Hi, everyone. I'm Caitlin, and I am looking to find someone with whom I can learn about life.
Okay, that's pretty broad, so let me see if I can quickly explain a bit more:
So, at this point in my life, I am starting to feel lonely. Having limited "opportunities" because of my orientation, I have only ever had what I would consider one real relationship.
The problem? I didn't know what the heck I was doing.
I am a people pleaser, and I actually kind of like that about me. But it made it hard in a relationship because my partner wanted me to make more decisions, be more assertive... you get the idea--grow a backbone.
Well, I am still learning how to do that, but it's hard when you can't find a partner to patiently practice with you!
I was also too timid in the bedroom, I guess, and it was frustrating for my partner that I did not initiate more. I am hoping to find someone with whom I "click" romantically between our personalities.
So that's why I'm here. I am looking for someone who might take a chance on me, knowing that I am still not super great at this whole relationship thing, but who thinks they might enjoy a super-sweet, quiet people-pleaser ready for much more. And if you actually like to make all the decisions, then I'm your girl!
Looking for either someone experienced to take me under their wing or someone who is also new that might want to casually learn together--like friends with some romance mixed in.
FULL DISCLOSURE: I have very little experience in the bedroom department--long story there--but please understand that I am not opposed to things "going there"--that's a huge part of why I am here! It just hasn't worked out yet for me to gain some of those experiences.
Here are some other highlights about me, in case you are still curious:
-It is not a mistake, I really do like girls.
-I am not going to college right now and do not plan to, but I still think I can hold up a good conversation pretty well!
-I don't consider myself shy, but I am very quiet and keep to myself A LOT. -Also trying to learn to open up more.
-I live with one roommate. ...we're not very close.
-I want to say that I am willing to try just about anything, but the truth is that lots of stuff would probably take some convincing.
-Relocating is discussion very far down the road for me.
-I am usually told that I am very sweet, and I hope you think so, too!
Sorry if that's too much, but thanks for reading!
-Catey
