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~~About Me~~~
Power exchange is something that I need in my relationships- I no longer date vanilla. I've been actively involved in the community for about four years now, and I am confident in my abilities, and my desire to continue developing my skills as a Domme.
So I'm here looking for my submissive. I am seeking a romantic long term relationship that involves vanilla, kink, and power exchange. I am Dominant both inside and outside of the bedroom and looking for someone who seeks the same. I do not want to be the fill-in-the-blank Domme in your fantasy- I want you to fall to your knees for who I am, not what I am.
I consider myself polyamorous, and enjoy being open to connections of various intensity. I am seeking a primary relationship at this time. I am NOT interested in casual play or hookups, or anything online. I do have a child who will always be my priority, so if that is an issue for you, please move along.
I like to go to play parties and participate in the local BDSM community, so if that's something you aren't comfortable with, then we probably won't work.
While I enjoy a variety of kinky activities, ultimately what gets me off is the power. Within my own limits (and with a few exceptions for things I love!), I'll enjoy a variety of activities less for their intrinsic nature and more for how they foster the connection between me and my partner. Sexual chemistry is also important to me, since sex and kink are inextricably linked in my mind.
I seek the type of connection where you get a warm rush to see you have a message or text from the other person. The kind of chemistry where you want to stay up all night chatting because you are enjoying the other person's company too much to go to bed. I want to own my sub, body, heart, and mind, to have him crave my touch, to want to kneel for me because that is his proper place.
Touch is very important to me; if I like you, I am probably going to want to hug you or cuddle with you because it helps me feel close to you. I have an intense shoe and boot fetish, and really enjoy having my feet and shoes touched and massaged. I very much enjoy receiving acts of personal service and being taken care of. My primary fetish interest right now is violet wand/electrical play. I am a reaction junkie and I love to watch my bottom squirm and moan and beg. I need a partner who has at least some level of masochism, because I crave the trust, intimacy, and connection that comes from taking a partner to the edge.
Service submission makes me very happy. I call myself a Princess for a reason, and I want a partner who enjoys taking care of his Princess. I believe that we make time for the things and people that matter to us, and I expect you to feel the same way.
~~~About you~~~
You are roughly 25-40 years old, live relatively locally to me (Kitchener-Waterloo), and have your own car. You are single or looking for a primary poly or cuckold relationship. You are looking for a romantic, passionate relationship where you will be fully equal... except that I will be more so :)
You gain pleasure from making me smile, and feel that good service is its own reward. You submit to me, but you aren't a doormat. You can enjoy spending time in diverse settings, whether it's at a kinky play party, dinner out at a fancy restaurant, or simply sitting naked at my feet. You are a good and frequent communicator, intelligent, and articulate- and you can spell. You are open and honest, and up front about your thoughts and feelings.
You don't think that chivalry has gone out of style. You understand that while the big things matter, sometimes it's the little things that are most important.
You are looking for an emotional relationship where we can enjoy vanilla activities together as well as kink. You enjoy Dominance outside the bedroom, but are not looking to be micromanaged. You submit to one woman, but are not submissive to everyone. Eventually, if you find the right person, you are seeking to be collared and belong to her.
You do not use titles in introductory emails, because a title denotes power exchange and that isn't possible until there is a negotiated relationship. You believe that we should get to know each other as people before jumping into a D/s relationship.
You see yourself as an active participant in a relationship rather than a passive one. You want to explore things with me, not merely have them done to you.
If this sounds like you, then I look forward to hearing from you.
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