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OK, just a quick note. If you have messaged me and I haven't replied it is because I am in the middle of finals week and have major papers, projects, and assignments due. I am not ignoring you just trying to concentrate on school. |
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Okay, just felt the need to do a disclaimer here. Caution....I do bite. I love to bite. I never break the skin but I do bite. Okay, you have been forewarned. Thank you and good night. ~evil giggles~ |
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I have been actively searching again and I seem to keep getting asked, "What are you looking for in a sub/slave/pet?" So, I figured that I would elaborate a little more about what I am looking for in a male sub in particular. I want to start by reminding you that I do have over 20 years in the lifestyle and I have tried and owned just about every type of sub out there and every gender out there. I consider myself more of an old world style and I want that strong male knight that pledges himself to me. I want a strong male that willingly wants to serve me whether it be to protect me or to please me behind closed doors. I don't want an automaton that I have to micromanage. I want him to be able to stand on his own two feet and only serves me not because he is weak and needs to but because he is strong and wants to. |
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Okay, I have edited my profile to relfect this but felt the need to mention it as well on here. I am the Dominant. If I want you to wear clothes, then you should wear clothes. It is not as if I am asking you to cut a body part off. I have a very good reason why I want clothes worn. I have had several "slaves" and I say slave because that is what they classified themselves as tell me that they couldn't serve me because I wanted them to wear clothes. HELLO??!!! I have a minor living in my home!!!! If you can't handle that then get over it. He does know about the lifestyle so it's not as if you have to act a certain way. I just want some frickin' clothing on a body while he is around. HOW HARD IS THAT??! |
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~steps on my soapbox~ I am soooo sick of seeing all the profiles that are nothing but cam girls. GRRRR!! I understand you want to make money but quit advertising on here under a false pretense. You get money use some of it to pay for real advertising. In my opinion, you are just giving real submissive females a bad name. Oh, and that goes for the Dommes that want tribute as well. Get a clue and stop giving us real Dommes a bad rap. It's hard enough to find a good sub that you click with let alone having to weed out the bs of cam girls and stuff. ~steps off my soap box~ This message was brought to you by the poeple of "GetReal"...when you need the real thing just Get Real. |
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Well, I decided that I needed to do something for summer and myself. So, I chopped my hair off and dyed it a dark burgandy. I LOVE IT!! I will try to get pics up soon of the new do. It is so much cooler and easier to take care of now. I plan on letting it grow back out but needed it a little shorter for the summer. I was down past the middle of my back and getting in the way. Now it is shoulder length and flirty. |
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Some submissive males wonder why they can't find someone to serve. I will give some of you an example of what NOT to do. I get a message that was more than one sentence and in response I sent one back that more than one sentence. Apparently because I don't have Yahoo (it makes my pc lock up), because I cant chat on here (because it makes my pc lock up), and I wont give him my phone number after just ONE message, I am wasting his time. I would like to point out that I did give him an alternative method to chat (skype). But did he ask about that? No. He sent this in reply. "no phone, no yahoo messenger, no chat here??? I have no time to waste. why do you girsl even put up a profile ??? dont yu know us guys are here to meet?" Guys just a tip this is not the way to impress a woman! |
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Okay, to avoid answering these questions another hundred times it feels like....My mate is a Male Dominate. No, he does not dominate me. We are equals. No he is not bi. If you are a male sub/pet/slave, you are not required to do anything sexual with him. |
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It is very aggravating to have to even mention this but....just because I am polite when conversing DOESN'T mean that I am not a Dominate. I follow the rule lead by example so I am polite and expect others to be polite as well. If you think that I'm not just because I am civil and polite, then you need to look elsewhere. I don't expect respect I intend to earn it but, if you can't show a little in regards that I'm a person first (setting the whole BDSM thing aside) then get lost. |
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Okay, please read my profile before you send me a message. I can tell when you haven't. We are still looking for pets, subs, and slaves both female and male. We are very picky and if we both don't agree on someone then friends is the only place it will go. |
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Well, just been going and doing lately, unfortunately not any subs though, lol. Been hanging out on Im V U a lot with some friends. so if youre looking to talk with me catch me on there as MLadyWynd. Its purrrrrrrfectly fun. |
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Since last entry, got stiches out twice, first time doc took them out too soon, woke up the next morning and the entire incision was busted open. So, I had to go to the ER and get stiches put right back in again. So then, go to my doc to get stiches out b/c the one who did my 2nd surgery is like 2 hours away. Well, he didnt take them out the right way and I still have one stich sticking out of my arm and cant get it out b/c the knot on the stich is under the healed over skin. Im really losing faith in doctors period. Oh, and another subbie bites the dust. She said everthing was fine and come home to find her packing and leaving. Ok, no more live in subbies at the moment, if you cant support yourself, dont bother. We dont mind helping and we want a live in but we are not a halfway house to come to and live in pay your way and then you bail on us without so much a thank you. |
