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At this time I am actively looking, fakes and flakes however need not apply. Also, when we first start talking, allow for a fair amount of time for communication, talking, chatting, exchanging ideas, thoughts, wants, needs, likes, dislikes, limits.
I will also be asking you why/how you got here, i.e. what brought your here. I believe it is important to establish motivation, before inquiring about intent.

Anyway, on to the show.

RL Dominant Male,
And I mention RL (Real Life) as this is not just an online adventure for Me, it is also My Lifestyle of choice, a Lifestyle I have been actively living for the last 10 or so years. I have been aware and dabbling in and out of the Lifestyle for the last 20 or so years. I am interested in making more friends first and foremost. I also engage in training, mentoring, teaching, and in general discussing the Lifestyle. Be that into specifics, or more general or even philosophical concepts. Locally I have been organizing events, as well as teaching (Bondage) classes for many years now.

To Me, the mental aspects of BDSM and especially D/s are very important. The rest is nice yes, but w/o the mind(s) engaged, the rest is just a loosely connected set of parlor tricks. With the mind engaged, something as simple as getting a cup of coffee or tea can be very exciting.
I am fine with online only interactions, with the caveat that I am not always available, and that RL still is a preference to Me.
While by far and large most of My interactions are with submissives and slaves, I do not mind mentoring or discussing topics with Dominants and S/switches. Some of My very best Friends are Dominants.
The other thing that rubs Me the wrong way at times, is how some people have this false sense of purity where it comes to BDSM. As if BDSM somehow is more pure than other kinks. To Me I am into kink first and foremost. I love kink. And YKINMK, and that is OK. It is not needed for Me to approve your kink, nor vice verse. If it is somewhat legal, and you can find a consensual partner, all the more power to you. Also, I believe BDSM and especially D/s can be very very sexual, and that is OK. That with certain partners it is about hard cocks and wet pussy. It may not be with all partners/interactions, and it may not be for everybody, but I have had it with the BDSM purity movement. Humans are sexual creatures, Freud was on the right track.
Anyway, if you made it this far down and liked what you read, contact Me, and let's go from there.
XO,
p.s. Given this seems to confuse people at times, while to me it is crystal clear in all my writings; here are a couple of disclaimers (especially geared towards people who might have an interest beyond friendship):
  • Monogamy is not my thing
  • While not monogamous, I do enjoy meaningful relationships, rather than those that resemble revolving doors or merry-go-rounds where people get on and off at will w/o consideration.
  • Exclusive agreements are not my thing nor do I expect exclusivity from the people I engage with.
  • It is safe to assume that at any given time I have involvements with multiple people
  • none of this should stand in the way of us being friends or in contact with each other

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helpmehurtme
 
 Age: 18
 Vidalia, Louisiana