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Here is the thing about writing something like this its like a long winded equation to figure out what x equals. In our case x is represented by a good and complete profile.
Lets look at some of the variables in our profile equation. Obviously you need to look at some of the basics like who, what, where, when, and why. Which means using that logic
w1 + w2 + w3 + w4 + w5 x
Lets start by stating those variables
w1 Who
Im a dorky, service oriented, protocol loving, masochistic, submissive that has found amazing enjoyment in pushing boundaries and living outside my comfort zone. I am work obsessed, goal-oriented, and continue to stride for success.
In some instances we need to ask why for some of our elements in who. Why am I dorky? I love things of the electronic era, I grew up enjoying science fiction, fantasy, and mario brothers. I think Scott Pilgrim is an amazingly groovy movie, and from time to time youll find me using words like groovy and gnarly. I was asked once by someone if I ever considered serving at a party, I was a little confused by what she meant, and since then Ive become more attached to being driven by my enjoyment of serving others than I ever would have thought when I was first asked if I was interested. I enjoy rules and structure, but sometimes I find it nice to move away from that, this can both be incredibly challenging for me, and sometimes relieving.
My work means a lot to me, and I love doing it. When Im in the zone I love long days, and strongly believe in you need to work hard to play hard. (Play in the sense of hanging out with friends not in the kink sense). A perfect way of spending a weekend involves, a barbecue, a nice summer evening, and a great group of friends. I like keeping my personal life just that, until I get to know you, at that point I do love to share that part of my life with friends.
After stating the who we need to ask ourselves what support do we have to that statement? The What gives us a firm understanding of who we are? Looking at that we need to move on and state what the what represents.w2 what
What makes me masochistic? I have found a love for toys that I once forgot how to enjoy. Im reminded that that things that sting is tons of fun, and needles that poke get two thumbs up. Despite my experience with needles not as high as others, it is an area of play I am actively looking at exploring more and more. This isnt just the end of the list of kinks I love, but more just the wonderful surface of a level of constant exploration. it wasnt till the last three months I learned shockingly that some s of humiliation is a-okay! What I have learned is that saying Ill never try that, is not a statement I use anymore. Ive spent time conquering fears and pushing limits I thought Id never push.
Ive been fortunate enough to have an amazing support structure of friends who continue to be there for me. My friends mean the world to me, as I just mentioned I feel very fortunate with the friends Ive met since coming out, and have ed bonds with people I would have never thought I would have ed such deep bonds with. The friends in my life have given me confidence to try many things and have pushed me in the shyest of moments.
What makes me tick? Driven, confident and well rounded individuals. I believe in surrounding yourself with people that you can look up to and learn from and hope that they feel the same with you. I find smart people sexy, and love to learn from others.
The what helps us verify the who, It is the support structure of the previous variable and continues to help us obtain x The where is positioned in to our statement to give readers an understanding of both the physical where and the emotional where. Where is the writer located? Never fear dear reader, I know the where is kindly positioned above my name on this page, but lets be safe and state the obvious.w3 where
Ive been actively part of both the Toronto, and Ottawa community for the better part of five years. In the past six months work has kept me away from getting out to events that I enjoy going to, but with a little bit of breathing room I am in the process of getting back out to events. Despite no longer living in Ottawa, I still find myself heading back up there often to see an amazing friend, and doing so I still get to enjoy some of the great things that some of the Ottawa events offer. My heart is always in Toronto, there is something about this city I truly love. I like traveling when ever I can, and have an undying urge to ski more parts of the world, but coming back to Toronto is always nice. Recently Ive had the chance to check out more parties outside of Toronto, and Ottawa, and would love to check out new events while clocking more travel time in the process.
In conjunction with the where one needs to ask themselves when as well. In writing a profile the when is suppose to give the reader the opportunity to identify where the writer is coming from. It is suppose a bond between reader and writer. Lastly it helps give some background to where the writer is coming from.w4 when
It is about six years now since I first came out to my first event. Still to today one of the most challenging things Ive done was swallowed my shyness and made it out to my first event. Two years after that I swallowed that same shyness and in the same year I met two friends who have had a major influence on my life, both inside and out of kink. When I first came out like many others I really didnt know what I was getting myself in to, I lacked the level of confidence that I have now, and had no idea Id find myself exploring things that I am exploring to date. Since than I look to push limits and learn new things, I look to ask myself hard questions, and learn from those around me. Since moving back to Toronto a couple of years ago Ive fallen in to some old habits I had when I first came out, it has been the last few months Ive nearly put myself back on the path I once was on.
After looking at the when one can start ulating the why Our writer needs to explain the points he has written out before his audience, ties things in and leaves our reader with the understanding that x is near.*w5 why
Previously I had mentioned that I was learning to break away from a comfort zone. This year I made one promise to myself, and that I would spend every opportunity I could get living outside my comfort zone. Since than Ive had the chance to do things that I would not have normally done. The first three months of this adventure has been insightfully and educating, its helped my learn new things of myself. I felt that I owed myself this since it had been a while since I looked myself in the mirror and asked what I was doing to help my own self development. I love being in a service position, where I can find a level of happiness in others enjoyment. As said above, a few years ago I stopped saying Ill never try that, because I have found 90 of the things I swore I would never try I love doing.
Once the variables are explained it is easy for our writer to draw a conclusion x in this case. X is a product of each variable put together to give the reader an understanding of the writer and the profile.x the final points
Its been a wild few years of highs and lows, of meeting great friends, and pushing boundaries beyond my wildest dreams. Ive gone from unsure of myself to saying Im proudly submissive, but dont interpret that as being a doormat. My leaving thoughts are that I seek to expand horizons and look forward to learning what else ill never do.
It is here the
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