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Just to let all know...surgery went well, no skin graft...YAY!! Still recovering so if you see that Ive read your mail and have not responded its not that Im not going to respond just that I dont feel very good at the moment. Also I wanted to say thank you to all who have sent Me well wishes, thanks a lot. |
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Well, have surgery in 2 days, ugh, cant wait....can you hear the sarcasim? pinky is still here and working out great, she has been a real life saver with Me being sick. I do wonder though why it is soooo hard to find a male subby when there are soooo many out there. Oh well, guess the fates will send one sooner or later. I do so hope its sooner than later. |
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Well, I officially feel really old, My babies are now teenagers as of last week. Also, I think we have found our female submissive. She has been living with us for 3 weeks now and acting in a 24/7 compacity and everything is working out great. Still looking for a male subby that is closer to us or willing to relocate in the future. Ive also been sick again, I had a malignant melonoma removed from My arm and I have surgery again in about a month to remove more. |
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Things have been soooo hectic with everything going on....No time to breathe, I try to check mail but sometimes dont even get a chance to get on the pc...ugh. I will try to get back to you if you messaged Me when I get a chance. |
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If you sent Me a message and I havent responded, its because I had wisdom teeth removed this week and am a little slow on replying. Be patient. |
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Greetings,
OK, new year, new objectives. If anyone in the area from Pensacola to Destin would like to attend a munch, please contact either Me or Krosis. We are trying to get a local munch started in this area. If you have any questions or would like to attend please let Us know. This if for Dom/mes, Switches and subs/slaves alike. We are interested in an exchange of ideas and learning for all involved. |
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*pulls out soapbox, dusts it off, and puposely steps up onto it* Ok, for the intelligent people you need not read the following unless you want to be reminded of the stupidity..... when emailing someone especially on a site like this.... "ots called slimfast use it" is NOT I repeat NOT the way to elicit a POSITIVE response from someone. If you feel this way, thats fine but not all do, and while I encourage speaking ones mind, be downright rude and nasty just shows how stupid and small-minded you really are. The following was brought to you by F.H.A. (Fat Haters
Anonymous) for the people(using the term losely here) that dont realize that people come in all shapes and sizes.... * steps down off the soap box and puts it away in the closet* |
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Ok, Ive edited My profile yet again. So, if it doesnt take this time Im covering My bases. I do NOT like to be called Ma'am. I know it is the stardard but it makes Me feel old. I prefer M'Lady, Milady or Lady. |
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HAPPY TURKEY DAY!! I hope that everyone had fun and got stuffed!!! |
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Im glad to say that Im finally better after another course of antibiotics. I have caught up on all mail and have been browsing through the site. I have been reading and looking at a lot of profiles and have wondered about a couple of things. One of great interest to Me is...chastity. All the subs/slaves that put chastity on their profiles why do you put it there. Im curious to know the reasons behind it. Is it to show that you have the intentions to be faithful to your future owner or is it because you think that is what a future owner would like to see? I have tried to think up some of the reasons but if you have chastity on your profile and would do Me the favor of satisfying My curiousity on this matter I would be much appreciated if you would message Me and let Me know. |
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First, I would like to say thank you to all who have sent Me well wishes and get better soon. Im doing better but am still sick. When the doctor told Me that it would take 6-8 weeks to get over this I thought he was crazy, not anymore. To make matters worse I got bronchitis on top of things and had to go to the ER for a breathing treatment at which time they put Me on an inhaler to help with the breathing on top of all the meds, yay, that was fun, NOT. Im still working on mails so continue to be patient as I have good days and bad days. |
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Ok, if you have messaged Me and have not gotten a response yet be patient. I found out yesterday that I have H1N1. Im on bedrest and lots of medications. Ive been sick for a couple of days now but just got to the doctor yesterday when My fever spiked at over 102. |
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It's been forever since Ive had a chance to be on here. Ive been busy helping My sister (she's been really sick, hospitalized three times and had a couple of surgeries over the past 8 months) not to mention Ive been really sick off and on as well. Still looking for some subbies...if youre interested please feel free to message either Me or Krosis. Oh and for future reference "mmm" is not a message!!!!! |
