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Many seem to think BDSM is a hobby or something fun to 'switch things up'. If this is your thinking, please stop reading now.
BDSM is, for me - and hopefully for you - a lifestyle choice. It is something that runs deep within, something intangible that simply is. It is the dynamic between two people that when right is the epitome of bliss.
BDSM is, or should be, first and foremost respectful and trusting. No other type of relationship requires, demands the level of trust that a BDSM relationship does. In no other type of relationship does respect play a more crucial role. When both - trust and respect - are in place, a BDSM relationship is utter release of ones being, is pure ecstasy, is beautiful.
The relationship is about and for those in the relationship. It is not for those outside the lifestyle to understand or accept. When two consenting, reasonable adults find that O/one that knows them - even without having to explain themselves - there is a dynamic that is only understood, a need that is fulfilled only by those who are in, or have been, in that place.
If you're still reading, wonderful.
I won't go blatantly into my Lifestyle interests (other than what is in my checklists). Instead, I will describe myself, generally, as that - I believe - is the more important base of any true and real Lifestyle relationship.
First and foremost, I am a complex, yet simple mix of traits. At first glance I may seem to be a walking, talking contradiction, but with time or a little study, it becomes quite clear that I am simply difficult to define. Viewed in a vanilla environment, it would be impossible to ascertain my Lifestyle role.
I am a modern day renaissance man by every definition. I enjoy social scenes and solitude. I enjoy contemplation and reflection just as much as I enjoy intellectual discourse and debate. I garden, I read voraciously, I travel. I keep myself physically and intellectually active. I dress well and take care of my appearance, though I am not a 'pretty boy'. I am well-read and well-spoken.
I am stearn, yet understanding. I am a disciplinarian, yet patient. I am a happy person, yet I have a distinct dark side.
As for 'you': you are secure (mentally and emotionally); you are confident in who/what you are and in what you seek/desire/need; you are loyal to the One that earns and deserves your loyalty; you are faithful (yes, there is a difference between being 'loyal' and being 'faithful') to the One who deserves your faithfulness; you are intelligent and not ignorant to the world and events around you; you take care of your appearance; you are hard to define, yet you know who/what you are. Finally, you are the last person your neighbors, co-workers, family members would ever suspect are the way you are (i.e., the 'girl next door' type).
If you've read this entire profile, bravo for you. I will look forward to hearing from you and getting to know more about one another.
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