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| I've been in the scene and Atlanta for about 3 years now. I started exclusively as a sub, but have found the Dom role to appeal to me as well. I'm not just jumping in and pretending I know it all, I'm taking the time to continuously improve and master as many skills as I can in these beautiful and complex art forms that are S&M.
Like many of you, ultimately I’d like to find the someone to form a healthy vanilla AND kinky LTR with. I guess you could say that my ideal vision is that of a white-picket fence house with a secret dungeon kind of long-term relationship. I'm also looking for friendship whenever possible, so feel free to introduce yourself. I am open to BDSM play with those who become close and trusted friends (which must happen first), but I'm not interested in one-night stands or the like.
Personality-wise, I'm an INTJ. Honor, trust and loyalty are very important to me, so any games, drama and gossip irritates me to no end, I suppose I'm old-school in that manner. I'm a fierce lover, protector and friend to those who come into my inner-circle. Outside of kink, I’m a young professional and definitely a bit nerdy, enjoying things like sci-fi, conventions, ren faires, etc. My other interests include the outdoors, camping/hiking, guitar, travel and learning new languages, etc. I'm one who finds pride in having strength and balance in both my vanilla and kink lives.
What I'm looking for: A lifestyle Domme or Switch who has her vanilla life in order and understands the realities of balancing life with kink. I'm looking for a relationship as my end goal, but won't rush into anything either. Someone kind, compassionate, independent, ideally geeky and open-minded, close to my age (+ or - 10 years) and D&D free. We would get to know each other on a friendship level first and then add kink assuming we had chemistry.
What I'm not looking for: Any kind of "pro" or arrangement based on pay, "Findommes", One night stands or just casual play. Anyone living outside a reasonable distance. And to add due to bad experiences on, etc. I am we'll known in the community so if there is anyone wanting to play any con games or whatnot, you will be uncovered quickly.
On another note, since I'm seeing alot of this "you will submit to me immediately" talk on Domme profiles, let me just say that is NOT the case. I am an intelligent, strong, educated young professional who unlike some other male submissives, has dignity. My submission is a gift that must be earned through friendship, caring, trust and responsibility on the part of both parties. I have a good deal of experience in the scene (I've taught other Doms/Dommes), and anyone who has that attitude frankly doesn't elicit the kind of dominance that I'm at least looking for. Sorry for the negativity, but given some of the interactions on here, it needs to be stated clearly. Come on people, stop being so serious and get to know each other first :)
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To my future Domme: How I imagine you
You will inspire my profound admiration and respect before I ever see the dominant side of you-
-You will be in control of your own life, strong in your health, mind and your career
-You will be the one who others turn to for advice,
the level head,
the caregiver
-You will be the compassionate one in the crowd,
the one who smiles at the shy fly on the wall,
the one who brings a smile on the face of others when they are having a bad day
You will inspire my devotion, love and yes, fear-
-You will be sharp of mind,
thwarting my subconscious and subtle attempts to retake control
-You will be strict and consistent,
reinforcing what I do whether it is right or wrong,
every time
-You will be empathic,
being able to read what I need from you,
or at least listen when I tell you
-You will be simultaneously cruel, caring and loyal
-You will give me discipline,
but also love, strength and guidance when I need it
-Your arrivals will make me feel blissfully excited,
but also shake with fear
-You will engage my vanilla and kinky mind,
being smart and thought-provoking in our discourse, whether in the dungeon,
or just out getting coffee and chatting at Barnes & Noble
-You will make me a better person,
forcing me to conquer my weaknesses,
while encouraging and celebrating my strengths
I will inspire your devotion, love, admiration and evil side-
-I will be strong for you,
your willing slave on some days,
and your white knight or barbarian conquerer on others
-I will be empathic,
submitting when you want me to,
but taking control, and providing you my own strength and guidance when you need it
-I will ensure you never have to dust, vacuum, or clean a dirty dish ever again
-I will bring you pleasure like you've never seen,
the way you want it,
when and wherever you want it
-I will be open, honest and loyal to you,
but still challenge the shit out of you on occasion
-I will engage your mind and body,
whether discussing science, politics, art or history,
or out hiking up a mountain
-I will make myself stronger every day for you,
ensuring your property stays successful and healthy so it can serve you well
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P.S. I'm aware that the pics of my dungeon are upside down. Can't seem to edit them,.., |
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| Age: 23 |
| Lome,
Nigeria |
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