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| First off, let me start with the fact that I am part of a polyamorous marriage and I love my wife very much. We have a joint account as ZendVee on here for interested couples, but right now we are only seeking as individuals for individual playmates, so long as those individuals understand that everyone has to be able to be friends and that I love my wife and am not looking to replace her.
That being said, I am going to expound here on what I am looking for in an individual since this my profile as an individual. If you are a couple, please check out our profile as 'ZendVee' to get a clear idea of what we are seeking as couple.
I am not looking for one night stands or 'strictly sex' partners. I am looking for someone I can have a good emotional connection with as well as a sexual connection. While she does not need to have the same connection with my wife, she has to be able to be friends with her and be someone that Vee can feel comfortable with.
Socially, I prefer girls with at least some level of geekiness, as I am a geek myself. I like a girl to have intelligence and be playful. I also prefer girls who are naturally affectionate, even as just friends. I am a tactile person and love to snuggle and hug and anyone turned off by that will not likely handle me well.
Sexually I am seeking someone adventurous. I love girls with a daring streak and who enjoy exhibitionism. My primary fetish is dressing submissives up and taking them out to be seen or even dressing them up and staying in to play. I am a role-player and love playing out fantasies with costumes. I love a woman in stockings and great shoes and have even completely rejected otherwise beautiful women just because they have horrible shoes on.
While I would say I am technically into humiliation play, my enjoyment of it is less in demeaning them than dressing them in ways or putting them in situations to make them feel embarrassed, but energized by the thrill of it. I love bondage and restraints, but am always very careful with it. I am not much of a traditional sadist, except as far as bondage, enjoying putting girls in awkward positions.
HOWEVER, I am a very attentive and cautious person when it comes to most things, especially anything of a BDSM nature. I enjoy thrill and power play, making a girl helpless, exposed, or both, but I am very mindful of making sure I do not push too far or injure someone. If you are looking for someone to make you feel like you are in possible danger, I'm probably not going to be that guy. I enjoy being able to have a girl completely at my mercy, but still have her feel safe.
I will likely add more to this in time, but for now, I think this is a good beginning. If you wish to know more, please message me. I always reply back, even if it's just to say that I'm not interested. I enjoy meeting new people and learning about people's enjoyments and fantasies, so please message me even if you merely want to just talk or exchange ideas.
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