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Note: If you are returning to read my profile, I just added an addendum below; you might want to skip down to that... Otherwise... With all due respect, I do appreciate the openness and candor that most women offer up in their profiles.....

So here's the lowdown on me:

-I am not a player. The days of conquests and notches on my zipper are long gone. I'm not out to hurt someone emotionally, nor do I want to worry about STD's and the like...

-I can actually be a friend. Come on people, if you are reading this, we have something in common and though we may look or act different, "a commonality" such as an interest in BDSM is a terrific prerequisite for friendship without hidden agendas! =)

-I am not bisexual.

-I am also not homophobic. If you are a bisexual woman, that is no problem; I get it. And, yes, it's a turn-on; God gave women incredible bodies and minds...I get the attraction...
-If I added you to my favorites without contacting you, I am not hitting on you... If you knew me, you would also know that I am far from a passive-aggressive type that expects you to immediately be intrigued and drawn to me; just because you see me as an admirer. I probably added you to favorites because you have a well written profile, great journal or photo gallery that drew my attention and may want to refer to in the future. So please accept admiration for what it is; not a come-on...

-Am not seeking an extreme or 24/7 lifestyle, just the kinky stuff in the bedroom or living room or kitchen or shower or....

-I would best be paired with a submissive or switch...

-I don't expect a relationship to begin with you following my command to drop to your knees...I expect the relationship to start with mutual respect.

Let's Be Honest (Or, what some might call; the deal breaker):

-I am married to a vanilla and have no desire to change that status... If you are married or in a relationship with a vanilla, as well, think you understand what several years of denial (double entente' LOL) for what you yearn can do to a man....or woman....

-I READ THE ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE I SEND A MESSAGE OR ADD TO FAVORITES! So, please know, if you say "no married guys" I saw it and AM NOT HITTING ON YOU! I am admiring your profile/journal or sharing some information/experience as a fellow CM member WITHOUT A HIDDEN AGENDA!

-I prefer a LTR (but if things don't work out, we will have walked into this honestly, so no one should feel deceived or hurt) where we would get together "on occasion" to accommodate both of our schedules... About Me..... What I Like:

My main interest is the building of passion through bondage, toys and aggressive play; I RESPECT ALL LIMITS!...

Am also experienced and game for other types of bdsm...
The Physical:

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out, by my screen name, that I am a fan of
yoga... This being said, know with confidence that, I am very physically and aerobically fit and flexible...with more than admirable endurance =)

So there are no misunderstandings, I am not obese, fat or doughy. Nor am I skinny or bony. My build is hard-bodied sinewy, which is more lean and muscular rather than large and muscle bound...

My hair is grey (went grey prematurely many years ago) and I have a pleasant face; some call me handsome; but I would probably rate myself an eight...

Am reluctant to post a face pic for obvious reasons...

But may be inclined to post a body shot in the near future; would welcome suggestions as to what you might want to see =)

So, whether you are inclined to be a friend or find out if we might have some chemistry, feel free to click that message button! ONE MORE THING: To my "online" friends, ignore the following... To anyone who is considering "real time"; you should know the following: 1) Don't expect me to be an arrogant bastard; expect me to be civil, polite and respectful.

2) Expect me to ask questions, as I expect questions from you..."Intelligence, Candor & Demeanor" are important criteria to me.

3) If you want to be "playful", go for it! By this, I mean, if you want to articulate your fantasy, or want me to narrate a scenario suggested by you; bring it on....I do pride myself on my writing skills... 4) If we do decide to meet, it will be in public and "no strings attached"...our first meeting might just be a social vanilla meeting in the safety of public... 5) If you stop communicating with me, I will not "chase" after you; out of respect for "you". I will just assume that you have had second thoughts, most likely cold feet attributed to fear or guilt. It's okay, I get it, we are human. 6) If you did stop communicating with me, and you have a change of heart, feel free to approach me again; like I said, we are human. 7) The biggest disappointment is communicating, only to find out that the "distance" is far too challenging...At some point, should I feel we are clicking, expect that I am going to bring up geography; its "not that I am over-zealous and anxious to meet"; its my way of being "realistic"... Enough said... Have a great day!

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9/24/2013 7:52:11 PM
Okay, so if you are reading this, you are probably a bit more curious about me; good or bad... First off, have made a few good women "friends" here... And it's more about exchanging emails for a while and then sporadically... We keep in touch... A majority of the time the dialog is not even bdsm based, some writing exchanges, will address that in a moment. Soooooo, if you put yourself in my position, and you were NOT delusional, wouldn't you accept that your market potential of: "Married women, who are seeking an affair/fling, who are into bdsm, who are within a reasonable age range, in the state of Illinois, within a reasonable travel distance, who would have some freedom to meet... Het you know what? I'll stop it there." Is pretty limited? My point? My profile is honest, straightforward and worded to attract, what I feel, the right woman for a respectful & fun relationship; and a chance to live a fuller life that, unfortunately, our significant other, won't explore.... That being said, if I contact you and/or add you to my favorites and you do not live in Illinois. Guess what? My message probably started with "Not hitting on you" followed by a reason why I was contacting you or add to my favorites for referral to the sporadic future.... Same goes if you are a 26 year old woman, come on? Do you honestly think a guy my age, better yet, in my situation....would really consider you? So, same goes for the younger women, if you are younger, and I contacted or favorited you, guess what? It's a compliment, I'm not stalking or trolling.... So what I am trying to say is, if you read this and get, that my profile is to attract the right woman for me and that my friends and message exchanges are purely friendly with zero hidden agenda, feel free and safe to reply... I "do not contact many", it is not a fishnet I am sincere.... Oh, one more thing...... If you receive an email, and it does not begin with "not hitting on you"? It means I'm hitting on you. Enough said =)

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mizzjessica91
 
 Age: 23
 New York, New York