zunshi on Collarspace


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	Back from an extended break from the app....Married, poly, pansexual Bear. I represent myself as an ethical dom, and SSC/RACK matters to me Hunting for a quality sub. Wife iis pan also, and isn't vanilla, but this lifestyle holds no appeal for her. Must be within an hour of me. Prefer 25o to 45yo, w 45yo being the absolute highest age acceptable. 18-24 is negotiable. We're willing to consider the right person as a live-in. Im a very intelligent, college educated professional, but also a no bullshit person in my private life, and I demand, without exception, ALL of the following .... intelligence, transparency and honesty, solid communication skills, and emotional maturity. Discretion is important, and I seriously have no patience for drama and dumbshit. Must be currently un-owned. Willing to train a new sub who has the right attitude. Message me if you are genuinely interested. Im willing to chat with a female sub on possibilities, but main goal is to find a male or mf trans submissive. tyvm, Z

1/14/2023 10:54:41 AM

Haven't journaled in a while...

After having my sub and partner of six and a half years let her undiagnosed mental health issues send her down a path that I couldn't help her with, I decided to chill in the lifestyle and regroup my head. Relationships can fuck a person up if they're not taking care of themselves, so that's what I did. Saw to my own well-being. That said...

I'm back, married, proudly pan & proudly poly. Ironically, she's a fragile flower and this lifestyle, though she finds it hot, is too much for her. Which is why mine is not a couples profile.

So, dear reader, here's the scoop-. Due to all the cheating people in these apps, yes you'll be able to chat with her and meet her and verify our polyamoury for yourself. Next, I consider myself an ethical dom and a big believer in SSC/RACK and safewords. I believe it's a power exchange, and for that to happen, I believe a dom earns respect & trust. Those things are foundational to everything else. Who the hell in their right mind, even for sexual gratification, will risk their safety and emotional and mental well being for anything less than a person they trust, respect, and know they are safe with? Nobody, if they have half a brain.

If you're interested or have lifestyle questions, you're welcome to message me. Let's chat!

I'm an open book with nothing to hide.

12/19/2015 6:47:06 PM

Journaling to say that for the greatest part, I have found the site enjoyable. It's done wonderfully in aiding to vet and narrow down a potential male sub. I have met some wonderful people and enjoyed doing so. Should anyone actually read this I can honestly say that I finally have my eye on a couple of male submissives worthy of consideration. I can also say that I/we enjoy younger female subs for play and that we are actively seeking like-minded couples for friendship and more. We're a brutally honest and transparent pair and that is very attractive in potential submissives, playmates and in friendships. Don't be bashful, speak up and say hello if you find us interesting. Namaste' Z