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Well, I never thought that I would say this, but.... Im a mini van driver....ugh Im so old now....LOL!! It does come in handy when I have all the nieces and nephews plus Mine with Me. Still looking for subs seems like timing is always off. If youre a sub and want to wash a mini van, let Me or Krosis know. |
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WOW!!! Its been awhile since I wrote anything here. Well, the holidays are done...thank any and all gods that will listen. I went through them sick as a dog and even had a nice ER visit. Lost My voice and Ld. Krosis called Me sqeaky for about 4 days. Oh, so fun. (I could have tied Him up and beat Him if only I had had the strength at the time) We are still looking for subbies for those who wish to know. Oh, and fogot to mention on top of the holiday stuff and the sick stuff, a week before xmas My car decided that it had had enough and QUIT on Me. Engine totally shot to....well you get the picture. Ok, that is all done with and on to the new year with a new attitude and waiting on new surprises. |
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Ok, apparently I need to further explain some things. One, I dont do married men unless either the wife knows or is involved. I dont mind talking and answering qustions but dont expect anything futher. I could have swore that I have stated this before. Second, if you contact and chat for a bit then dont want to talk anymore thats fine say goodbye or even go to hell, but dont just stop Iming Me and that be it especially if you contacted Me first. That is just plain rude!!!!! |
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Well, We got the pool up and running, ugh, that was a lot of work. Im still trying to convince Krosis to go skinny dipping with Me after dark. He wont do it, ;-( !!! OK, add that to the list of things that I expect, a sub that doesnt mind going skinny dipping after dark in the pool. *evil giggles* |
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I just realized how long it has been since I did a journal entry. Well, lets see....I havent been online much due to some health stuff but Im better and doing great. Me and Krosis are still looking why are the ones that One is really interested in so far away?? Ugh! Anyways, just a reminder please dont call Me Ma'am, it makes Me feel old and please dont call Me Mistress, I havent collared you yet. I prefer MLady. Thanks have a good day!!! |
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Its been awhile!!! Just been busy with the holidays and such. Myself and Krosis are still on the great subbie hunt although We have talked to a few that seem promising nothing has panned out yet. So, still accepting applications. Hope A/all had a wonderful holiday!!!!  |
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If you are just going to call Me names and cuss at Me just dont bother responding to My email. I asked a simple question out of curiousity. What did a particular slave think was enormous when talking about body size since they made a major notation on their profile. The answer I got and I quote "Fuck off you fat sack of shit!" Then they blocked Me so I couldnt respond. Very adult and very slave like, dont you think??? |
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Ok, more talking going on. I forgot how much discussion goes into a Dom/Domme ran household. Of course Im getting back into the goove of things. We both have added to Our profiles on here that We are together and We might be putting up a couple account. Hopefully We will find the ones that We are looking for to complete Our household. One thing though I told Him was that He had to change His pic on His profile, it just doesnt do Him justice. |
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Well, Krosis is finally here. He made the move last week and things are going great. We have had a lot of discussions to determine in which direction We wish to take the household. Due to some unforseen circumstances We now have openings for not only a female but a male domestic sub/slave as well. Either contact Myself or Krosis on here if interested. |
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Well, Ive been working hard at My new job and havent really been on here much. I love My new job 10 times better than the other one even though I work My butt off now. Physical activity can be damned good for you. "evil giggles" Anyways, feel free to contact Me. Im still looking for a "good" girl to add to My household. If anyone knows of one that likes to be spoiled but isnt a complete brat and is looking to pledge themselves to a household then drop Me a line. |
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Well, just thought I would say something of what I like since I really havent. One of My favorite things is teasing. Im sure most have done it or experienced it but Im talking about intense, lengthy teasing. To Me, its the sensualness of touch, caress, a light breath across the back of the neck or other body parts that makes it all worth it. Dont you think? |
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Oh, really intelligent blocking someone. No, I dont want you to lick My A$$, especially if I dont even frickin know you. |
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Why is it that some of the good ones are so far away? Dang I really need to get that teleport spell working. If only I could, ahhh, the fun that we would have. LOL |
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Ok, first of all, if you contact Me please be original, dont just copy and paste what your profile says. Second, if Im chatting with you, and I dont answer for a min. be patient, if you cant wait 2 min. for Me to answer then you are not for Me. I dont see you serving Me if you cant wait a couple of min. for Me to come back to the computer if Im afk a moment and didnt say anything or if Im talking to another person. I always am chatting with several people and I always answer Dominants messages first, so if youre a sub/slave or claim to be, then wait a moment its only respectful. |
