation. (Fyi, the best way to get me to meet you is to talk to me on the phone and hold my interest.) 12. I put time and thought into my profile. You should do the same. If your account was created a month ago but it says, "will fill this out later," do not bother messaging me. That is just lazy and I cannot take you seriously. Also, if you are a slave, do not put in something like, "well slaves are not supposed to have their own...thoughts...desires, etc. so I am leaving this empty". That is a cop-out and also lazy. Here is a secret...I do not love filling out profiles. I actually have other things I prefer to do. However, I acknowledge the importance of it and because I am sincere and serious, I take the time. You should too. I am not willing to compromise on any of the above. I am also not open to debating any of the finer points. If you disagree with anything, so be it. Move on. I really do not care. While I love a healthy debate, you have to gain my interest first. Otherwise, it is just a waste of my time. There, so now I come across as the stereotypical, "bitchy" Domme. I hope you are happy - you know who you are - but honestly, isn't every powerful woman a bitch to the world anyway? Now for what I do want: I am seeking a straight male slave to serve as my butler/personal assistant. I would prefer someone between about 26 and 52. The age part is not written in stone, but you must be stable and mature and physically fit enough to do all manners of things without issue (cleaning, heavy lifting, etc.). It should be noted that I have no interest in sissies. You must also be willing to accept pain! Expect impact play, bondage, and more. However, I am not as...rough...with service slaves (unless they are very bad slaves). You must be willing to commit and submit fully to Me. I do not "play" with BDSM. This is simply who I am, 24/7, and would probably be considered rather "old-school". You must be willing and able to maintain your own residence - a live-in situation may be possible in the future, but that must be earned over time. You must be healthy and drug-free, with a clean record. I want a real man...someone who can be dignified, someone who can hold a conversation, and someone with a brain in his head. I will only consider those interested in long-term. Here are my primary kinks (This is not everything, but I think this is better than the listing used by this site): - TPE (Absolute requirement) - Impact play (Spanking, floggers, crops, canes, whips, etc.) (Absolute requirement) - Bondage (you will always be bound in some manner, even if it is simple wrist restraints) (absolute requirement) - Chains (I love the look, feel, and sound. They are far superior to rope.) - Hair pulling - Nipple torture - Breath play (Not a requirement, but fun) - CBT (Fairly light usually and not necessarily a requirement) - Humiliation (Not exactly a requirement, it depends on the dynamic) - Foot worship (Absolute requirement) - Role play - Queening - Sensation play - Blindfolds, hoods, etc. - Leather (Also vinyl and latex. I am a bit rough for latex but I love the way it looks) - Receiving service - Protocols - Intelligence Deal-breakers: - Anything illegal (Yes, this includes pot. It is a drug and it is illegal. It is not up for discussion.) - Scat - Needle play - Fire play (Mostly just cupping; I cannot abide the way it looks after) - Sounding - Pet play (I may put you in a leash and collar, but I won't be playing fetch or rubbing your belly) - Diapers (Just...no) - Electro play (It is too removed. I prefer pain come more directly from Me) - Inability to construct a proper sentence (it saddens Me to have to add this.) (Leniency is given to those for whom English is a second language).