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My poly family has recently expanded and I find I no longer have time for new prospects. I am always interested in making new friends, but I am no longer looking for play partners or submissives. If you message me looking for anything other than friendship, you WILL be ignored.
Plainly, I want someone to contact me because they are interested in me and the things I want, not just because I happen to have the right genitalia, label, or interests. I want the person contacting me to do so because they have read what I have written, liked the things I've said and felt that getting to know me better is something they dearly want. I'm not interviewing for a fast food worker, or ordering a pizza. I'm looking for someone who not only wants to serve, but wants specifically to get to know and eventually serve ME.
I am looking for a bisexual man who is OK with the idea of sexually topping my current sub. Either as a co-Dom or as a sub. There is nothing hotter than watching two men together, and he wants to be used in this way. This can either be an occasional thing, or we can look toward a serious long term relationship, or something in between.
If you are interested in subbing, there are a few things you should know...
I don't do forced bi. I want willing participants in all aspects. Seriously, if you are straight or want to do forced bi, I'm not the Domme for you. Again, I DON'T DO FORCED BI.
I'm also not the Domme for you if you require feminization.
I don't need or want someone to prostrate themselves at my feet, or who needs constant direction or correction. I want you to be a person, with your own life, thoughts, wants and desires. I want you to be able to clearly communicate those things to me without my having to drag it out.
I play in the shallow end of the kink pool, so I don't think someone into heavy play of really any kind, is going to work well. I am all for learning and expanding my horizons, but I tend to dabble lightly in things, not get super focused and into one specific thing. On the same token I might cause some pain during cbt but I'm not going to do anything that I'm worried will cause damage. That's why I won't do things like needles, knife/carving, etc.
I also do not want any part of a situation where your spouse or partner does not know we are doing this. I do not condone or assist cheating, and will expect to meet and speak to any existing partners, before any play. My definition of cheating is pretty narrow. If your partner doesn't know, I'm not getting involved, period.
I work with pleasure. I want all parties involved to get exactly what they want and need to get the maximum amount of pleasure from the encounter. Sometimes that involves some pain as an enhancement to the experience, but I am not one to inflict pain for the sake of it.
Fair warning, I'm a large woman. I'm not being flippant, or downing my self, it's a fact. I'm OK with me. If that's not your thing, that's fine, we'll just leave it at that.
FYI: I will not be responding to any messages that are a single word or sentence. If you aren't going to put any effort into contacting me, I can't believe you will put any into serving me.
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