Well good day to all who read this 5 min introduction too my self. I will start with what I am not looking for I don't want an air head or someone with out a mind in their head. I don't want a door mat or one that just agrees with what ever I say. I don't want someone who is not able to think for them self.
What I am looking for in truth is a partner that I can learn and explore the world of bdsm with. I have no interest in 1 night stands yeah they are fun but I want something that means more. Also I am not looking for any Velcro collars, so no online sub's I want one I can bend over and kiss not one where I have to type *kiss*. I also need someone I can trust, as this life style is about that more so then anything. Most the times you are trusting the dom not to give you more then you can take as well as the dom is trusting you to to hold his heart in your hand. I also want a partner to tell me if she thinks I am doing wrong as doms are not gods no matter what some of them think.
Well I will leave this as it is for now and on a side note I do have a picture of myself but I will not post it on here. I will mail it to people I have chat with a few times as I don't feel I need to make my face available to the world on this site.
Though I thank you for taking the time to read this and I wish all well in there hunt for a partner.
12/25/2013 6:58:59 AM
I would like to wish every one a very Merry Christmas upon this day.
12/24/2009 11:16:59 AM
Merry Christmas all hope your day's off are filled with family and loved one's and may you feel the peace and good will of the season.
5/27/2008 12:01:24 AM
Love. Is it real or is it one of our notions that the movies, people and stories from our past give us. Though if you think About it I feel it is lust that drives us as lust can die over time but love is to be eternal. But is it? who here can say they loved someone gave there all yet the Velcro collar fell off when things changed? Lust I feel is when things never went there way they change there views upon the person and there wants. I think that is what is out there in the world and love is a joke played upon us by our wants.
For the play-dom's(if you can call them that) (Don't mean to include the few good one's out there.) out there that give there Velcro collar to the lady's by the scores, what do you feel you seek a partner for? Just a new toy for the week or two. To many I don't think they have a clue what they seek, I think it is more just for a toy they can use, abuse for a week then start looking for a new toy, as there 1st one left because she saw past him. Or the play-doms start looking for a different model, one that they hope will fit them just a little bit better. But in the end when most fine one on here to play with, they string that someone along robbing the sub of what she has that is most dear, her gift to give her self. All because they are in a dead end relation ship with a wife that they can not leave or are two scared to leave(eg she has them by the balls so to speak and they are the year dear type to her.) or will not leave so they trick a sub in to giving there heart to them just so the play-dom's can tap dance on there shattered soul for for a few day's before he goes off and fixes the kitchen sink as his wife taps a toe waiting for him to hurry up.
With that what is love? It is more Lust for what you want yet what you can not have as you are to scared to reach for it and take a chance. Though also is that what you really want? to take a chance? on something or are most content to be stung along with the Velcro and lies.
