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Everyone has their own style, and I am no different. When working as a Pro Dominant its a very fine line between allowing your sub to experience the feelings sensations and mental signals that she craves whilst still maintaining the role of Owner/Master and appearing to not care for her needs or to create a situation that appears on the outside to be all about Me. If I was in this purely for financial reasons then it would be easy for me to just ask what my sub wants and then do it, but how many true subs want someone who will do as they say? If I was just Domming my partner/sub/slave or pet then It would be very easy to say "this is what you are going to do.." Because of this I like to take the role of Trainer rather than Master or Owner. This allows me to use my experience to train those who want to be slaves or subs to someone, people who want to know more about the scene but are wary about play parties, meeting people off the internet or explaining their needs to excisting or new partners.
One of the most common thing I hear is "I just wanted to know how that feeled" .. This is fine and can be catered for, or "I couldnt submit to my partner as I would be worried he would see me differently and I like the realtionship balance as it is" Or "He just cant hurt me, it upsets him" All of these reasons mean that what I do is not a bad or sadistic or even perverted thing, just sharing experiences with those who want to share them..
My personal style of training differs from many Doms as I was trained by a Female Domme, and a male subs needs and the relationship between Mistress and slave is very Different from that of Master and sub, Howeevr its a style I find that many people enjoy and more importantly works. My slaves are trained to obey commands correctly, Move Gracefully, Be polite and respectful at all times and to be happy in there own skin. I prefer my subs naked, this is not a sexual thing for me, however a naked sub is reminded of her position that her body is exposed and owned, she feels more aware of her Masters eyes on her and even the most dull daily chores somehow feel more intense. It makes dicipline easier and teaches a slave that her body belongs to me and therefore she should love it as I do regardless of its shape or size. For Many slaves the nakedness part of the training is sometimes the hardest part. They have all been naked in front of men before but maybe not whilst he is fully dressed and maybe not whilst working and serving bending,stretching and exposing. I am happy to start this training slowly with underwear however This is my training preferance and my slaves will obey or find someone less demanding.
I am not a sadist. I have been trained to correctly deliver pain safely and accurely but save this only for sessions when its particurly asked for. However I do not spare the whip when training. Many subs want to lick my boots or humiliate themselves but just cannot bring themselves to drop the day to day barrier, the whip is good for curing this and will help them understand they will do what I Wish with or without a sore but. (I take the time to know the difference between wanting to and not allowing themselves and not wanting to lol)
I love the art of Rope bondage and admire those who use it however I find metal shackles/collars and restraints more effective/degrading and instant. I am able to perform tight bondage in session but it is not in my training arsenal.
I like to create reality... I am not a black leather wearing Master named after someone from lord of the rings lol, I do not work in a gothic dungeon and I do not do quick thrills, I am happy to roleplay and can play most roles, but as trainer I am exactly that. I will train slaves to serve and understand their needs and fullfill those of their owners.
Thought I would write this piece to help others better understand me. I am new here and am eager to meet new people and hopefully rebuild my Dom career.
Yours
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