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Hetero Female Submissive, 55,  Aroostook County, Maine
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Note: just seeking friends at the moment, as I am in a relationship. I am not changing the rest of my blurb, as we are open poly, subject to His approval, and while I don't anticipate seeing anyone else, I always like new friends. I am basically straight, a submissive, intelligent, educated, professional. I live in a rural area and don't mind some travel, or on line, but I won't do on line only. I have had enough experience to notice a lot of D types seem to think it is all about them, but that is not for me. I need a relationship, not to be used and have my needs ignored. I would like to find a long-term relationship with someone who is well-adjusted, self-aware, spiritual, fun and with compatible interests. So if you aren't looking for that, please do not waste either of our time... Unless you truly just want friendships. I can always use friends. Also, no haters. Basically, no judgmental, super conservative types, because, truthfully, I find that sort of mindset a complete turn off. Some of my best friends are LGBT or minorities. I am extremely liberal, opinionated, independent, and smart. I am definitely all sub, though. I like a bit of pain, a bit of objectification/humiliation, and a bit of a daddy. I might be a bit of a brat, but I am well mannered in public. Honesty is a must, and so is kindness. I will not lie intentionally, and I expect the same (although we all lie to ourselves better than anyone else, IMO.) And despite my strong political and social opinions, I loathe talking politics and hate "news" shows. I also love Firefly, Star Trek, and Star Wars, although my inner geek is sadly out of date. I think Deadpool is my favorite movie ever. I write sf, and have too many arty/crafty skills to mention, and I might own more tools than you do. Lol. And that long-winded rant pretty much sums me up. However, due to some objectionable messages, now I'm adding something about Doms. Just because I am a sub does not entitle you to expect anything from me because you are a dom. If you think otherwise, you do not know how it works, and you have no respect for potential subs. We are not going to hook up for play. We are not going to chat immediately. We will exchange a few emails here, and figure out if interests and logistics make us worth further discussion. We will get to know each other before any bdsm. I'm not going to make an exception for you because you did not read my profile. You can call me bitchy, but I've had it with the rudeness here. Manners and respect are what this lifestyle requires.











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 Submissive Female

 Aroostook County 


 5' 6"

 165 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops


 Mental Bondage

 Science Fiction




 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales




 Anal Play


 Body Worship


 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops


 Local BDSM Community

 Massage (Getting)


 Public Play



 Vacuum Stimulation


 Art Collecting





 Liberal Politics




 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 EMO Music

 Heavy Metal Music


 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music






 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires


 Scuba Diving




 Electrical Play


 Hair Pulling


 Massage (Giving)


 Orgasm Denial


 Card Games


 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels

 Simulation Games

 Web Surfing




 Intellectual Discourse

 Libertarian Politics




 Seventies Music

 Feng Shui







 Corner Time


 Masks (Wearing)

 Serving as a Maid

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing

 Speech Restrictions

 Arcade Games

 Board Games


 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows


 Political Activism

 1950s Lifestyle


 Country Music


 Pop Music


 Show Tunes

 Curious About:






 Plastic Wrap

 Sensory Deprivation




 Wax play

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard



 Going to the Opera



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Fire Play


 Housework Service

 Online Chatrooms

 TV Sports


 Blue Grass





 Theatrical Scenes


 Horror Movies


 True Crime

 TV News

 Diet and Exercise

 Gorean Lifestyle



 Opera Music



 Hard Limits:



 Gas Masks

 Needle Play

 Outdoor Bondage




 Conservative Politics

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