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Introduction:
Hi there! I'm an intelligent, ambitious woman who takes a lot of pride in her accomplishments. ?I've just completed my bachelor's in biological science and I'm in school once again. I love the challenge and have excellent control over my life. In fact, ironically, I tend to take the lead in most things I do. I often organize and lead study groups. I make sure everything is in working order and up to my standard....must be my type-A personality. I work to succeed and I'm proud of who I am. ??
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But it's been a while since I've had anyone in my life that could even attempt to take the reins. It's not easy to wrestle them from me either. ?
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Don't get me wrong, I've been dating but no one's fit the bill to even make it to a significant milestone let alone into my pants.?
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I'm not looking for a quick NSA sort of situation. I'm looking for a connection. I'm not just some submissive who's going to bow to you just because you think I should. I'm tough and kind of a brat....so if you don't like a challenge and get frustrated easily...we'll make good friends but that's about it. I'm looking for someone patient who is also looking to connect and not just have sex. I want to actually get to know you. ?I want to really try and build a bond with someone.? I see us going bowling, catching movies, talking about books, hiking in the fall and winter, taking day trips, binging on Netflix, trying new places to eat; either hole-in-the-wall places or just something out of the box.? I love investigating other cultures, one of my favorite stores is Lili's on 44th St. in Phx, just because of some of the things they have there. ?
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After all, we're still people....under all these kinks. :) The best way to describe me would be that I'm a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. ?During the day we go about our lives, doing all those wonderful things that make us adults, but when we get together that's when we reveal who we really are. ?;) lol. ?
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WHAT I LOOK LIKE:
5'5
Size 20 [BBW] (This is a work in progress, could use a little structure here. :\ )
38 B
Caucasian but Mediterranean look, olive skin
Black Hair
Hazel eyes
Glasses - kinda have a nerd girl look
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*See my pictures!
WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE:
First of all, I'm bisexual. ?So this applies to men and women. Appearance is not a hard and fast thing to me. Height, weight, hair color, eye color...no preferences. ?It's more about THE PERSON, not whats under the clothes. ?Please have good hygiene though - dental and otherwise. ?It's summer in the devil's armpit right now...and it takes its toll on us!
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Age is just a number so long as there is a real connection there but lets be reasonable, I'm 28. You can't be older than my parents, in their 50's.
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WHAT I'M LIKE:
1) ?Educated - bachelor's degree in biological science and now attending school to become a radiographic technologist.
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2) ?Ambitious - seeking additional education in a competitive medical field!
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3) ?Candid yet tactful - you never have to guess what I'm thinking, I know you're not a telepath.? I'm not going to make you guess, or play games with you. If I don't like something I'll tell you, but I won't be a bitch about it.?
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4) Joker - "a" joker, not "the" joker...that'd be messed up.? But I do have a dark sense of humor and love to make people laugh.
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5) Super?Soft Tomboy - I don't do makeup, heels, dresses, skirts REGULARLY. Sometimes the mood strikes me, or if I'm going out I will do these things.? I own all these things, but most days its jeans, a beautiful/cute/funny shirt and sketchers. I'm on my feet a lot working in labs and going to clinicals, so I do a lot of walking and heels are not good for that. lol I don't do bows, glitter, rainbows and unicorns. I'm not a shrinking violet by any means but I am a girl. Trust me.
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6) Thoughtful - my friend recently moved to Cali and he was telling me he found his mood to be dwindling because of his new surroundings and having not yet adjusted to life in his new place. I called a local pizza place and had them deliver him an all vegan meal with a note telling him to keep his chin up and that there are people out there who care about him.? I'm an intuitive person and genuinely care about peoples feelings....and go out o my way to make people I love feel better.
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7) Loyal/Honest - I put these together because I feel they tie into each other.? Being the candid person that I am I am up front with my feelings on a situation.? With that being said I fully believe that cheating is bullshit.? If you're so unhappy in a relationship that you are willing to cheat then you may as well just be honest and break up with the person so you can fuck whoever you want without adding insult to injury.?
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8) Family Oriented - I have a daughter (5 yo). This is a package deal, as any good parent knows.? I'm not looking for her next father figure, I'm not looking for someone to support her. I've got this....BUT if you want to be a part of my life and connect, you need to know she is a part of my life. Right now, she's most of it. She is my star and a huge motivator. As true as this is, I'm not having any more children. ?My uterus threatens to commit hari kari the moment anyone even dares to ask me if I'm having another. BUT its fine if you have your own kids though. ?:) ?
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9) Drug and Disease Free -? Yay! I don't smoke, I drink socially but never get "wasted".?
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10) Homebody - Not the crazy cat lady kind of homebody, I just mean I don't do the bar/club scene.? I'd much rather study/read/watch Netflix. (When you message me, tell me what's on your queue this way I know your not fake!)
WHAT YOU'RE LIKE:
I feel like I would get along with someone who is like me,
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1) Educated & Ambitious?- either have a degree in something or working on one presently, I would like someone who has a career or is working on one, like I am. Not just a "job" surviving paycheck to paycheck.? I've lived that life, I don't like it, it's not for me.
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2) You've got to have a sense of humor?and don't be afraid of offending me. ?Fluent sarcasm a plus so is "mean" humor.? For example, my best friend is Irish and I'm Italian and we're constantly goading each other! That's the sort of mean humor I refer to. ?Not to be confused with being a mean person.?I had a conversation the other day with this guy who was being an asshole to me during a class I had and I pulled him aside and asked him what his deal was...(especially since we didn't really even know each other!)...and he explained to me that was his personality because "the young girls these days really love being abused by jerks". ?I'm not a girl, I'm a woman and beyond that level of naivete. ?
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3) You should also be drug and disease free?and not drink like a fish. Weekends fine, events fine, but not every single night, messed up drunk.
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4) If you have children, great!??But if you have them....make sure you can take care of them.? I'm not looking to be someone else's financial support system, just like I don't expect anyone to support my kid.? (If we hit things off and things get really serious, obviously the circumstances change as we enter "one big happy family" status.)
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That should cover it for now.? I feel like I've scared off enough people. If I sound like someone you'd like to get to know and won't Bro-zone me then please message me!
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