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Sadly i was unable to log in to my previous profile Duteousone so im back in a new ) but with the same values....
A Dominant should be a guide, a protector, a teacher. A Dom should ALWAYS have the best interest of the Submissive at heart. Being a Dominant is about taking responsibility. About stepping up to the plate and saying My shoulders are big enough to bear the weight, to accept the responsibility that comes with taking control A Dominant is a leader, a doer not a talker someone who is willing and ready to provide another person with what they need. A Dominant needs to know and accept that many Submissives will appear in a manner that the Dom might perceive to be needy. If the Dom isnt happy to accept the emotional needs of the Submissive, then the Dom isnt ready to take ownership of a Submissive. A selfish person can never be a true Dom. They are a child in an adults body. A cruel Dom is nothing more than a kid with a magnifying glass burning ants and playing God. Submissives will rebel, fight back, be disobedient, bratty, insubordinate, and just like a child they will generally test the limits of the Dominant. This is where the good Dominant shines, he wont feel threatened, and they wont loose control, or become emotional. This is an opportunity where a Dominant can display why they are in charge, and why the Submissive can trust them with control of their lives. Correction, discipline, and punishment should be structured, fair, controlled, un-emotive, and relevant. It will reinforce the rules, the need for the rules, and the positions of Dom and Sub. It will give the Submissive what all Subs crave a feeling of safety within the confines a caring DS relationship with clear boundaries and rules. Afterwards the Sub should feel a positive sense of purpose and direction, knowing that the Dominant is striving to achieve the absolute best for the Sub. The DS relationship needs to maintain balance. For every slap of the hand, swing of the flogger, or stroke of the cane, it needs to be equally counter balanced with a kiss, a hug, a stoke of the hair, and a whisper of a kind word. A good Dom genuinely wants to see the submissive, grow, and improve as both a person and as a Sub. As such the Dom wont just use the power granted him by the DS relationship for sexual gains or amusement they will endeavour to institute rules and instructions that will break bad habits, provide the Sub direction, focus and drive, and generally enrich the life of the Sub. THESE ARE THE WRITINGS OF A TRUE MASTER. Not my words but my views.
Journal Entries
292018 60925 PMReport Entry
I dont hold trust for many in my heart and i have good reason. I step back from demand but my soul kneels for few. I take that little glow of light from each deciet and store it for those down days when positivity lightens my heart.
162018 121615 AMReport Entry
What gives me that warm feeling that i really miss.. * It is an opportunity to express ones fullest, deepest devotion to and love for the One. *It is a partnership that is intensely bonded,even when the relationship is non-sexual, the emotional bond is extraordinarily intimate. *It is getting to do for the Dominant, in all kinds of ways that are personally meaningful (as well as many that are not, but that make the Dom happy ). *It is finding ones niche in a heirarchy, joining an Army of Two, becoming Someones indispensible right hand. It is accepting final decisions even if you dont agree with them, because your loyalty is to the greater thing you are building between you its success does not hinge on singular instances of disagreement (or agreement) between you, but on the accord and harmony you build over time, and this is predicated on trust. * It is about developing and exploring profound depths of trust and intimacy. * It is about transcending ego. * It is about finding the freedom, for a fuller expression of self. * It is finding ones place, at last, by a special Someones side, and having the nurturance and protection, guidance, that makes one feel safe and loved and cared for in an unshakeably enduring way. Thats a start, but it is also, perhaps, the essence, and the end.
6252017 114658 AMReport Entry
So here we go again. What happened to freedom of speech? My profile is about what i yearn and seek, not what i think every Dom should be like. If it reads that way then i apologise. Does it read that way?? ( Dated 62417 622 PM Who are you to say what a Dom should ALWAYS do. What if the Dom has had a bad time in his personal life you fuck head. Get fucking real. I say this not in anger but to say equally Dom should undertand a sub cant always step up to plate quoting your otherwise not bad journal. You sound like a divorcee You are I can tell .
3262017 110120 AMReport Entry
This is one reason why this place disheartens me. What is the point of this kind of message? I am far from being a broken brained fucktard and i hope anyone that knows me would agree. This has really put a downer on my day. Thanks knobhead!!!. About your profile...The first bits right. The latter is a load of shit. Teegan walked the road with me, every step she was their as a partner in crime not some broken brained fucktard. We took on the world together, not some fucking 50 shades shite.
10302016 125220 PMReport Entry
Please dont think me rude but if you are married or attached in anyway. You are here to play any games and pretend to be something someone you are not then please do not contact me. I am always happy to chat when time allows but im here for a reason.. to find a new Master. Just because im nice to you, doesnt mean i owe you anything. Just because i talk to you, doesnt mean you now have control of me!! Whatever happens, happens. Just be grateful for whatever life brings you and treat people with respect. Good luck finding your ideal )
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