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Mistakes give us a chance to learn and grow, become better than who we were before the mistake. So let me be your best mistake. Let's make this simple shall we. I'm a Dom. I'm a naturally dominant and aggressive person. When you find out my profession you'll probably laugh and go that makes sense. Hint, Jason Spade (no not Stargate, but I like where your head is at). So I've been in and out of the BDSM scene for a couple years now. I've been doing this since I was 21 and know who I am. Oh the blessings of reaching thirty (there had to be at least one, right lol). I want someone I can be in public with and be normal. Be at home and be normal with. But I also want someone I can be myself with at home, someone I can be myself with in public. No I'm not normal, I just pretend to be. I like "playing" normal. I do like doing normal things and want to keep doing normal things with my partner like the movies, the beach, swimming at the springs, working out together at the gym, art shows and tours (yes I enjoy them but after a few hours I'm good to go), trying wacky things or just doing something random (go to Gatorland on a day off or get up at 4:00 a.m. to go see the sun rise at the beach, etc. etc.). When I'm myself: I want to have 'scenes' that I've planned with my partner, 'scenes' that I've written purely for them, one's they've written for me to carry out (I like to borrow from Dan Savage of Savage Love in the whole of always being game and giving, and sometimes you just need to say what it is you want because no one is a mind reader). I like to do bondage, power exchanges, blindfolds, mobility restriction, toy play, rope bondage (really really really fun). If my partner wants I'll get a little "out of the ordinary" (I don't like to use the word "bizarre" unless something is illegal and I will never do anything illegal) as it's not uncommon for folks to harbor secret dark desires they're afraid to share with the world. But I'm of the opinion so long as nothing illegal is happening and a person is mentally competent, and it's all consensual ultimately. Game on. I don't know what to really say as far as fetishes go because I don't really see things as fetishes (okay diaper play is a fetish and that's one of those things where I go "sorry, nope, not happening"). But I guess you could say orgasm control and orgasm forcing are fetishes of mine. Yes I like to cause women to have over a hundred orgasms in thirty minutes or less. Yes it is possible. Yes I've done it before. And let's be honest, I love a challenge. The best part is after I get a woman conditioned to having a hundred plus orgasms (why would I stop at a hundred, where is the fun in that). To then start the orgasm denial play and chastity play. Taking them to the edge right before they climax and then keeping them there with no guarantee of climaxing, making their body's writhe and burn with need for hours at a time sometimes. Till they beg to get off after having got used to it being such an easy, rapid, and often repeated thing. Okay and I like to put women through pain slut training and conditioning. Examples are putting a clothe's pin on a nipple and watch a woman writhe from a wave of rapid orgasms. Being able to pinch or nip their ear lobes in public and watch their bodies shiver as they fight the reaction to try and keep their cool for all around (because vibrating underwear is so nineties lol). There's more to me but I'll let you see it in time through my journals. I'm not posting a picture because of my profession but if you ask I'll provide one. If I message you I've likely provided one.

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7/13/2014 7:49:22 PM
Old goodie, but still a goodie. A good soft "introductory" one. From a mix of experiences, a mix of wisdom, that's a wonderfully terrible knowing.

You come over. I’ve had a good workout at the gym and my blood is up. Yes I worked out for two hours but I avoided powerlifting and instead went with German Volume training and high repetitions combined so I’m still running on an adrenaline rush and my body is just throwing out energy and desire at the sight of you. You also see that I’ve groomed for you, a subtle hint you will be used thoroughly. I watch you strip for me. Your eyes nervously meet mine and you see unwavering hunger and desire with uncharacteristic muteness from me. I take your hand and lead you to the shower. It smell of fresh deodorizers as I have cleaned it thoroughly in anticipation of your arrival so it is one less thing for you to worry about. But I don’t start the shower.

Instead I turn and kiss you. Intensely. You can smell my testosterone leaking out of my pores. Consciously you are unaware of it but your body cannot deny it. The energy I pour into, oh how I have taken your face in both of my hands making the kiss both passionate and unshakeably domineering in the same movement. Your body wilts to me. Unconsciously your submission has started, now it is time to start your build up. I grab your shoulder and I make you face the mirror. The action is awkward for you at first as you are not used to being handled like this. You almost speak to question me but I growl and your body quivers for me as it so apt to do when you sense I want you. I push you at the height of your back as I grab your hip so you are forced to bend over forward. Your hands holding you up on the sink. I pull at your hips to make you step back and once they have reached the necessary position I push your feet open with one of mine.

