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ZenandtheArt

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wiggles39
I was recently encouraged to reconsider why I was here on CollarMe and this is my answer:

I am not seeking a submissive to simply play with, to spank, to tease, to teach, to do anything to...I am looking for a relationship that over time will develop into 'THE' relationship.

The person I seek will be cherished, pampered, teased, tormented, spanked, caned, fucked, licked, loved, flogged, hugged, kissed, bound, leashed, taught, trained and cuddled

If you are looking for someone you can trust to swat your ass, there are many here who can do that. If you are seeking something more, something deeper and more meaningful - you should write to me.

I understand that it is possible to have a real relationship rooted in BDSM and based on mutual respect, playfulness and attraction. I am a large, powerfully built man - educated, well read and traveled, intense, passionate and experienced.

I am about 20 miles south of Wilmington, Delaware - roughly an hour from Philly and Baltimore.

11/6/2008 3:58:23 PM
It seems like there are a lot of new people who want to focus on 'activities' and ask questions such as 'what do you like?' or 'what is your favorite kind of play?'

The range of behaviors and activities in BDSM is very broad but there seems to be a common denominator - the activities help to create and foster certain feelings and emotions in each person - and generally, it is not as important that one person likes whips while another enjoys floggers as much as how they feel when those items are used...that's the important issue. 

If the feeling that both seek is present to the satisfaction of both, then the specific activity is much less important and a common ground can almost always be found.
7/28/2008 2:44:51 PM
I would rather be alone than in a relationship with the wrong person. 

I don't expect an instant bond - what I do expect, upon mutual agreement, is a true desire to obey and submit...anything less is really not acceptable.
MissNicoletta
 
 Age: 33
 Philadelphia, Pennsylvania