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Xiquelle

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subm49
I know these things are supposed to be perfectly crafted to appeal to just the right sort of person, with just enough information to get responses, without too much information so as to avoid being buried in them. I've been wandering online for a long time now though, and I'm pretty well done with games. Take this as you will, it is the truth as best I can describe it.

So, here's what I want to find. I really am sorta lonely and I want to find a friend. Someone to keep and enjoy company with. Someone to talk to, to spend time with, to get to know, to be myself with, someone who is naturally submissive and can follow my lead even when I'm just being silly or random. Someone who is patient and kind and who doesn't have anything to prove, and who can accept me for all of who I am and not judge me by their idea of what my dominance ought to be. Someone who can trust that they are loved and cherished, and someone I can trust to love and cherish me. My desire to find a close friend, my best friend, honestly overwhelms anything beyond friendship at this point, and nothing else is more important.

I am dominant. That isn't a challenge, it isn't a box I fit into, it isn't a role I play, it's not a game or a mask or a test, it is simply part of who I am. It is a part of me that doesn't always get to see daylight and I want to change that. I don't simply want you to obey me, I need you to know yourself well enough to say that you are submissive, that you are fulfilled by following someone elses lead.. not just sexually but in all aspects of life. This doesn't mean you're a doormat, it doesn't mean you don't have limits, it doesn't mean you're not a unique, imperfect, intelligent, capable human being who deserves respect and care; it just means that part of who you are is submissive.

I am pansexual, introverted, intelligent, easily amused, overweight, sadistic, compassionate, snuggly, generous, introspective, quiet, curious, patient, geeky, and poetic. I like computers, gadgets, cats, anime, psychology, learning new things, board games with friends, interesting ideas, playing pool, rollerskating, movies, road trips, and laughter. I find it difficult to trust. I feel fulfilled when I'm teaching or advising. I melt a little when someone's playing with my hair. I love easily, unconditionally, simply and without reservation or regret - I have never stopped loving anyone.
I don't smoke or use drugs - I expect the same from you.
sugarbabe19
 
 Age: 38
 Fife, United Kingdom