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| ***ONLY local responders who fit my requirements will be answered. I am near Lexington, KY, looking for younger and slim, no live-ins.***
Looking for a younger male--prefer no older than 40, slim and boyish/femboy. Whether you are straight or gay or bi does not matter to me--only your desire to please. Likewise, your marital status is unimportant, as long as you have a place where we can spend time together. (I am married but not thrillingly to hopelessly vanilla man--I have no place to meet, unfortunately.) In return, I will do my best to participate in the power exchange that, ultimately, means the sub is truly the one in control. If you don't understand this concept, we are not well matched. Go away. I'm not interested.
I have many years of experience on both sides of the paddle and cuffs--I served as a sub for over a year to a kind and understanding but strict dom, and it made me a better Mistress. What is most important to me is that we can be human beings together--watch a shitty movie and laugh, have a glass, eat sushi or something else non-American--as well as both enjoy your howls of distress. Please be educated, either by degree or self, intelligent, articulate, open-minded, and perhaps artistic (musician?) I am full of contradictions and don't mind the same in the right partner. And, make no mistake, I'm looking for a partner, not a series of one time bullshit encounters.
BDSM interests are negotiable, but I draw the line at bathroom play (piss/shit) and blood. Not my scene. I like headtrip (not verbal abuse, though), restraints, spanking, strap-ons, ass play, wax, dressing up (if it floats your boat), much more--let's talk about it. Talking is essential, so you'd better be willing to do some. Trips out in public, your ass filled with a ginger root and burning from the paddle, would be a kick. Perhaps you have a collar on underneath your high-necked shirt, or nipple clamps...
Generally, I am fully dressed, you are naked, and, no, I don't dress in mile-high heels to make you happy. I hate them, so fuck that. You are with me to be transported to places you've never been, and to make me happy (massages, paint my toenails, etc.) No sex is desired by me unless we truly, deeply, hit it off. No exceptions if I'm not interested, but I don't close the door to the person who reveals himself as the near-perfect sub for me.
Oh, and no money is involved--I am emphatically not a pro in that sense. I see gifting as something that happens once we are deep into exploring our mutual bonding. I don't need financial help and I don't provide any.
I'm semi-retired (note my age, please), and have the time to devote to this that I didn't used to have. I am a writer by trade and have published a number of stories that involve spanking and BDSM. I've been into this since my teens--you should be as well. I still make my income writing part time. I'm well-paid, working in a specialized industry.
Convince me why I should spend time getting to know you.
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