I start to rub your back, the gentleness of the act in near contradiction of the act. But I’m preparing you, letting your rational brain slip aside. For a bit I rub your back, releasing your anticipation, relaxing your heightened anticipation, and then I take you. In the face of the affectionate act I take you roughly from behind. Your pussy a mix of sensation and pleasure as I enter. You reflexively lift your head up and that’s when I grab your hair so you can see us in the mirror. Your face alight with pleasure and I am a calm and calculating bull fucking you. My thrusts are deep and hard, timed to a slow tempo, all designed to overwhelm your pussy as I roughly plow into your G-Spot. My other hand leaves your hip and starts to activate your chakras pushing energy into you to enhance the experience after you have first climaxed. A familiar snarling growl fills your ears and your eyes meet mine in the mirror “seven.” You almost try to lower your
head to nod yes but I won’t let you. I’m making you watch yourself get overwhelmed, I’m making you watch yourself get fucked like a bitch, forced to cum like a good little pleasure slut. It all just adds to the experience. You keep waiting for me to cum but I don’t. No I have plans for you.

After you’ve cum your seven times for me I start the shower, only gently rubbing your back, not speaking to you. You stay bent over the sink not ready to move yet. Not prepared to move. I look at you. “In the shower” is all I say in my naturally deep voice you are not used to but soon will be. You enter not sure what to expect. I smile an evil smile and wink at you. It starts out innocently enough. I soap up my hands and proceed to clean you up for me. It’s gentle and loving, sweet and welcomed, something you are not used to. I massage your shoulders and back a little. I clean you everywhere but your pussy. When I have you facing the shower head I start to kiss the back of your neck and I reach with my left hand to stimulate your clit. I push my chest against your back, all the more easy to pour my energy into you with. I start to play with you, slow and attentive. And then you feel something you weren’t expecting.

With a couple soaped fingers I am cleaning the outside of your sphincter. I know not to penetrate with soaped fingers but I still use the opportunity to stimulate your clit and asshole in rhythm and concert. “Good” I ask you and you nod your head yes. I let you get away without speaking. I play with your clit till you climax for me again. And then I push your back into the cold tile wall. My hand at your throat followed by another deep and energy pushing kiss. You don’t see me take the shower head out of its holder. The water is a lukewarm comfortable temperature leaving no risk of burns or hurt from its spray upon sensitive areas.
You feel the spray start on your stomach, a kind warning. I pull away from our kiss to look in your eyes. Your eyes say, is he really going to do that. You should know better by now. Of course I am. Of course I am going to masturbate your pussy with the shower head so every time you step into a shower at your house (if the head can be moved about) you are tempted to pleasure yourself to the thought of us. Your legs reflexively try to close up and I push them apart. “Endure” is all I say and I begin with the lightest spray there is. I turn the head so it sprays upward tantalizing your pussy. I follow kisses to your neck, licking, biting lightly, growling as I am aroused by the moment

When you realize I’ve changed the setting I am ready to kiss you again as the strobe function on the shower sends intermittent pulses of water among it’s long and focusedspray of water. Now I work the shower head from a mere six inches away from your pussy to up close. You feel the focused stream penetrating your pussy lips as the intermittent intense streams tantalize the outside. We kiss. You kiss me out of trust and desire, and I do as well. It doesn’t take long for you to climax. Your body wants to slump but you know you can’t otherwise you’ll risk falling down in the shower and missing out on the rest of my plans. “Two” I growl into your ear, I’m taking it easy on you. After your second orgasm I reholster the shower head and hand you the soap. You are not used to washing your lover but you try gently.

