I am not looking, although I am leaving the information below just in case.

I am REALLY not looking. Don't waste your time writing to me. I am happily involved with someone right now. I don't really check my mail here.

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I am fairly new to the BDSM lifestyle, having just come in the last few years to realize my interests, and that others share them. I’m looking for a male submissive who will compliment me for a long-term relationship.

I am very specific about my criteria. My age range is fairly wide, about 25 to 55. You must be educated, intelligent, and classy. You must not only be able to function, but function well, in the vanilla world. You must be able to support us financially in a comfortable lifestyle – while I have career ambitions of my own, I do not want to live hand to mouth while pursuing them, or be a wage slave.

I have a very low tolerance for fakes and flakes. You need to treat me from the very first with respect as a person, and the extra respect due a domme. You must be able to write each and every day, and when the time comes to come visit me or fly me to you at your expense. You must show me from the beginning that my needs, wants, and desires are more important to you than your own.

Please do not reply if you are: Living with your mother, unemployed, addicted to or ‘recovering from” anything, have family or children who will disapprove of our relationship, secretly hate women because of what some ex-wife did to you, or top from the bottom. Please do reply if you are educated, classy, affluent, sincerely desire to have one woman in your life and to please and serve her.

The word “charming” must appear in the few lines of your your letter or I will delete it without reading further. I want to know that you read my profile in its entirety.

I will fill out more of my interests in the near future. However, specific interests and fetishes are not as important as character and chemistry.