Below is who I am and what I am seeking. One very important ingredient is required IMO: A deep love for one another..
So in essence, it is a long-term goal for me.
I am seeking a needle in a haystack. I hope I find her.
Female Domination An exploration of the male desire for Loving Female Authority By Elise Sutton
Cuckolding: Female Liberation or Promiscuity?
To be the slave of a woman, a beautiful woman whom I love, whom I worship… who binds me and whips me, treads me underfoot, while she gives herself to another. (Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, “Venus in Furs”)
As women become more liberated and gain in power, there is another societal role reversal that is occurring and that is for the female to seek extra-marital affairs. It was common for the man to have both a wife and a mistress on the side during a patriarchal marriage. Most of the time the wife was powerless since she had no financial means of support. Today, some women are turning the tables and they have both a husband and a lover. However, there is a fascinating element to this within the lifestyle of Female Domination. It is the husband who is encouraging his wife to seek other sexual partners. This practice is known as cuckolding.
The words cuckold and cuckolding are derived from the cuckoo bird. The cuckoo is a European tree bird that migrates from Africa each spring. The female cuckoo bird lays its eggs in the nests of other birds leaving them to be cared for by these other birds. The French equated this female cuckoo to a woman who is unfaithful and who "sleeps around". The husband of such a woman is know as being cuckolded or married to an unfaithful wife.
In Female Domination this term has come to mean a liberated wife who has other lovers for the sole purpose of humiliating her husband and Cuckolding using that humiliation to drive the husband into deeper submission to her. The dominant wife claims that she is free to do whatever she pleases, including having sex with whomever she desires. The husband must be monogamous to her and must suffer the shame of being cuckolded.
Many of my male clients in recent years have confessed a strong desire to be cuckolded. I do not recall hearing much about cuckolding in the 1980’s and early 1990’s. There seems to be a major sociological event happening here and a new leap for the entire Female Domination/Female Supremacy movement as far as what submissive men desire within a female/male relationship. To be physically dominated is no longer enough. Men also desire to be psychologically dominated. That is where the cuckolding desire comes into play.
Some men desire ultimate and complete submission to the ultimate female authority figure in their lives, namely their wife. What is the worse thing that a husband can fathom (other than the death of his spouse) in the most important relationship in this life (the marriage)? It is the fear that his wife will be unfaithful and become an adulteress. What shame and humiliation a man suffers when this happens. His entire world is shattered and his self-image is sunken to as low as it can go. To a man, that is the ultimate form of rejection. A wife who has sex with another man is saying to her husband that he is not man enough to satisfy her and that she prefers another man sexually over him.
Now take this shameful and hurtful event over into the world of female domination and we can gain an insight into the mind of a submissive man. How much more dominant and liberated can a wife be, than a wife who openly and brazenly has sex with other men, with her husband's full knowledge no less? How weak and how far into submission is a husband who's wife gets in his face and proclaims that he is not worthy enough or man enough to have sex with her? How inferior is a husband who is enslaved by his wife, made to be her total servant, is physically Cuckolding dominated by her for her entertainment, and is humiliated by her having sex with whomever she desires, while he is denied any sexual relief?
That mental image is so powerful that it unlocks the door to a deeper world of submission for the male.
