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Hetero Male Submissive, 48,  Hampshire, United Kingdom
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Genuine, friendly kinky male sub hoping to find that special someone for meaningful lasting happiness and hopefully join me in making a lifetime of shared happy, exciting memories to look back upon with more than a naughty, knowing smile.

Im a genuine, friendly, funny (apparently) and respectful professional male with an interest in kinks and BDSM that has ned my entire adult life, although its taken a backseat in more recent times - something that Im seeking to change now. As Im sure many of you reading will attest, once youve experienced an awesome Ds relationship, the desire for such an intense, loving, committed relationship never leaves you.

We all change over time, as do our tastes and what Id be wiling to explore these days may be different to that of the past. Thats not to say I dont have hard limits - I do, but perhaps theres an opportunity to explore a journey of your choosing and taking a different path - one in which I hope to bring more than a smile your way.

Im no stranger to BDSM, nor the websites and the games people play. Im respectful that were not all here for the same reasons or share the same motives but to be clear, I dont string people along, nor email everyone with a pulse in the hope that someone will respond. Im only seeking one partner and for that person. Ill do my utmost to bring you lasting happiness and spoil you rotten. As Im seeking something meaningful and long lasting, findoms arent for me. Id rather the relationship to be one where in public to the unknowing eye were a regular, happy loved-up vanilla couple, where by day, I go about my professional life, working as normal but under the suit and tie beats a heart and mind that is totally in your hands - and from the moment I step back into our house, Im very much yours and ready to take your lead.

Im as genuine, loyal, committed and friendly as youre likely to find. I dont do one-liners or copy and paste mails - as you may have already noticed, Im chatty and open and I enjoy the art of conversation - it is after all how we discover each other. The kinks may be the cherry on the cake to enhance the pleasures but its the mental aspects of Ds at the heart of the relationship - discovering each other at a much deeper level is both a joy to be savoured and where the delicious real power of good Ds resides.

I know my role, where I believe I per best and where my heart is. Beyond the all the intimacy and delights of Ds, Im also immensely supportive of those in my life and always happy to offer a shoulder and supportive arm to hold you through difficult times. Whether its bringing pleasure or helping in other ways, seeing those I care about happy, is what brings me happiness.

I wouldnt read too much into my list of kinks and interests - none of us ever stop learning and with the right partner, mood and motivation, who knows what the future holds. Besides, within limits, my wishes will be secondary to your own )

Last Updated Feb 2020













 Submissive Male


 United Kingdom

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 10"

 78 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women


Online Romance





 Being allowed to worship your body

 Being allowed to see your breasts

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Being allowed to service you orally

 Rubber Fetish


 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping


 Fine Dining






 Anal Play

 Being blindfolded

 You tying me up

 You controlling my male parts


 Being allowed to see you in stockings

 Wax Play

 Curious About:



 Electrical Play

 G-spot Stimulation

 Local BDSM Community

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch


 Medical fetish play

 Clothing Selection



 Suspension Bondage


 Modern Primitivism

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2/10/2018 1:12:46 AM
Valentines Day may just a few days away but kindness, affection and adoration lasts all year round if you're doing romance right. It never hurts to go the extra mile to show your loved one what they truly mean to you.

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