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(( Attention boys! Read this before proceeding! Just because I am willing to take personal playmates into consideration does NOT mean I want you sending me a one or two sentence message asking if you can submit to me. While I will consider instant pay for play sessions, this is NOT how you want to approach me if you're interested in submitting to me on a personal level. Having someone contact me out of the blue, wanting to submit without even taking the time to get to know me or let me get to know them is a HUGE turn off! The exception to this has been a very small handful of men who have made their wishes known respectfully and through several paragraphs of thorough and thought out writing letting me know a bit more about themselves. If you want an insta-Domme, feel free to contact me and ask about my rates because unless you're paying for my service I will NOT be your insta-Domme and the consideration process of getting to know a potential playmate can take weeks or even months before I permit them to serve me personally(I do not charge my personal pets for the opportunity to be dominated by me but I'd be lying if I said I don't enjoy being spoiled by them on their own terms). If you send me a few sentences thrown together asking how you can serve me or if I want to watch you degrade yourself on webcam, I'm just going to ignore your message henceforth because you clearly couldn't be bothered to put in the time or effort to show me respect in our communication. In which case, you're nothing more than those self serving folks I mention a little further down. Got it? Good. Let's conduct ourselves like intelligent adults here people. I'm truly shocked that this needs to be said out loud but such is the world of CollarSpace apparently. To that handful of men who took the time to write a thoughtful message out to me, you know who you are and can be assured that I greatly appreciate the respect that you have shown me. If I haven't responded to your message yet, I intend to and am waiting until I have a bit more time to sit down and write back to you with the same thorough honesty that you've presented me with. Rest assured, you lot will be hearing back from me soon. ))
What to tell you about me? I've been exploring fetishes and kinks since before I was legal. I've experimented in person, on the phone, and in writing. Although this site doesn't offer the option of pansexual for orientation(which I find a little odd), that is precisely how I would define myself. What's on the outside pales in comparison to the light that shines within. If you have a beautiful soul, I don't care if you're the Hunchback of Notre Dame, we're going to get along well. The same rule applies to the other side of the scale. I don't care if you're an absolute Adonis or Aphrodite, if you're rude, inconsiderate, and/or ignorant, the chances of us getting along are slim.
It's also important for submissives interested in contacting me to realize that I am NOT here for your amusement. I am NOT a performing monkey that's going to whip out the flogger and chastity belt just because you send me a message telling me what a naughty boy or girl you've been. That doesn't mean you should never contact me of course. I enjoy meeting new people for platonic friendly relationships whether they're Dominant, submissive, or anything in between. I'm even open to the potential of considering new pets but you have to earn the right to my attention and consideration, not the other way around. If you truly wish to serve me, then my happiness should be more important to you than having your own desires met. Once you've pleased me, then we can talk about returning the favor.
At times I can be demanding, blunt, and downright cruel if I feel that it's necessary but I am not a harsh person by default. I enjoy wit and banter, I like to smile, laugh, and embrace the light hearted side of life. I snuggle fuzzy kittens and go out on a limb to help the people I care about. Just because I'm a dominant woman doesn't mean I feel the need to dominate those around me 24/7 because, again, I'm not anybody's performing monkey. If you want a woman who cracks the whip and never drops character, go rent yourself some porn.
Anyway, I guess that touches on the basics and gives you at least a glimpse at who Redd Queen is. If you want to know more, you're just going to have to talk to me and find out. Don't be afraid to message me or ask questions. I can't promise I won't bite but if I do, you'll probably like it and if you don't, you probably deserved it.
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