Hello.
I am James a young 54 yr old white English Male I live in the Midlands ( Northamptonshire) and work all over the country
I am a Capricorn, I am 5' 10 tall, medium build blue eyes, and facially clean shaven.
I am a very trustworthy well educated emotionally and financially secure, professional and intelligent. I am a non-smoker and a social drinker. I consider myself to be honorable, caring, nurturing and protective and demanding that my sub always achieve her best not just as my sub but in her vanilla role as well.
I also consider myself experienced without wanting to appear big headed or arrogant I have 30 years real time knowledge and experience in ALL aspects of D/s and this is not a fickle thing, game or fad with me it is for real.
I am very broad-minded and enjoy ALL forms of sexual gratification EXCEPT those involving animals or kids and I am 100% straight heterosexual!
I enjoy a wide range of vanilla interests besides D/s including: - Cinema, computers, country walks, driving, eating out, most types of music, visiting places of interests and foreign travel.
With regards to D/s I am a Master and as such I have to be in control over all of my surroundings. I feel good in being a Master...it is what I am, there simply isn't a button to turn the dominance off to me it’s like oxygen it makes me feel alive. I am looking for a sub...but more....My sub, someone who in time I will become her best friend, her confidant, her lover, her partner as well as her Master.
I have always personally believed that the D/s lifestyle is like any other in so much as it is a continuing learning process for all concerned. I am a private person and prefer my sub to be a woman who is happier with D/s in private situations.
Please rest assured that I am not looking for one a night stand(s) or a casual relationship or a fuck buddy but a long term relationship based and built on a Strong Friendship including all the mental and emotional aspects of involvement.
I do not seek a wimp, doormat, wannabee or someone just out for sexual kicks. I seek a strong caring intelligent submissive woman who freely chooses once the chemistry and trust prove right. Please rest assured that I am not into anything too extreme, this can of course be interpreted differently by different people I suppose. To me D/s is not you do as I say, it is the total involvement of two minds focused on a particular experience. There are of course, varying states of Domination and submissiveness that different people may be happy and content with. This does not mean that here is no compatibility.
My strongest virtue I personally feel is my patience and ability to build the sub's confidence in herself so that she is able to extend her known limits safely. I would do this by encouragement and praise of her, together with monitoring and consoling when necessary. People not in the lifestyle find this hard to believe.
How can someone who enjoys controlling and administering and maintaining discipline to someone, have any regard for them? It is because I know that a sub is someone who gives her body to her Master to use as he wants, she does it willingly and unselfishly to please her Master. I am not a person who thinks that a sub is someone just to be used or abused without any thoughts as to her requirements or needs. My requirements are thus: you will possess high personal integrity, enjoy deep submission both freedoms and constraints of Domination and enjoy living, loving and laughing a lot.
I'd also prefer, but do not require, that you also be creative, intelligent, educated, and fun -- as I will value your mind and your ethics as much if not more than your body.
I hope that gives you an insight to me and if you feel we may be compatible then please feel free to contact me, if not I wish you luck in your search.
Kind Regards x
