Self-centered.

His needs are paramount.

No remorse for mistakes or misdeeds.

Does not care about the consequences of his actions.

Projects faults on to others.

High blaming behavior.

Little if any conscience.

Insensitive to needs and feelings of others.

Has a good front (persona) to impress and exploit others.

Low stress tolerance.

Easy to anger and rage.

People are to be manipulated for his needs.

Rationalizes easily.

Twists conversation to his gain at other’s expense.

If trapped, keeps talking, changes the subject or gets angry.

Pathological lying.

Tremendous need to control situations, conversations, others.

No real values. Mostly situational.

Often perceived as caring and understanding and uses this to manipulate.

Uses sex to control

Conversation controller.

Must have the first and last word.

Is very slow to forgive others.

Hangs onto resentment.

Secret life. Hides money, friends, activities.

Repeatedly fails to honor financial obligations.

Seldom expresses appreciation.

Grandiose.

Convinced he knows more than others and is correct in all he does.

Lacks ability to see how he comes across to others.

Defensive when confronted with his behavior.

Never her fault.

Can get emotional, tearful. This is about show or frustration rather than sorrow.

Needs threats, intimidations to keep others close to him..

Highly contradictory.

Convincing. Must convince people to side with her.

Hides her real self.

Always “on”.

Kind only if she's getting from you what she wants.

he has to be right.

he has to win.

he has to look good.

he announces, not discusses.

he tells, not asks.

Does not discuss openly, has a hidden agenda.

Controls money of others but spends freely on himself.

Unilateral condition of, "I'm OK and justified so I don't need to hear your position or ideas"

Always feels misunderstood.

Very good at reading people, so she can manipulate them.