I've never been all that good at verbally expressing myself, though I expect that to change promptly after finding a suitable workpet. That is, if I find one. I do find myself quite aroused by force and verbal abuse.
To be honest, the only physical abuse or humiliation I'm interested in dealing would be:
-Smacks to the face, breasts, ass, pussy and thighs.
-Paddling or flogging to the same areas.
-Mild to intense choking with my hands or some tool(collar, scarf, etc..).
-Gagging on my cock or some toy, possibly to the point of vomit(still on the fence about that).
-Anal stretching via plugs or other toys.
-Hair or arm pulling...or other forms of manhandling.
-Pissing on your face or in your mouth(very rarely, if ever...unless coaxed otherwise).
-Clips, weighted or otherwise on your nipples, clit, labia and perhaps other areas. Nothing sharp, though.
-Verbal abuse(name-calling and otherwise treating you as inferior or an animal).
-Make you eat like an animal from a plate or bowl on the floor(though perhaps not too often).
-Lock you in a kennel for the night(not often, I would much prefer fondling you in bed each night).
-Tie you to a bench in the basement with a magic wand pressed against your cunt, forcing you to cum over and over throughout the night.
There's other things I can't quite think of at the moment.
Now for some things I'd prefer never doing or doing extremely rarely:
-Anything involving feces, mine or yours.
-Making you touch or lick my ass. I could warm up to it, but it's unlikely.
-Letting you touch or be touched by another male.
-Anything involving blood. I'm just not comfortable with it.
-Wax play. Causing the pain to you would be exciting, but the appearance leaves much to be desired.
-Abuse that would leave marks, even bruises. I just don't fancy looking at a battered or scarred girl, though the fear would indeed be arousing.
-Death. I see people putting this as a hard limit on occasion...though I'm not sure why. Who would willingly kill an obedient slave? Not to mention it's a crime.
-Anything particularly illegal. Some things we can keep secret, but some things would simply be best to avoid.
-Excessive rope-play. I much prefer simple, quick, leather straps.
There's undoubtedly things I'm forgetting for this category as well.
Finally, here's some other ways in which I will control you on a daily basis:
-Dressing you and determining what makeup you can use.
-Controlling your vanilla/public persona.
-Make you work for me at one or more common, legitimate professions.
-Have you clean our house and cook our meals.
-Use you sexually(a bit obvious).
-Have you wake me up each morning by sucking or stroking my cock.
-Make you watch shows or movies with me, probably sitting on my lap while I play with your body.
-Play games with me(and our other slave if we have one) or otherwise indulge in various personal hobbies.. You'll be quite busy every day, but it will be nice to share my hobbies with my pet(s).
-Check in on you throughout the day, via text, call or email. Perhaps on a schedule.
Of course, there's probably things I'm missing in that list as well.
Essentially, you will need to submit to my will, as I would expect a slave to do regardless.
As I've said before, I am quite new to this type of lifestyle but don't mistake my lack of experience for lack of enthusiasm. I definitely need a good slave or two to serve me for the rest of my life.