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***I am very happily married (open/poly) to my little boy and the mother of a newborn.*** I am 5'8, usually 200 pounds, 40F. . I have medium length, strait, honey brown hair, blue-green eyes, hour glass figure with cat eye glasses and dimples. Unnoticeable tats and even less noticeable piercings. I am on the small side of plus size. I have run my first 10 mile race at disney (2.47 hours) I finished my first half marathon. (3.58) So I am both athletic and curvy. . I am pro-active, positive, optimistic, smart, funny, quirky, passionate, spontaneous, kind, compassionate, responsible, down to earth, sincere and trust worthy. I am seeking all the same traits in a service oriented man. I don't use the term submissive. I use terms such as doll, toy, pet, house boy, sissy maid, etc. Service includes anything a person can do to brighten another persons day. It includes romantic things such as flowers and holding doors open, to mundane things such as dishes and laundry, to practical things such as planning vacations to meaningful things such as checking in on sick relatives. I usually use the word Head of House hold. I am more of a mommy who spoils and adores her children and expects respect and courtesy than a dominatrix. I am very homey and domestic.
In general, I like people who are very service oriented and pro active in finding ways to please me. I don't like people who passively wait until they are told or given orders. I like people who are talkative, entertaining and engaging. I don't like people who quietly wait to speak. When people are not cooking, cleaning or running errands, they should want to be very close to me, with in grabbing distance. So the people who quietly and patiently wait for orders, sitting on the floor, waiting for something to happen, do not work for me. I also don't engage in any type of sessions or scenes. Power exchange is just part of my life. I am a dominant person and surround my self with people who complement me in personality and energy. Reliability (and flexibility) are very important to me. Days are the best time for me. People with flexible days and times are the most compatible. I am seeking a long term relationship..so people seeking similar are best for me. I am more of a dominant then a top. So this is 90% about chemistry and compatibility for me. I am also poly and have both short term and long term contracts available. Single or poly people only. Married is more than fine, if every one is consenting and informed. Some of my best and closest friends have had profiles on this site, so I am optimistic. My bdsm interest are limited to those that I develop a long term relationship with. I don't top every person that is submissive to me. But my BDSM related interest include: Hot, Cold, Sharp, Soft, Pinching, Restraining, Electrifying. Chastity, Cuckolding, Orgasm Control, Tease and Denial. Sissy maids, Dollification, Humiliation. Spanking, Caning, Crops, Floggers, Paddles, Body punching, Trampling, etc.

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2/26/2013 4:52:04 PM
I am generally nice, polite and well mannered. But that has nothing to do with how much respect I do or do not have for another person. It has to do with self respect. I can be nice, thoughtful and compassionate towards another person and still have no respect for them as an individual. 
My behavior is a reflection of who I am, not what I think of or how I feel towards others. If some one behaves in a way that is disrespectful towards me, I see that as a reflection of who they are as well. 
 I don't behave a certain way to get a certain behavior from others. I don't worry about other people respecting me. I focus on self respect. I behave in a way that expresses my values and have equally high expectations of those that I choose to surround my self with. 
I don't feel the need to be respectful and loving to get respect and love in return. I behave in a respectful and loving manner because its my choice. I surround my self with respectful, loving people because that is my choice as well. 
 
 

2/25/2013 7:31:47 AM

Yay! My second half marathon only took me 3 hours and 31 minutes. That is nearly half an hour less than my first. :)


1/16/2012 6:39:34 PM

Why phones and cell phones are a waste of time: 

1. They are inconvenient. You are not encouraged to use them in class rooms, libraries, movies theaters, public spaces of any sort.

2. They are demanding. You are encouraged to carry them at all times and be available at times.

3. They are hypocritical. You are encouraged not to answer them in public and to answer them when you are not home.

4. They don't allow for flexibility or independence. They don't allow people to respond on their own time resulting in phone tag.

5. They create sensory processing issues. People speaking on the phone interrupt, change topics, forget where they left off or wanted to pick up.

6. They can blend together. After spending time on the phone, many conversations can blend together. This is not beneficial for the person speaking or the person listening.

7. They are unmemorable. There is no way of looking up previous conversations or keeping track of what people have already told you other than by memory. 

8. They are not as insightful as other mediums. People who write can take their time, write, re-write, communicate with as much specific detail as possible. 

9. They don't allow as much human contact as people think. Lot's of people spend the time thinking of what they want to say instead of really paying attention to what is being said.



1/2/2012 7:18:32 PM

Telling me to read your profile and contact you is incredibly lazy considering specific details and level of information that you have the opportunity to respond to. Same is true for responses such as "hello" and "how are you?"


12/30/2011 11:25:58 PM

http://en.bab.la/dictionary/dutch-english/domme


12/12/2011 7:35:30 AM

Asking permission to speak or ask a question is counterproductive. When you ask permission, it is both speaking and a question. It's like walking into a room and asking permission to come in, after you have arrived. It's similar to asking for cookies with crumbs of chocolate on your lips. How do people miss this? 


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BlondGoddessX
 
 Age: 28
 Singapore, Singapore