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New to this website. But not new to BDSM.
But my interest is not BDSM.
My focus is on developing the finer points of the D/s chemistry on intellectual, physical and social levels. A loving relationship based on intense feelings, deep affections and intimacies.
You'll find freedom, gratification and a heightened sense of self-worth and purpose under my wing.
I have many social outlets and connections in New York and Atlanta. But I joined here
because I'd like to focus on a D/s as an integral part of my life with a
woman who is tuned-in to it from the start rather than one who would be shocked at just the mention of it.
Two very special people in my life led me here. Through them I've had the good fortune of learning about of D/s with love by studying BDSM history and taking a fun approach to building a relationship that grows from intellectual connections, psychological bonding, and physical rewards.
Serious stuff I took on with a lighter fun approach to learning. Now with their encouragement and two longer-term BDSM kink+vanilla relationships behind me (also a few disappointing flash-in-the-pans) I'm ready to groom a new fresh partner with teaching that starts out slow and easy and evolves into a more commanding presence.
Count on a partnership guided by mutual respect and your need to be guided in sensual role-play and kink. Communication and trust are the keys to earning your surrender. If we both listen and learn, we'll both become better people for it in this endeavor and in day to day life.
I'm a clean cut professional who stays in shape... active with gym/basketball/skating/running.
Yes, I am young. But professionals in my field and academics have me pegged for age 35-ish and I am mistaken for 20 on the basketball court despite my leadership skills.
I am comfortable in both college settings and more mature social circles. You should be too.
My work is high profile so I cannot post photos. I will send them if we seem like a good match. But if you write me, please attach a vanilla photo. I'm not impressed with partial or full nudity, party or motel porn style pictures.
A well-written profile is the first promise of your potential. If it's childish or lacks insight or personality, sorry. Please don't contact me if you're deeply committed to never meeting or you're a close-minded "do me" sub, married or attached, lost in life or floundering through it and just looking for a play partner.
I just scanned through dozens and found loads of fakes including porn site photos and women with 7th grade writing skills. Now cringing thinking what it would be like to listen to them. What's this world coming to?
A good match would be a woman age 20-35 who is youthful, stylish, an avid reader and sensitive free-thinker, a good conversationalist who is confident at social and career events with me in New York City. I do not do clubs or BDSM parties or multiple partners. I seek only one special submissive woman I can take under my wing and see fairly regularly (one or twice a week) for fun public vanilla activities in or around New York City and in private at my home or your place within the NY-Metro area only. My busy schedule in Atlanta does not allow time for building a relationship.
Please have an open mind and a willingness to be coached --eventually commanded-- and forget your problems when I take over the reins. I'm here to help you, not hurt you. I am a leader, not a fighter. Pain sluts need not apply. But even the best girl always seems to find her way to a spanking, doesn't she?
Especially if --no matter what her age or experience or mindset-- she is just like me: young and learning.
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