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I should start off by saying, I'm a kinky bitch. I have only very recently started to discover my submissive side. It is something that has felt 100% right to me since the very first restraint, the first command, the first lash of pain, the first time "Sir" left my lips.
Though I've had a small amount of experience, I am a fast learner, as well as insightful and intelligent. I already know a lot of what I do and don't want. Allow me to share.
I am not looking to be disrespected. I am a very strong, independent person. You have to be of equal strength or even stronger to earn my respect and trust, and especially submission.
Friend, play partner, lover, I expect you to be an intelligent person.
Most importantly, I value honesty. Dishonesty is the number one thing I will not forgive. I will tolerate a lot of human error, because we all make mistakes, but lying is abhorrent. The one thing that allows an individual to uphold their integrity after any mistake is taking responsibility for it. But enough of that lecture.
In a Dom, I look for experience, but I am not looking for a 'Daddy' and I'm not into age play, so if that's your thing you should look elsewhere. I don't have a hard age limit and I generally like the company of people older than me anyway, since I'm more mature than most of my peers, so I consider a partner on a case by case basis.
I want someone who will push my limits, but still respects my wants and needs. I am not a masochist, though I can take a good amount of pain and it does thrill me. The pain has to be balanced with pleasure, I'm not looking to be beat. I also expect a Dom who understands and can fulfill his responsibilities, even if we are only play partners. If you are thinking "what responsibilities?" then don't bother contacting me.
On a strange and slightly shallow side note, I find myself unable to be attracted to a man shorter than me, much less feel dominated. (Let the record show I'm 5'6")
I also seek people who I connect with on multiple levels, who share some common interests and view points. I am a very very sexual being, but I live a diverse life outside of the bedroom and I love to share that life with people too. I'm a massage therapist (in the most professional sense; NO happy endings) and I really love my work and consider it my calling. As such, I tend not to get along with anyone who cannot take my profession as seriously as I do.
I love being active. Sex is my favorite way to burn calories. I also like to hike, bike, snowboard, and I've practiced yoga for about a decade.
I'm also a little nerdy. At any given point I've got at least a dozen library books stacked on the dresser. I'm the kind of person that sometimes ruins a joke by getting analytical.
I love anything vintage. Clothes, furniture, cars. Did I mention I like cars? And motorcycles? And working on cars and motorcycles? I don't have any wheels worth bragging about but if you've got the garage and could use an extra pair of hands I love getting dirty working on projects. (Get your mind out of the gutter.) Speaking of projects, I'm a big DIY-er and pretty crafty. I also like to cook most of my own food, and I like to think it mostly comes out delicious, especially the baked goods.
Some other miscellaneous interests of mine include photography, dogs, art of all types, getting off of the couch and out of the house for whatever, and generally having fun!
I look forward to hearing from you if you think we'd be good friends or good in bed. Ask me anything. Tell me anything. I can't wait!
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