I have discovered  that by putting my mouth around a stiff cock I become 100 percent more attractive !!

Once someone comes in my mouth,

they would never choose any other hole.

This is not a judgment question because I do respect everyone for their own choice in life.

However, In a life style where trust is the most important, Who is fooling who, when people make justification for cheating on their spouse so that they can hook up with  bdsm playmates?

When they say, my spouse is not into the life, but has agreed to an open relationship, I would  want to meet the spouse at the same time I meet the prospective playmate or it wouldn't go any further.

In that case there is no loss of trust.

In my open mind, anyone who can talk them self into a reason to betray the trust of their ultimate trust partner. (spouse), would soon find a reason to betray any other lesser trust.

Greetings,

Thank you everyone who has sent me a message and or chatted with me.

It has been less than a month now since I created this profile.

The experiment has been very interesting.

Comments and messages have confirmed many of my opinions and provided me with new fuel to change and update some points of view I have had.

I have a better understanding of why people are put off by this site as well as a better understanding why others may continue in trying to make paths in the tall weeds when there is a well worn trail a few feet away.

I thought I would share a clue. This is of course not true for everyone but it does explain some things.

Love: Sub women want to be in love and to love their Dominants.

That magic electrical chemical spark of passion that makes you want to be with and to serve and worship the man you wish to own you clouds and crowds out everything else.

Those that use that first raging glow to learn enough about each other and what makes each other whole will have something to draw on when the magic fades.

The magic does fade, with every slight, with every misdirected insult, at first she thinks its her fault and she tries even harder to please and surrenders ever more of her self to do so.

One day, she wakes up and its gone. no spark, no chemistry, just the discomfort and sordid feeling of a very badly scuffed shoe she can't wait to take off.

If its not too late, the Dominant may have the ability to rekindle the fire and stoke the passion from the embers, but then it may be just easier to snatch up that next fresh novice who is or wants to be head over heels for her new man.

Its that tawdry awakening that gives us the courage to be our selves and move on.

Best Wishes

P