I am a 41 y/o guy from France, currently living in London. I moved here for work a few years back and I am enjoying it, although I am not particularly attached to the place.
I am a bit of a nomad and have lived in many different countries across the year (France, Germany, US, UK, Japan, China), but I would like to settle somewhere at some point, because it gets exhausting!
My passions are:
- Cinema and TV: As a creative myself, I devour and absorb many films, from very wide genres. Some of my favorite Directors are David Fincher, James Cameron, Quentin Tarantino, Christopher Nolan and Michel Gondry)
- Drawing: Although I haven't done nearly enough in the last few years, it is something I really enjoy.
- Photography: This is a recent one for me, but I realized I really enjoy it! If we get to know each other and you're interested, I gladly will share my stuff with you.
- Music: OK... Who doesn't like Music? But it does play an integral part of my life... I cannot go anywhere without headphones on my head, or concentrate at work. I live life with a rhythm! My favorite genres are Electro (Prodigy, Chemical Brothers, Amon Tobin, Nero, Thievery Corporation, Jon Hopkins... This just goes on.), Rock (Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, Metallica, Sublime, Korn...), and occasionally Reggae and some Classical.
- Diving: This is to me the ultimate of liberty. Some people enjoy climbing (Fuck heights lol), to me I become my true self when I look into the abyss. I have always been close to Water (I grew up by the sea) and being alone, under water, with only the fish and your thoughts is the most relaxing and exhilarating feeling in the world.
- Travelling: I have visited many countries in my life and don't intend to stop any time soon. Discovering new cultures, new people, new foods and new places helps me expand my life and my consciousness and when this is shared with someone else, it is even better.
- Food: I am French... I love cooking, learning new recipes and putting something yummy on the table.
- Burning Man: OK, this is not a hobby per se, but it does play a large part in my life. I try to live by the 10 Principles in my everyday life, and these events have been the most eye and mind opening experiences in my life. My journey of self exploration into the BDSM realm stems from my experiences there, and if you are curious, I would love to explain what it is all about.
What kind of submissive am I?
I will give up control (within limits of course) to my Dominant partner, she may decide what is best, or we can decide together. I will always look out for what is best for my Partner, the small details that make her life easier, better and happier. I tend to enjoy living through the other person's happiness and strive to improve myself in any way possible, which is why communication is extremely important for me (I am a very chatty guy).
In regards to my interests in BDSM, I am not going to lie, I am very inexperienced. I am however a hedonist, so I believe in trying most things at least once to figure out what I like. I do know however a few of my hard limits, that I either have no interest in or scare me, such as permanent marks, any of cutting or knife play, and intense pain. I am also not a fan of strong Humiliation, as it brings me back to some dark days in my childhood. Soft Limits are Cuckolding and Sissyfication, as they are not interesting to me in the least.The rest I am happy to explore.
What am I looking for?
My ideal Domme is someone outgoing and natural, who values me and my opinions, and has an inquisitive mind. Although I am submissive in nature, I am seeking complicity, someone with whom I can freely express myself, my ideas and my humor, although she will always have the final say if she so desires. Radical Self Expression is a principle I live by, something I hold truly close to my heart, and I am searching for someone who can share that with me. Creativity is an integral part of my life, both in my work and my hobbies, and I hope that my partner will explore this with me.
I am also someone who enjoys some of the more traditional Vanilla aspects of a relationship, I enjoy going out on dates and having deep conversations, as well as the more physical aspects such as touching, kissing or caressing. I still enjoy a lazy day snuggling in front of Netflix or a hike in a park.
I understand that these values are not for everyone here, and if you do not recognise yourself in these, then we are probably not a good match. But there are plenty of subs in the sea (lol), so I am certain you will find what you are looking for!
So what do I bring for you?
This is the hardest question for a newbie like me.
Ultimately, my goal is to bring pleasure to my Domme, whether that is during play and in everyday life. I like to learn what makes the other person tick and smile, and help improve their lives in anyway I can. I want to see a smile on their face when they see me and remove all obstacles in their way. I want them to know that they can trust me, that I will be there for them. On the more practical side, I am a good cook (or so people say), I enjoy giving massages, I have been know to be a good at DYI. I also enjoy learning new skills when needed.
If you have actually read all this and are still interested to talk, well... welcome to my world!