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Once again Im having to put on here, looks like what was planned will not be happening. Due to some unforseen circumstances relocation is off, indefinately. So, now Im very tired of searching. I would like a personal sub/slave. I dont want to micromange. I do want someone who will help Me with the running of day to day activities within the home. Ive recently started a new job and Im trying to go to school so I have little time and need someone who will do the domestic things for Me and to pamper Me a little. There is more but I will only discuss that once we have established a bit of a connection. |
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Ok, some good news. One of My boys came for a wonderful 10 day spring break visit. I had a wonderful time and got to do lots of playing and have some new pics of My handy work with a rope to show for it. If all goes well he will be all Mine by this summer. Cant wait. Hope A/all had as good of a spring break as I did. |
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Well, I have a question. How hard is it to send a reply? I mean a simple "no, thanks" or " im not interested" isnt that hard especially after someone takes the time to send at least a paragraph and sometimes more than one. I mean I think the lifestyle has to have some formality and manners involved and it is only polite to reply to someone. I reply to everyone who sends Me a message even it is " thank you for your interest but Im not interested at this time." Some people!! Ok, on to something better. krosis, My new boy who I hope will have more than just a courting collar on soon, will be here in 14 days and about 17 hours. I know is cheesy but I cant wait. |
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Ok, haven't updated this in a little while. I hope that all have had a Happy Holiday and have a Happy New Year as well. Ok, on to other things. Im currently actively seeking a female sub/slave. I thought that I had found a good potential but it didnt work out so I am now back to searching for a new girl. Just some things that Im looking for: intelligence, good personality, and a wicked sense of humor. I dont care about looks or body type just that you are secure with yourself and are willing to wear what I pick for you. I base of manners is required but no previous serving experience is needed. Ok, that's all for now. Until next our paths shall meet may the Fates watch and protect. |
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Ok, just need to say something. Although I dont care where one lives, I am looking for an eventual real time, live in, 24/7 relationship. I dont mind talking or chatting but if you are not willing to relocate or to help Me relocate to you then please dont expect for anything more than friendship and guidence if I can provide it. Im trying to be polite about this but I do not do online or over the phone trainning. I dont mind chatting over the phone or online in the beginning that I can understand but eventually relocating will be necessary. |
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This is Me trying to explain what I mean by a deeper connection.
I will be your Queen,
Until the end of time,
Until the Heavens fall into the seas,
And until they rise again to create an utopia
For us to dwell and exist in together.
Because when we are together,
I can feel the power we create,
I can hear your thoughts in My mind,
I can sense your presence in My heart
And I can see are souls entwined.
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*pulls out soapbox, dusts it off, sets it down, steps up to the mic* Ahem... *pufh pufh* Hello, thank you for coming today. I would just like to address one quick thing that has recently come to My attention. Now, I have read this on other journal entries and profiles, and never thought that I would actually have to get up here and say something Myself. Being a Dominant takes more than just insisting that someone call you Sir or Ma'am, it takes respect for others including the subs that serve you, they fullfill a purpose and are the compliment and other half of the Top, if there wasnt subs/slaves then there would be no Dominants or Masters/Mistresses. Some dont understand this and they are sadly mistaken and need to get it through their thick skulls. Thank you...*steps down off My soap box* |
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OK, just an update. Im back on the market for subs. Im still talking with and guardian of My allie girl but the male I was considering was a fake. Here lately that's all I can seem to find. Ok, just a little jaded against the male subs right now. If you are male and up for a challenge contact Me. Oh, just be real or just dont bother. |
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I am finally back online.....YEAH!!! Does the happy dance...go me go me go me.....! Ok, I think Im done now. If you sent me a message and I didnt reply Im sorry, I have been without internet for a bit, for those of you that have emailed me recently then I will try to answer you soon. |
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Ok, just for the record, I do have pics, I just added/changed Mine and they have not been approved yet. If you want to see a pic of Me just send Me a message and I will send you one. Im not shy about sending a pic just dont expect it to be a nude one. |
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Greetings A/all....I had a wonderful 3-day weekend!!!! I hope A/all had one as well. I had company for the entire weekend. (waves hi at him...hello sweetie) Things are going very well, but dont want to jinx anything. We got to play a little and took lots of pics, Im sure he is going to put some up on his profile. Man I sure do love purple ropes.  Well, now I cant wait for My allie girl to come and visit for My bday in a couple of weeks....it seems things are going well in the family department but yet again I dont want to jinx anything. |
