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Why I'm Here: After years of fielding "how do you live without a profile?" I finally decided it was time to start one. I'm on to connect with old friends and meet new friends with similar open minded interests in life. If you've been to an event at Choice, I'm pretty sure we've met - say hi or send me a friend request! I'm also testing out to see if this is an easier place to find a LTR without having to explain what it means to be less than vanilla. I run a club on the weekends for adventurous adults which eats up a lot of traditional nights to go out on a date, so a flexible schedule is important to me :) About Me: I'm about the lowest tech geek you will probably ever meet. I have a classic cell phone with only a numeric keypad. I'm not qualified to use a microwave but I'm reasonably skilled with traditional food preparation methods. I tend to lead a simple life when I can to balance out the rest of the craziness I live in. I've had people not believe me when I tell them I'm an engineer ("but you have a personality! ... and so few gadgets?"). I have a strong type-A personality that desperately tries to be a type-B personality. I'm always looking to learn and am very open minded. I've been known to try things to empathize or just to be able to say I've had the experience. For example I wore contacts for a month even though I have excellent vision. Now I understand how dry and tired your eyes can get and how annoying it can be when one gets knocked out. I'm being camera shy for the time being because of work (day job), but I'm happy to send pictures on request. I need to keep my private and public life independent for now - I'm sure you can understand. In terms of interests, I'm all over the map. I think I'm into just about everything on some level (hence my weekend hobby/job). My interests vary wildly based on your interests. I really enjoy working with new students/subs/bottoms to explore their fantasies in a safe and controlled environment. This does not necessarily mean soft or gentle (it all depends on the fantasy/interest). I'm much more of a voyeur than an exhibitionist. I'm much more of a top than a bottom. I like to create things, use my mind to come up new clever ways to challenge you, and can be extremely patient. Just because it makes my list below doesn't mean it's something I need to be doing to feel complete, but it is probably something I have experience with and enjoyed. My experiences range all over the place, but I have some interesting gaps too. Those who know me relatively well have been surprised by some of them. I travel a lot for work and frequent several towns. Providence is my weekend location. New London and Fairfax are my main two weekday locations. If you're up for meeting someone new, kinky, and non-jealous, let's find a time to do dinner or coffee somewhere.