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I have only recently been introduced to the community through a friend of mine.She met her Master about two years ago and suggested that maybe I find someone as well.I was hesitant to do so,but after sitting in on a session with the two of them....I just knew.I wished it was me submitting to him..(Not him in particular..Not a homewrecker here.)but to a Dominant in general. But I felt empty knowing that she had found the one to make her feel whole and loved.I could see how deeply they trusted one another and I was a little jealous.
I realize now.I wanted that.I want to learn what it means to truly submit heart,mind and soul to someone and give that kind of trust.Perhaps...perhaps you might help me?Sir?
I suppose that in order to get the best response and find out whose really interested,I should throw a decent bit of information out.
*sighs*
I am a single mother.Before anyone fires back with,"Oh you're just looking for someone to take care of you..."Stop right there.I'm not.I can take care of myself.I can get around when I need to and I don't expect any handouts.
I am a college student studying Fashion Design at the local community college.As such,I will do my best to articulate my self coherently.Please at least ATTEMPT to do the same.By that I mean,no text speak.(Example:U are so cute..or something like that).Next,because of the reason stated above(for those of you who need a reminder:Single mother),I am not currently looking to relocate.Perhaps in the future,or once we have established a good rapport and gotten to know one another well.
I ask that even if we exchange correspondence here,we eventually make plans to meet face to face. Also, have no desire to play on the first or second meeting.We WILL go someplace public and have lunch or coffee or something.If we make a connection,the next meeting could be discussed.No offense,but I'd like to get to know who it is that's submitting me.
FOR All DOMINANTS!!!!
I cannot chat here (on CM) and will usually respond a little faster via mail.After we have spoken for a little while,we can exchange messages in real time via Yahoo.When sending the request, please state your username on CM and include the text."XiaoXie."
Any requests not labeled this way will be deleted and ignored.
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Lastly,If you and I decide to begin a D/s relationship,please remember that I may have time constraints.Weekends are free generally,Tuesdays and Fridays are out of the question until further notice
Also,if I address you as Sir before such a relationship has been concretely established,realize it is just my way of being respectful to a possible Dominant.
Thanks for listening to me
Hopefully this won't deter many serious contenders!-
Respectfully, XiaoXie
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its been a rather fun day today.I went to my first Houston EROS meeting earlier and had a blast. |
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I suppose I can already begin weeding out the "Doms" who don't want anything other than a cheap fuck.Look,there may be others here looking for a short term session or two;There may even be those looking for an online D/s relationship.Personally,I'm not here for either of those.I'm not looking to be dominated by a couple I am not looking to relocate right now.I'm looking for a serious long term relationship.I hope to not come across as snooty or stuck up,but messaging me with a one line,text speak message and expecting me to swoon at the sight of the poorly thought out request....not going to happen.I wrote out how I felt for a reason.I put thought into every word and I could ask each and every one of you out there thinking about contacting me to read my profile again and at least try to give it the same effort.Please.I need to know you're serious.
On a separate note,I was reading through some profiles today and I came across a statement I felt I had to include myself.
"ONE MORE THING... I WILL NOT BE PUSHED OR BULLIED INTO ANYTHING!!! I AM TAKING THIS SLOW UNTIL I AM COMFORTABLE. IF YOU'RE GOING TO BE NASTY AND DEMANDING...YOU WILL BE DELETED AND BLOCKED..INSULTING MY INTELLIGENCE WILL GET DEEP SIX. I apologize if this offends you in advance. No exceptions"
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I suppose that in order to get the best response and find out whose really interested,I should throw a decent bit of information out.
*sighs*
I am a single mother.Before anyone fires back with,"Oh you're just looking for someone to take care of you..."Stop right there.I'm not.I can take care of myself.I can get around when I need to and I don't expect any handouts.
I am a college student studying Fashion Design at the local community college.As such,I will do my best to articulate my self coherently.Please at least ATTEMPT to do the same
Next,because of the reason stated above(for those of you who need a reminder:Single mother),I am not currently looking to relocate.Perhaps in the future,or once we have established a good rapport and gotten to know one another well.
I ask that even if we exchange correspondence here,we eventually make plans to meet face to face. Also, have no desire to play on the first or second meeting.We WILL go someplace public and have lunch or coffee or something.If we make a connection,the next meeting could be discussed.No offense,but I'd like to get to know who it is that's submitting me.
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Lastly,If you and I decide to begin a D/s relationship,please remember that I may have time constraints.Weekends are free generally,Tuesdays and Fridays are out of the question until further notice
Also,even if I address you as Sir,realize it is just my way of being respectful to a possible Dominant.
Thanks for listening to me
Hopefully this won't deter many serious contenders!-XiaoXie |
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