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...I would like to interrupt your regularly scheduled program with a short announment.....Well, I have some news to report. I had a blast at My event, I just needed a vacation to recover from My vacation. LOL Well, I met lots of new people and made some new F/friends as well as visiting with old F/friends. I met one person in particular and he has some potential to being collared BUT, I have better news than that, I now have a wonderful, beautiful girl that I met on here. she's funny, charming, intelligent, beautiful, and willing to learn. Hey My allie girl! Ok, now back to your regularly scheduled program. |
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well, have a big event coming up. Ive been packing and hopefully will be done before I leave on sat. Im going to Gulf Wars.(for inquiring minds, it is a week long Medieval event with about 7,000 people in attendence.) Would be nice if I had someone to help pack and stuff, and would be even better if had a couple of subs going with Me. Alas, Im still searching.*sigh* Anyways back to packing, have a good spring break for T/those that are having it now or next week. *singing* "It's the SCA world as we know it....Its the SCA world as we know....Oh Its the SCA world as we know it.....living out of time......* |
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Well, I thought that I would elaborate a little on what I am and am not looking for in My life. I want a poly household, some say that it is wrong and that you cant truly have one without jealousy getting in the way. I say it is not true, I have been in 2 different poly households so far in My life and although Im searching for another jealousy was not the reason why they no longer exist. As for subs, I want intelligent, caring people with a sense of humor. Im not into humiliation and Im not into major pain, although I can dish it out (forgive the cliche) if and when it is needed or wanted. I want more than a D/s relationship. I want a connection on a deeper level. I dont care what level of experience that the sub has, everyone has to start somewhere and learn. I just want sincerity and a willingness to serve and learn and grow. |
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Ive been reading profiles again. Why do I keep reading in journals about Domme's asking for tribute? I have something to say to that, stop being stupid, quit asking, its people like you who ruin the good subs for Us Dommes who are real and looking for a caring LTR. Thank you for reading. This little entry was brought to you today via our sponsors Hipps....because E/everyone needs protection when they are hip deep in...IT! |
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Well, I think that I need to elaborate a little on what I am seeking. I want someone with intelligence, HONESTY, caring, a sense of humor, and did I mention HONESTY. Let Me please repeat for the thick-skulled of the world HONESTY. Ok now, with that being said, please understand that Im a person too, just because Im a Dominant doesnt mean that I dont have feelings as well. Im tired of wannabes who just want to play with themselves while I talk to them. No, sorry, keep moving. When I say contact Me, so that W/we can get better aquainted that is not the aquainted Im talking about. This rant was brought to you today via our sponsors Shove It because everyone needs a little shovel in there life. |
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Im in a melancholy mood today. Dont know why. I have had contact with some subs and looking at them for possible training. I will have to learn more about them of course even so, something just feels off today. And the search continues.
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OK, TIP OF THE DAY. Just a quick tip to help out the socially challenged of the world.
TIP # 225: When contacting a Dominant for the first time, it is not a good idea for the submissive to cuss at Them. Some might take it the wrong way and become greatly offended by the choice of words.
Thank Y/you for reading the tip of the day. Now back to Y/your regularly scheduled program. |
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HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Ok, Ive got that out of My system. I got to ring in the new year with My sisters out and about the town, I had lots of fun and danced all night long, literally. I crawled into bed about 5am. Ouch, now all I need is a subby to give Me a massage. Oh, well, hope that this year yields better sucess on that front. Until Next O/our Paths Shall Meet. |
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Well, Xmas is done and as usual My son made out like a bandit. I didnt do too bad. I got a new watch and some jewerly. Well, I hope that E/everyone has a Very Happy New Years! See A/all next year and I just hope that next year turns out to be better than this year was. |
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Well, Finals are DONE!!! Ok, now I can breath until next semester. It sure would be nice to have a sub to come home to with a nice cup of Hot Cider or Hot Chocolate waiting for Me but alas, I havent found one yet. Patience is a virture. Happy Holidays to A/all. |
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Well, I've been away for awhile due to being real busy between school, work and the little dragon. Im still looking and hopefully will have some decent prospects soon. Football season has started again, so just wanted to say GO GATORS!!!
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I wanted to add a note to My profile. I want A/all to understand that what Im looking for is something LONG term, do not expect to email Me and then automatically play or scene. I want to get to know each O/other first. I want this to be MORE than just a D/s relationship. I dont mind friendly chatting and answering questions. OK, I just wanted to reiterate. WM |
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ok, Im still looking for My family. The search is hard but I intend to have a good family in the end. For A/all those interested in My family just send Me a quick note and I will get back to Y/you. |
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