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| I am a romantic and sensual sadist. Go figure. I am also 90% Dominant, but oh that 10% can be delicious on occasion.
While D/s is an important part of my life, it is only a part. I think of it as a nuance that enhances everything else. That said, there are times I would be hard pressed to deny its power, or want to. A relative late comer (15 years ago) to the genre I knew instantly that I was comfortable here.
As I said, I am a romantic and sensualist. I enjoy eroticism and seduction first and foremost. Bondage, sensory deprivation, the usual forms of corporal punishment and control are routine. I frequently employ mild pain as a way of increasing intensity and as a contrast to softer inputs. Deeper pain is possible but only when desired and only after I am satisfied that the end goal is pleasure. I don't believe there are many real "pain sluts." Most who use that term to describe themselves are endorphin addicts. That's fine. If that's your thing I am happy to help you achieve that particular kind of high. If, however, your need for pain comes from deep emotional wounds or psychological damage then we are not a match. You should look elsewhere.
I am extremely discreet and demand the same. My submissive must be stable, secure and, let's hope, sane. :) She will not be needy. She will be confident and competent, and represent me well. She will have the strength of personality and character to speak her mind. In public we will appear to be near equals, only those attuned to D/s subtleties would suspect otherwise. However, in our private space she is my absolute slut.
You should expect email, chat and phone exchanges before we first meet. Photos will be both required and provided at the appropriate time. If a local then meetings may be frequent. I travel on business, primarily to east coast. DC and eastern seaboard usually with occasional jaunts elsewhere.
Interested? Drop me a line. Let's see what happens.
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