I have been trying to reach out to people but it seems that wanting to get to know someone before you just start flogging or gagging or whatever it maybe is a lost cause... I mean call me old fashion but i enjoy getting to know the person or persons who i will be playing with. Hell I don't want just anybody to play with me hell, I believe that there should be some form of inital connection made before one can play. That way it helps builds the trust factor between all parties. But I don't see that anymore....