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I am new to this lifestyle and have never experienced this, only the thoughts that I have in my mind. I hope to learn on being a good sub.
With that being said not because I am new to this I do have feelings. When sending me a inbox msg have manners don't come with your demands cause I will disrespect you. I am a very aggressive female and Jamaican and with that being said you can't just come out of your mouth sideways and think I wont put you in your place. I am not a slave and know the difference between the two so don't try it. With me never having a Master or Dom I am sharp with my mouth, if you are caught slipping then you are hit. I feel that a person should be respected at all times. I am not looking for this life as a part time or a " Jump off". I like a honest person and not into games so if that is what you are into don't waste my time and yours. I am a very strong women and with that being said only a strong Master or Dom could be my owner. Everyone is on here for their own reason if there is anything you would like to know about me feel free to ask but show me some respect even though I am a new sub I am a lady and shall be treated as such. I feel that everyone is a adult and with that being said don't let your wants cloud the vision in you needs when getting to know me as a person. Thank you and enjoy your time on Collarme.com

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4/15/2014 10:19:13 AM

Good afternoon to each and everyone. Taking the time out to say thank you to all the persons who I have spoken to in either on collarme or yahoo or those small few via telephone. What I have learned from all of you is the same and that is to never believe nothing that comes out of a Master, Dom, or Sir mouth!! About 95% of yall are looking to fulfill a sexual urge from different women or girls instead of training one into completing your needs in a whole. I am very glad that in the vanilla world I am a very Aggressive Jamaican female who won't take shorts nor Disrespect! I hope you all find what you are lurking for cause I am not her, I am a sub to the heart and when that time is right my true Master, Sir, or Dom will find me if her is true.... Now with that being said have a lovely week. Raleigh North Carolina here I come!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 


3/30/2014 12:33:43 PM

Once again fake people. This is oh so sad they come in all walks of life color and creeds. I have no time for it Dom, Master, or Sir you will get disrespected is you come at me sideways. Too many females on here for you to disrespect and for a FYI I am not one of them 


12/25/2013 11:28:44 AM

Merry Xmas to each and everyone. You might not of gotten what you wanted but God gave you what was needed and that was the ability to wake up this morning and see another Xmas day


12/13/2013 9:31:44 PM

So far from just basic conversations I have grown to understand that a Master/Dom/Sir won't make his sub do anything. It is the subs duty to learn and grow with her Master and for him to teach, respect, honor, and curve his sub to feel comfortable to please him/her with a willing heart. To let go any fear and to have 100% trust in her Master that takes a lot of time, energy, and punishment. A Master/Dom/Sir will know what type of sub will for fill his needs and the sub will know which Master will be the better one to make us release the inhibitions and set us free without no strings attached.... Never to stray and always be loyal......


11/26/2013 9:07:41 AM

Have a Happy and safe Thanksgiving when it comes to each and everyone. If you leave a message I shall answer it on Black Friday.

 

I was informed that a Master is not suppose to love or fall in love with his sub. This to me is a bit confusing I need to know why is that such a wrong thing to do? How can a sub serve without feelings or emotions? How can a Master properly guide his sub without feelings or empathy? If this is business then why is the sub not being paid for her services?


11/14/2013 7:33:55 AM

Been busy working very hard hope all is well with everyone.


10/30/2013 10:38:46 AM



PRINTABLE VERSION

 

Chapter 1 - Finding a Dominant

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Always trust your gut. If something feels wrong it probably is.

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Intuition and common sense are your most valuable instincts.

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Look for the same personality/qualities you would look for in a vanilla partner.

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Be yourself. Never compromise who you are to gain the attention of a Dominant.

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Be clear and honest about what you are seeking in a relationship.

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Some Dominants will never love you.

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Some Dominants have no desire to fuck you.

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Don't be afraid to say "no" to prospective Dom/mes who aren't compatible.

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You do not have to take orders or obey every Dominant who approaches you. 

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Just because you are sub doesn't mean you should let Dom/mes walk all over you. 

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You do not have to spend money on, or give money to, a Dominant. 

• You do not have to send naked photos to a Dominant.

• Be careful how much personal info you reveal to strangers.

• Make a list of mandatory questions to ask prospective Dom/mes.

• Ask questions respectfully, then respectfully question answers.

• A Dominant who refuses to answer basic questions has something to hide.

• Talk to other subs and Dom/mes before you meet someone new. Get references. 

• Expensive fetish clothes/toys or a booming voice does not make a Dominant.

• Some Dominants exaggerate their lifestyle experience in order to impress subs. 

• A Dominant with many years of experience may still be a total asshole or abusive.

 

Chapter 2 - Being safe

• A good Dominant will make sure you feel safe at all times when meeting.

• Anything that is not consensual is abuse.

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A Dominant who refuses to honor your safeword is abusing you.

• Use common sense if ordered to have unprotected sex with strangers.

• Clean insertables yourself before and after they are used on you.

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Make sure your play partner knows all your medical conditions before scening.

• Drop any Dominant who orders you not to get medical or psychological help.

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Calling your safeword is not a sign of failure. It will help improve future scenes.

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Never tell a Dominant you have no limits.

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Never rush off to another state to meet a Dominant you just met. Be patient.

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Use safe calls (phone calls at established times) when meeting for the first time.

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Always meet in public on your first date. 

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If you must play on a first date, do it at a public dungeon. 

• Do not allow a Dominant to isolate you from family or loved ones. 

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Pay attention to your physical/mental condition after scenes.

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Some subs need more aftercare than others.

 

Chapter 3 - Protocol

• The most important protocol to learn is your own Dominant's.

• Basic etiquette and manners are all that is required at most lifestyle events.

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Make sure you know all the rules of a specific event and don't break them.

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When collared, your behavior in public is a direct reflection upon your Dominant. 

• Learn when to speak and when to be silent. 

• Do not touch other people's property (subs, toys) without permission. 

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Never interrupt other people’s scenes (ie. touching, talking or laughing loudly)

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Always clean up after your scene.

 

Chapter 4 - Your Journey

• Don't expect a Dominant to solve all your problems in life.

• Be responsible for your own health, financial independence and happiness. 

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Never stop learning about yourself and ways to improve your submission. 

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Never limit yourself to just one source of information. 

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Don't spend more money than you can afford on fetish gear, toys, or events.

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You do not have to be a pain slut to be a good sub. 

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This is your journey. Live it the way that makes you happy and satisfied. 

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If you aren't having fun, you are doing it wrong. 

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It's ok to be alone.

• You can decide for yourself whether to be monogamous or poly.

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Don't rush blindly into relationships because you are so eager to serve.

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Take time to honestly learn what you need and want out of the lifestyle.

• Keeping a private journal can help you get to know yourself better.

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Discover who you are in your submission... sub or slave, masochist or no pain, etc. 

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Just because you're a sub doesn't mean you shouldn't get your needs met too.

 

 

This will be my guide.


10/29/2013 7:01:22 PM

Well so far I have learned a lot with the questions and answers. For the most part I respect everyone on here and what they do and how they do it. Bust know that when speaking with me respect is something that I look for. If you can't respect me as a person then it's don't make sense to have any conversations.....


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