The entire time I am looking into your eyes to discern your pleasure, your concerns, you anxiety. When you reach my cock I take a hold of your wrist and tell you to stroke me. I use my hand to wrap your hand around my cock pulsing energy through you, through not only my hand but my cock as well. Once I feel your energy open to me I take my hand away and I let you stroke. You kiss me out of unsurety as what to do. And I begin to speak. My words are evil lustful words and your lips find their way to my freshly cleaned neck. A hand of mine finds one of your chakras and I start attuning your provision of pleasure to me for you. So you may feel pleasure in giving pleasure. To know its subtle yet powerful wonderfulness, for now. 

After I have deemed you attune I stop you and have you wash my back. You rub my back for me and you start to wonder what I expect you to do as you work your way down. You reach my butt cheeks and want to ask if you should clean deeply for me. With a smile in my voice I say “do as I did for you.” You nervously start to use two of your soaped fingers to clean me as your other hand reaches to stroke me. You rest your chin on my neck wondering if you are doing it right. I turn and we kiss my hand reaching behind your neck, over my shoulder, to push the pleasure I am receiving from you into you.


We exit the shower and I dry you off. We go through the rigamarou of getting dried off. Then I have you lay on the bed for me, on your back. It starts out innocently enough. I kiss you, I touch you teasingly. Tracing my palm and fingertips over your chest, stomach and inner thighs, but I don’t touch the most obvious of areas. I kiss your neck and move to your breasts, licking and suckling one as I grope the other, moving between them. I kiss your stomach as I tease your inner thigh. I move over your pelvis where one of your latent chakras is. I kiss it and lick at it, adding to your excitement and awakening it. It’s not long before I bite it. Gently of course but then you feel my growl. The sound resonates in your ears tantalizing your body. But you also feel the vibrations of my growl in your chakra as it moves down to your pussy.

After I feel you are thoroughly tantalized I move to kissing the tops of your thighs, going back and forth, looking up at you slyly as I do it. Seeing the want in your eyes to yell out to just do it already, but this is a process, a means. Finally I start down one of your inner thighs. Kissing, biting, licking. Till finally I let the very outer flesh of my lips touch your pussy lips. So careful am I to graze our fleshes along one another. The hair of your pussy tickling my lips but still adding sensation to your experience. You breathe deeply and regularly. I hesitate, do I make you tell me to eat your pussy or do I give you a token and rare kindness and just proceed.

I kiss your pussy at its top careful not to spread your lips but instead to push them down on your clit. I start to kiss my way slowly down your pussy, alternating my attention on the sides of your pussy lips. I work my way all the way down to your vagina, and that’s where I first penetrate you with my tongue. Pushing my whole mouth into your beckoning pussy. Taking in your exciting and arousing aroma in full, tasting your excitement. After a minute or two I start to work my up dragging the tip of my tongue up the length of your pussy lips. When I feel your clit touch against my tongue I move it around in circles, gently.


Then I start to moan, well growl. You have no idea how excited I am now, how much I am feeling your energy. With challenged restraint I start to lick your clit in a steady progression of sensation. Eventually flapping my tongue against your clit in fast swiping strikes to only to use the full length of my tongue to push down deeply on your clit. It is not long before I am sucking only your clit. Pulling it into my mouth and licking it. Soon you cum for me and I have just begun. I draw myself up so I am sitting Indian style and I lift your rump into my lap so I may have full access to you. I proceed to begin again, but while massaging your ankles, calves and thighs. My finger tips pushing in and massaging in circles as I tease another climax out of you. When you cum again I start the next part. I push two fingers of my right hand into your depths. Finding your G-Spot, while I have reached it with my cock before, yet have I have fully explored and awakened
it with my touch, and more importantly my energy. 

I find my prize, your ecstasy. My fingertips move around in alternating circles eliciting deep and surprised breaths from you as I leisurely lick and suckle your clit, not enough to make you cum, but enough to keep you on the edge of climax. Then my fingers start to thrust in and out of you, slowly but each time they reach their target I push deep and crook my fingers leaving you no escape from ecstasy. It is not long before I am aggressively fingering you and sucking on your clit. Your climax comes hard and surprisingly intense. So powerful it is the most intense orgasm I have given you to date. Your hands reach out to my head to grab my head to try and find something to hold onto. I do not tell you to endure, I did not give you a safeword yet. You know you have to endure now as I make you cum again for me. After your third orgasm from me going down on you I stop. Your body drained, your only desire to rest. But I’m not going to let you.


