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Hetero Male Dominant, 59,  FarmingtonHills, Michigan
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I have been in the lifestyle for over 14 years and seek a subslave experienced or newbies.

To submissivesslaves and others of interest looking at my profile....

Please enjoy your unguided tour of my profile,

and if you would like the guided tour, please ask.

A little about me....

I am open to travel (2-3 hr drive from Detroit area), you must be as well and must have your own transportation expect to pay for your own travel expenses. I am willing to meet halfway upon the first initial meeting.

NO ONE FROM OUTSIDE THE U.S., but will consider the Windsor, Ontario, Canada area.

I am a sadistic individual at times, but I am a caring and nurturing Dom. There is a time for total obedience and a time to play.

I am strict, yet, patient and I do give a new sub time to acclimate herself to me.

I am an affectionate Dom and seek a subslave that is affectionate, as well.

I am open and fair minded.

I enjoy using belts, clamps, and other inventions I have created with ordinary things around the house. I love to pull hair, too.

I give my sub my whole self, and expect the same.

I seek a sub that listensobeys when told to do something, but will speak their mind when asked. Communication is utmost important to me, along with trust and honesty.

I believe that there must be a friendship, first and foremost, between Master and subslave for the relationship to work, because if its not there, then how can you openly, willingly and completelysubmit to me?

I believe that having a subslave is a responsibility, That I do not take lightly.

When I have a subslave I care for them before and after play. I protect them.

They have given themselves to me, Thus become mine.

I have plenty of time to share my knowledge and to train a subslave, or just mentor a subslave.

You must be a playful fun subslave that can spend real time with me at your place or mine.

I enjoy being a Daddy for those girls out there that are Daddys girl.

I, also, seek a subslave (from my immediate local area) to assist me with domestic chores in exchange for Ds relationship andor playtime.

Looking for those that like to have pictures taken of themselves. I am, by no means, a professional at this, but would be open to taking pics.

Everyone has different likes and dislikes. I do not do all that I have listed in my fetishes, as my profile states, that i am open minded and flexible. All you have to do is talk to me.

I lead a vanilla lifestyle with my family and some friends, so you must be adaptive to be vanilla when appropriate.

In time, I may seek to have a conventional polyhome, but, right now, the unconventional works for me. Ask what I mean if you are curious.

I am a non-smoker, non-drinker, and drug-free. I will NOT tolerate any illegal drug use in my home.

To ask and become a pet, sex is not a need for me, its the play I seek.

Bisexuallesbian women are welcome. I encourage my pet to have private intimacy with other women if she is lesbianbisexual and would enjoy to watch.

Are you the subslave I seek? Contact me and lets see what happens!

It took a submissive woman to show me what I was doing, in experimentation,

had a name. I was dominant to other females and never knew what it was. I liked to k her and I thank her for opening my eyes to this world. She was a painslut and could take almost all I gave her.

I have a Yahoo I.D., but I do not give it out the first few chats. I talk here for a while to get to know you, first.


Those that delete messages unread will be blockedby me.



THEY WILL BE BLOCKED BY ME AND HER AFTER I MAKE COMMENTS TO THE DOMINANTS in question Male or Females, or any males (Dom,Master,Switch,subslave)

No petssubs currently.

I respond to all messages

Would expect you to as well

I am Master Xthoughts (M.X.)

I MUST THANK Mistressellies MsPam4u (same person)for taking care of this site while I was away. Thank you!

She is a Good person, Talk to her find out.

This profile is a work in progress. Its always growing and evolving like myself.












 Dominant Male



 5' 10"

 230 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Spanking you (Expert)


 Amusement Parks



 Breast Play

 You wearing my collar

 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Being Massaged

 Erotic touch

 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Giving)





 Historical Shows

 Science Fiction

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Show Tunes


 Garage Sales

 Renaissance Faires



 Blindfolding you

 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Electrical Play


 Domestic Service

 Housework Service


 Placing you on a leash

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Sensation Play

 Role Playing

 Speech Restrictions

 Wax Play

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games





 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Rock Music



 Public Play


 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass


 Electronica / EDM



 Horror Movies

 Hard Limits:

 Modern Primitivism



 Professional Chef

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Journal Entries:
12/16/2021 12:46:55 PM

Just because you see a particular pic in my profile, that does not mean i am like that with everyone.
there are some who like more color added to there body then others, some want to be pushed, and pushed hard.
I will negotiate with anyone on how far i will take you.
Not everything in my profile is for all .
i am open and willing to adjust for different sub/slave females.

11/22/2016 9:22:26 PM
No video chat or any chat without exchanging messages first.

9/3/2016 9:25:48 AM
I find it hard to talk to people that offer friendship, but do not have an active profile.
Please message me first so I can see who is offering friendship

8/20/2012 8:28:26 AM

To those of you out there that claim TRUST and HONESTY are important to you, be truthful about it.

I recently had someone say that to me, and when I was Honest with her she bolted.

If you claim to be open minded then be so........ do not be open to some and closed to others.


People that say they are OPEN, HONEST and want that, THEN RUN AND HIDE ,are in my  book Game players. Fake and Liars.

And as my profile states I do not want that, I AM REAL YOU BE


Thank you for reading my RANT.

7/22/2012 8:08:19 AM

Put a few new pictures up.........

And would be open to taking pics of willing sub/slaves.

And others. Preferably females, or select couples

4/12/2012 10:36:27 AM

Nothing is as it seems, people say Game players can stay away. yet people like to play the same games that other people play on them.


I ask you to be honest with me. If you say you say you will do something then do it.

And if it doesnt work out thats fine.





12/17/2011 2:54:49 PM


12/5/2011 8:33:57 PM

soccerslavegirl asked for and was granted release, for personal reasons.

she will always be welcome in my home.

she will always be a friend.

and always welcome to come back to the fold, if she wishes.

11/21/2011 9:17:38 AM

on 10/24/11 mastersslave70 became cumcatcher102411 and be came my pet for life.

on  11/19/11 soccerslavegirl became mine as well

11/21/2011 9:13:44 AM

i am now actively seeking sub/slaves.

and have found 2 that i am proud to call mine.

they both are proud to be owned by me.




3/21/2011 7:48:57 PM

Begining in June-I will activate my search for a very special girl...

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