"The essence of the Dom/sub relationship is power. The Dom exercises complete power over his sub at all times and in all ways. The sub GIVES her Master complete obedience at all times and in all ways. The smart or experienced Dom realizes that the true power always belongs to the sub, whose GIFT can be withdrawn should that power be misused. Without a willing sub, of course, the Master ceases to be a Master and has no power at all." |