Instead I make you get ready for your scene. I open the door I have prepared all the items in. First I hand you your blindfold and I make you put it on. I take  handcuffs and bind your wrists so you face the difficulty of teetering. You stand on all fours for me. I instruct you of the rules. You are to remain on all fours and remain with your back flat and raised, no arching of your back is allowed. It’s a position that is at first easy to maintain but difficult to hold, especially once I get started. But like any good Dom first breaking in a sub, I set you up to fail, so I may push you farther than you thought possible. You hear other items making their way onto the bed but you cannot see them and while I have not gagged you, you know you may not speak unless it is to say your safeword or answer a question or command I have given you.

I kiss your buttocks, a mere peck of affection and I insert a  vibrating egg into. It’s not on but it will be soon enough. Without ceremony I push it straight into your G-Spot. Then I turn it on. I don’t give you a chance to get acclimated I just do it and give it its full power. It is not a powerful or fancy one, those will come later if you are a good girl, but it is more than you can take. You make your first mistake and drop your back. For that I slap your rump to inflict pain. “Hold it in” I growl and unwittingly your pussy tightens to keep the vibrating egg inside.

Now is the time to break you. I push energy into a chakra waiting for you arch or drop your back bringing you close to climaxing. Then you taste the starter whip. It is simple and has no great weight or danger to it. That comes later, months later. Now it is time to introduce you to the duality of pain and pleasure. With complete surprise you climax moaning unabashedly, failing to keep your back flat. You are punished for it. Unfortunately you let the egg fall out.


Shaking and unable to hold yourself up I caress you back affectionately. You are unprepared for the clothespin I put on your nipple. “Keep it in or you get another, I have nineteen more for you.” In your mind you are terrified, nineteen. Do I plan to make you cum another nineteen times? You know better, it is more. I push the egg back inside you. Again you climax, crying out, and again the egg slips out. The next clothespin goes on your other nipple. The play continues much the same and for the next four clothespins I play kindly, well as kindly as I can play. Except for your last transgression I now put one on your pussy lips. Not right on the edge as I could have done, but a bit further in. I say laughingly “I’m running out of places to put these.” And you know deep inside where the rest are going. Another three times you falter, it starts to be getting too much. And you beg me, you use your safeword and I growl. “If you use your safe word
you must only endure one more, but I will put a clothespin on your clit. If you refuse then we are done for the day and you must go home.” 

The sadness of having to leave grips you, the feelings you have for me is unreal, and you know that while all of this is horribly painful, it is good for you. I make you tell me to put the clothespin on your clit and the pain and pleasure of it rocks you and I help the vibrating egg stay in place with my fingers as my thumb plays with the roof of your vagina’s opening. The presence of my two fingers add a filling feeling your pussy and soon you are cumming for me as I whip you. Soon you are climaxing a most powerful orgasm. Your body goes limp, shaking from levels of adrenaline, endorphins, and serotonin it has never endured. 

I gently undue my punishments and I pull your legs so you may lay on your stomach. I undo the handcuffs and take off your blindfold. Your eyes are unable to focus and you are well and truly fucked out of your brains. I lay down next to you and I rub your back affectionately with coconut butter to relax your nerves. It doesn’t stop me though from teasing phantom orgasms from you. Only a couple. After a good half hour of affectionate holding and kissing you are fit to be used again, despite being unready. You know I have to be sated now. You know I have to cum now. You’ve had your fun and you have endured but your training and conditioning is far from over yet. 

You know it’s time to start cumming from blowing me. It’s time you start experience your place as my sub, as my slave. You go to start as you normally do and I tell you no. Instead you must get back on all fours and lean down to blow me. I don’t mind you using one of your hands to hold me still for you, but it makes holding yourself up all that more difficult.

You begin, teasing the head of my cock with light suckling and swipes of your tongue tip on my cockhead, tasting the sums of precum flowing out of me, yearning to enter you. As your mouth moves up and down on me taking in my full length you feel a hand start to creep to pussy. It starts a simple path teasing at the sensitive and burning flesh of your but cheeks tracing the raised bumps of flesh. You can’t help but moan and shudder a little, the pleasure and sensation fresh in your mind. 

