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Hetero Female Submissive, 52,  Charlotte, North Carolina
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Zaynab - submissive


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Let me first start off by saying that I am not Muslim. My names derives from my favorite book called The Love Slave. I am an educated professional (in my second year of my doctoral program) who seeks an educated man and race is not a factor. Although I am a submissive, I can be a bit sassy when allowed to be. I am strong willed and it will take a strong and confident Dom to control me. I have been in charge most of my life and really relish the idea of giving someone complete control. At work I am in charge but at home I do not want to be. Most men say that they love a challenge but once the challenge starts, they put their dick between their legs and go running. I need hands on in order to make it meaning you the perfect Dom would put and keep your hands on me. I love punishment. I like the thought, the conversation, the threat or promise, of it as well. Being humiliated in public turns me on. I am a good girl as long as you have rules for me to follow and you enforce them at all times. The minute you allow me to get away with something you might as well quit because I will loose respect for you. Respecting men is hard for me because I do not really know how although I was collared for almost 2 years. I need a firm, strict, patient, and loving Dom to get me to that point and I will give him my loyalty, my submission, and my love. I love adventure, reading, crocheting at his feet, and taking care of that special someone. I am twice a widow since July of this year and have a minor child who will not be a factor in our relationship. I know how to keep the two separate. I have been in this lifestyle for 40 years before I even knew there was such a thing. I am open to new ideas both vanilla and BDSM. I have found men on this site to be fakes looking for sex on the down low and that is not just what this lifestyle is about. It is about trust, learning, growing, loving, being ourselves, knowing who we are, and having the desire to share it with someone. I am ready for a new start and am looking for the right Dom to share it with. Z.
31020. I am changing! I dont need a roughneck. I dont need confrontation in my life or relationships. I will choose to obey and serve you because you are worthy of my obedience and my submission. I always thought that I didnt know how to respect a man but the truth of the matter was I didnt have a man or Dominant that was worthy of my respect. If I can serve him and have all my needs meant in the relationship then I am happy and I am secure in the relationship. Being a true submissive is all I want to be and I need the right Dominant to do











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 Submissive Female


 North Carolina

 5' 6"

 152 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Shopping (Expert)

 Begging (Expert)

 Breast Play

 Collars (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Singing (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries (Expert)

 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)

 Musical Theater

 Travel (Expert)

 Canes and Crops

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Hair Pulling


 Massage (Getting)

 Speech Restrictions

 Arcade Games

 Card Games

 Romance Novels

 True Crime


 Cooking (Expert)

 Cross-Stitching (Expert)

 Knitting (Beginner)


 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera


 Anal Play


 Local BDSM Community

 Massage (Giving)


 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Public Play

 Role Playing


 Historical Shows

 Puzzle Games (Expert)






 Domestic Service

 Housework Service



 Curious About:


 Mental Bondage

 Needle Play

 Sensory Deprivation

 Wax play





 Corner Time



 Gas Masks


 Hard Limits:

 Electrical Play



 Knife Play

 Masks (Wearing)

 Plastic Wrap

 Rubber Fetish

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Journal Entries:
4/6/2018 10:11:34 PM
I am in training. I have come to the conclusion that I can just continue to talk the talk, but I must walk the walk as well. Every day I want to be better than the day before. I want to be able to learn my position and live it well. I am not in the market for just a Dom or just a Master because any man who shakes a dick can claim those traits, but it takes a real Dom or Master that has been trained in his art and who is continuously learning who is worthy of my submission and my service. So if you are coming at me with some lame ass line without any substance then do us both a favor, and step back. No you are not Sir, Dom, Daddy, or Master until you earn that title because I am tired of wasting my time on half ass shit (excuse my French). I am patiently awaiting my Master.

4/3/2018 6:55:32 PM
I use to be the type of sub who did the opposite of what I was told. I pushed the limits and see if I can squeeze by. I am maturing because I do not want to be in trouble or Hanse my D type upset with me. I want him to be pleased and not have to work so hard to keep me under control. I love learning new things that will please my D type and following through with those things. I am not a bad girl any more I am a good girl wanting to please.

3/28/2018 9:37:46 AM
I just retread my profile and I like it also. I want to start from the beginning where there is no preconceived notions. I want to learn to submit again, serve again, and love again. Being cared for by someone helps me to want to give you my all. Letting me know that I am yours and mean it means a lot to me. Now I am not saying that you can't have a s type or even a wife as long as you treat me well, I am blessed. He lived with me, he had my attention, he had my love, and my service but he chose to disrespect it, to trash it. I am a hollow vessel waiting to be filled again.

3/26/2018 1:14:32 AM
For four years I was his sub but to everyone else, I was invisible and that is what he wanted. CRYING

10/5/2015 6:06:14 PM
Is it me or what? But how is it that if I say hi to you or speak to you for more than 5 minutes I am now your sub and you want me to send naked pics or even come to you. In the vanilla world we do not rush into relationships so why do we here? This lifestyle is special and someone is giving you there trust, submission, and body so don't you think it is worth it to get to know them first? Smh

10/4/2015 12:37:34 PM
This site has some characters on it. When will a D/type understand before you get my panties off, get to know what colors I like to wear or even what type. Everyone is looking for something or someone but as long as you treat me like I am only a f*** hole I don't have any time. I told a Dom today that I need what you can't give and I give what you don't deserve. Being worthy of my submission is what makes you a great Dom not the size of your dick!!,

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