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ZerotheVillain

I'm a dominant male looking for a submissive woman. I'm white, tall, polyamorous, and 43. I'm also a decent, funny, easy-going guy, as well as being dominant when it's time to play or make decisions.

What I want is to establish a long-term D/s sex-based relationship with the right girl. I prefer women younger than myself, but I am open to any honest and willing woman who has a strong desire to submit to a man.

Something I would do with a new sub is this...we would pull up in front of my house. She is driving her car and we have decided that we like each other and want to take things to a sexual level. What I would do is tell her that if she wants to be my submissive and submit to me, she has to take off all her clothes in the car, except possibly her shoes and jewelry, and accompany me from the car to the house (roughly twenty five steps) as if she were fully dressed. No running, no turning back. And if she were to decline, even though most of the distance between the curb and my front door is secluded and not visible to the public, I would thank her for her time and go in to the house on my own. And we'd be done.

If this kind of scenario appeals to you, then I may be interested. Though I try to tailor every submissive initial "act of devotion" to suit both myself and the woman in question.

What I expect of my submissive: spanking, anal sex, cock worship, rough sex, handcuffs, role-playing, non-con fantasies, as well as various other methods of punishment. But despite all that, I remain only mentally aloof, not physically. I both crave and desire affection from my submissive at all times. Punishment will be a regular occurence as part of the D/s dynamic, but abuse is not on my agenda. I am not into the BDSM "rulebook" and prefer to make things up as I go along. I would say I'm definitely more of a nurturing Dominant than a stern one, though I can be very strict while playing.

I also have a lot of "vanilla" hobbies and interests I pursue avidly. We can talk about those one-on-one.

Just so you know...I have no interest in the "50 Shades of Grey" phenomenon. I'm not a billionaire in a fancy suit. I eschew all that nonsense and the Twilight swamp it crawled out of. I rarely ever wear a suit, and you'll probably never see me in one. I have long hair, a beard and a linebacker's body. If you can only submit to a man in a suit and tie with a luxury sedan, I'm not your guy.

If you have read this and feel there might be a connection, you have my permission to contact me.
jaimy
 
 Age: 32
 Southampton, Canada