I reaching you pussy and stick my index finger inside pushing on the roof of your vagina, pulling down. You can’t help but be excited. With my other hand I push with energy on the back of your neck as you head moves up and down. I awaken your ability to receive energy from my cock into your mouth. I haven’t started playing with your clit yet, but I will, but first thing is first. 

Strangely I make you stop and stick out your tongue for me. My thumb searches for the spot I’m looking for. Naturally you go to suck on it but I command you to merely hold it out. When I find the spot I am looking for, the spot where I’ve detected your Chakra before when I’ve pushed my fingers or thumb in your mouth to send energy into, now you remember don’t you, I was feeling if you had chakra in your tongue, and oh my how you do. I push down on the chakra pushing energy through it as you feel my ring finger and pink finger start to stimulate your clit. You are excited by the sensations and energy but I add to it. I growl a command, “CLITTT.” And you body seizes with pleasure and your pussy tighten like you could not have thought possible. You want to ask me what I have done but I simply tell you to lick me and now the real fun begins.

You lick my cockhead as I stimulate your clit and you cum surprisingly hard for me. So hard you pussy aches. You ask me if you can stop, and I simply tell you you have to endure. Your body and energy aches to stop but I won’t let you. “Suck me” I tell you and return to a more intense and incredible experience. Your climaxes are not frequent but when they arrive, they are intense. You spend the next thirty minutes climaxing for me like this. Today is not your day to cum from solely sucking on me, another time yes. But you are not ready yet. Now is your time to be rewarded.


I ball my hand in your hair into a fist pulling your hair as your head moves up and down on me as though I’m using your mouth to masturbate my cock.  I’m breathing hard, yearning to cum for you. To bridge this first gap between us, to fill you with my energy in a way so intense, so nearly permanent it seems. Finally you feel me shoot into your mouth and you climax as I fill your mouth. The intensity of your own orgasm grows as your start to taste me and your body goes limp with mine. You retain the ability to swallow my cum and suck it into your mouth as not to spill a drop. After I have came for you, you grasp my still rock hard cock squeezing it upward, milking it for the stray drops of cum that have been left behind. Looking at me when you lick the rising droplets up. Smiling at me lovingly but also mischievously as I am overwhelmed by my own orgasm for once. 


7/13/2014 7:21:12 PM
When I thought collarme was gone I felt a little sad inside. I've been on and off of it for years. I have good memories, bad memories, wisdom thanks to it. Now it's collarspace and I kind of smile about it. When I thought it was gone I thought about building my own but once I got clued in from a friend that collarspace existed. I clapped hands with a big deep laugh. 

Because let's be honest. Paying for membership is a joke and there are so many fakes out there, it just doesn't seem worth it. Plus being on collarspace doesn't mean you are looking to hookup. It can mean you are looking just to make friends and have folks to discuss things with who won't think you are a complete freak (I like freaks, they tend to be fun). 

And should something get started, that's a bonus. 

Not everyone is going to want to talk to you or message you back. Not everyone is going to want to be friends. And shocker, folks are going to be superficial and judge you by your looks (because the punk scene died in '87 more or less, and hipsters are ..... faking it too hard in my opinion but I love them none the less). 

But the folks you meet, the things you learn, make for a good but of fun and wisdom. Being stupid is being stupid. But getting out there and taking chances and making mistakes is just a part of life. The smartest of us figure out some bit of wisdom or silver lining from our mistakes, the idealists never learn from them, and the dumbest of us let their mistakes destroy them.

It's why I picked out the use name YOURBESTMISTAKE. Because I've had exes who after it's all said and done stood and looked at me and smiled, hey you were a really great mistake. I'm not for everyone, but damn I'm a lot fun. With that said though, I believe in teaching folks things that once they've been learned, they can never truly be unlearned. 

And that's the real fun. Knowing they've learned things with me they'll never be able to ever unlearn, or ever experience again. So sometimes I'm the worst mistake. <big close lip smile>



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 Age: 35
 London East, United Kingdom