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Greetings and salutations! I'm a middle aged guy who's currently in a relationship thats going nowhere - two dominant personalities who clash more often than not - and I'm looking for a change. While the reason I'm here is to find a sub or a slave... that sort of personality being more likely to get along together with me, that's not all that I'm about. I'm an IT consultant by day, a job that I love when I have a good, challenging assignment, but that can also be tedious, frustrating and boring at other times. This career started as a hobby in computer programming that began when I was a kid, so I'm proof that you can enjoy your work. That's a bit of a step from my University days though, where I majored in human physiology and pharmacology and minored in other life sciences for the most part. However, in my private life, I have many other interests. I read very quickly, and given the opportunity, devour science fiction, fantasy and techno-thriller novels like candy, but I'll read almost anything written in decent English. I'm also a writer when I have the chance, and I enjoy woodworking, metalworking and I'm getting into 3D design and printing. I practically live for role-playing games (of the pencil and paper variety similar to Dungeons and Dragons, not sexual roleplaying, not that I'm averse to the latter) and enjoy building my own worlds and rule sets, and even when there aren't any opportunities to indulge in that hobby, I still can't help but continue to make things up for them. I enjoy watching movies, series and shows with an educational, sci-fi, fantasy or action theme. Horror and drama tends to leave me cold - unless there's sex - as do many sitcoms. However, I can watch - or at least sit through - anything. I have a wide and eclectic taste in music that ranges from classical to modern, though I'm not a fan of heavy metal and its variants. However, while all of that may sound like I'm a quintessential geek or nerd, I also enjoy some more physical pursuits, such as Karate and Hapkido, as well as more erotic diversions... which is why I'm here. I'm rather a homebody, but I do enjoy or would like to try skiing, archery, shooting, horse riding (nude if the opportunity and desire arises) and potentially other activities. While I love looking at the nude female body - and fucking when the opportunity arises, and I find nipple piercings (especially rings) almost irresistible, along with some other kinks, I get off on getting my partner off, either by cock or device or whatever else floats her boat. It is something of a fantasy of mine that I could arrive home from work to have the door opened for me by a beautiful slave, naked but for piercings and a metal collar, who would usher me in, help me out of my work clohes, serve me a home-cooked dinner, and be rewarded (or perhaps punished) after we had eaten with an evening of hot sex. In the morning, she would wake me and share a home-made breakfast and a shower or bath with me before my reluctant, scheduled, departure for work. However, while I do want a sex slave or submissive, I also want a partner who will think and use her own initiative and good judgement, not just obey blindly if there is reason to do otherwise. I wouldn't necessarily have to have a slave or sub who would do all the housework, as long as she did her fair share - I'm not interested in housework, and if my partner isn't either, she should still join me in getting it all out of the way quickly so we can both move on to more interesting pursuits. Nothing is more of a turn-off than a partner who won't pitch in to help if asked. Some of my other kinks are pony play, bondage including shibari and suspension, breast play, whips (though not necessarily flogging), exhibitionism, sexual role play, and forced orgasms. If the opportunity was to arise, I'd love to indulge in some lactation play. I'd like to try swinging, where I - and my partner if she was interested - would both be free to be sexual with others. Another fantasy of mine is to bind and blindfold my partner and have her unsure as to who is fucking her. However, I am also quite capable of being monogamous if desired. Chastity play is also potentially an option, as is polyamory. For all that I like the martial arts, I'm not a fan of really hurting women, so I'd need some convincing to get involved in injury related kinks and fetishes like flogging, bruising or needle play, though saline infusion might be interesting. Cutting, blood, scat and vomit are right out, and I'm not keen on piss either.