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About me... Love To Play In This Fantastic Fun Lifestyle of BDSM
*PLAY ME.... I'm Fun, Love To Play Hard, Male Submissive, Loyal Obedient Submissive (Business Man) seeks a play partner or possibly an LTR with a Strict but Loving Domme; I'm straight unless you want to have fun with me and play the force game, also Intelligent and kind.
I have been in the lifestyle only a little over two years, and realize that I am a Man who desires an erotic strong woman. My goal is pleasing my Domme, and know my place, I am said to be handsome, I am in great shape, into a healthy lifestyle, tall, seek someone also into A healthy lifestyle, I jog, work out, and will only drink socially, drug and disease free. Would certainly consider a switch relationship should that be the Lady's desire.
Recently there was a questionaire regarding slave submission posted on the main page to which I answered at the bottom under the ninth slave question. It invovled as to where does a slave think he stands in the LEVEL OF SUBMISSION, (slave level) that includes one of 9 categories, they are the following....
9 Levels of Submission
By Diane Vera
(these are not rigid definitions of submission)
1. THE OUTRIGHT NON-SUBMISSIVE MASOCHIST or KINKY SENSUALIST.
Not into servitude, humiliation or giving up control; just pain and/or spiced-up sensuality, on the masochist's own terms and for the masochist's own direct pleasure (i.e. turned on solely/mainly by one's own bodily sensations rather than by being "used" to gratify one's partner's sadism).
2. PSEUDO-SUBMISSIVE NON-SLAVE.
Not into even playing "slave," but into other "submissive" role-playing, e.g. schoolteacher scenes, infantilism, "forced" transvestism. Usually into humiliation, but NOT into servitude, even in play. Dictates the scene to a large degree.
3. PSEUDO-SUBMISSIVE PLAY SLAVE.
Likes to play at being a slave; likes to feel subservient; may in some cases like to feel one is being "used" to gratify partner's sadism; may even really serve the dominant in some ways, but only on the "slave's" own terms. Dictates the scene to a large degree; often fetishistic (e.g. foot worshippers).
4. TRUE SUBMISSIVE NON-SLAVE.
Really gives up control (only temporarily and within agreed-upon limits), but gets her/his main satisfaction from aspects of submission other than serving or being used by the dominant. Usually turned on by suspense, vulnerability, and/or giving up responsbility. Doesn't dictate the scene except in very general terms, but still seek mainly her/his own direct/pleasure (rather than getting one's pleasure mainly from pleasing the dominant).
5. TRUE SUBMISSIVE PLAY SLAVE.
Really gives up control (though only temporarily; only during brief "scenes" and within limits) and gets main satisfaction from serving/being used by dominant-but only for FUN purposes, usually erotic. May/may not be into pain. If so, is turned on by pain indirectly, i.e. enjoys being the object of one's partner's sadism, on which the submissive places very few requirements or restrictions.
6. UNCOMMITTED SHORT-TERM BUT MORE THAN PLAY SEMI-SLAVE.
Really gives up control (usually within limits); wants to serve and be used by the dominant; wants to provide practical/non erotic as well as fun/erotic services; but only when the "slave" is in the mood. May even act as a full-time slave for, say, several days at a time, but is free to quit at any time (or at the end of the agreed upon several days). May or may not have long-term relationship with one's Mistress, but, either way, the "slave" has the final say over when she will serve.
7. PART-TIME CONSENSUAL-BUT REAL SLAVE.
Has an ongoing commitment to an owner/slave relationship and regards oneself as the dominant's property at all times. Wants to obey and please dom(me) in all aspects of life-practical/non erotic and fun/erotic. Devotes most of time to other commitments (e.g. job) but Dom(me) has first pick of the slave's free time.
8. FULL-TIME LIVE IN CONSENSUAL SLAVE.
Within no more than a few broad limits/requirements, the slave regards herself/himself as existing solely for the Dom(me)'s pleasure/well being. Slave in turn expects to be regarded as a prized possession. Not much different from the situation of the traditional housewife, except that within the S/M world the slave's position is more likely to be fully consensual, especially of the slave is male. Within the S/M world, a full time "slave" arrangement is entered into with an explicit awareness of the magnitude carefully, with more awareness of the magnitude of power that is being given up, and hence is usually entered into much more carefully, with more awareness of the possible dangers, and with much clearer and more specific agreements than usually precede the traditional marriage.
9. CONSENSUAL TOTAL SLAVE WITH NO LIMITS.
A common fantasy ideal which probably doesn't exist in real life (except in authoritarian religious cults and other situations where the "consent" is induced by brainwashing and/or social or economic pressures, and hence isn't fully consensual). A few S/M purists will insist that you aren't really a slave unless you're willing to do absolutely anything for your Dom(me), with no limits at all. I've met a few people who claimed to be no-limit slaves, but in all cases I have reason to doubt the claim.
9 Levels of Submission" Copyright 1984 and 1988, Diane Vera
Question I Ask You Ladies That Are Looking For A Slave To Serve You, Which One Of The Above Nine Would You Want Your Collared Slave To Be?
Would giving a Dom/Mistress your pain limits as a Birthday gift and at other special times, classify me to be a real Slave". Been there, done that!
I truly believe that if i commit to being a slave which i did when i got into this lifestyle, then i'm going to be a slave that strives to be the best. To be the best would be to do anything for my or askedto do by my Dom with no limits. When being disciplined, I want to be the best and make my Dom satisfied as i can. It makes no difference to me for when i get into
SUBSPACE erotic pain (get there easily & quickly) i lose all limit thoughts and think only of saisfying my Dom. Subspace to me is an erotic, orgasmic feeling that has the pain overidden by the orgasmic feeling.
A slave is a slave in my opinion, not being the REAL TRUE slave to me is just acting or drama, which ever way one wants to look at it. It's like the old saying, "If You Can't Stand The Heat, Get Out Of The Kitchen".
I must say, i wouldn't want to be in a Dom's control if she is one who is into children, animals, scat.
Quote
I want to put myself absolutely at your mercy for good or evil without any condition, without any limit to your power." -
Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
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Pics & Video's Are Of Me 6/5/2011
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